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Where is my girlfriend? Why can't I find one?

Q.   Why am I still single?? I haven't had a girlfriend in six months, I'm in a nice guy, I work out, I know how to treat women and yet I haven't had a lick of interest from a woman in some time now. My ex-girlfriend got a new guy within a few weeks ...

A.   11 August 2011: You just have to believe that you will someday find the woman that is ment for you and only you... She is out there dont give up...... (read in full...)

Movement in my stomach, What could be causing this?

Q.   Okay I am VERY sure I am not pregnant. About 11-12 weeks ago I had sex. Anal none the less. It was 3 days after i started a new pack of the pill (which i have been on for over a year now) Off and on I feel movement in my stomach...I am n...

A.   11 August 2011: My stomach does the same thing.... Its just muscle spasms, but just in case you should have it checked... (read in full...)

How do I stay strong for my family and friends?

Q.   I went to the Doctor on Friday to find out about a lump on my back. The doctor told me that i was to have surgery to take it out. He said it could be one of three things, 1. Cancer 2. Tumor 3. Cyst. We are hoping for a Cyst but im scared. I try ...

A.   11 August 2011: Sorry Its been a while since I posted this but I decided to get on here and look at things... Come to find out it was a Tumor but It was Binine. I was so relieved... Thank you for all your support!... (read in full...)

Almost two year old wont listen what do I do

Q.   My almost two year old is driving me crazy she wont listen at all. Ive tried spanking time out everything even when i spank her and tell her no i say this is why u got in trouble i dont want u doing this anymore she still does it. Help idk what to ...

A.   3 December 2010: Its the terrible twos most two year olds do that. It will get better.... (read in full...)

For all women

Q.   Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...

A.   28 November 2010: I have but one word... Wow!!!... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much between the lines?

Q.   OK here is the deal. I've been seeing my specialist doctor for over 2 years. From the moment I met him I found him very attractive but I never acted up on my attraction because I wanted to keep it strictly professional even though he would tell me ...

A.   28 November 2010: Go for it i wish you luck... :D... (read in full...)

Why are younger women attracted to older men?

Q.   I am posting this to ask for opinions more so than answers. It is my hope that the opinions expressed by people in reply to this can help me to answer my question - myself. What I would like to get your opinions on is this Why do you think tha...

A.   28 November 2010: Im attracted to older men because not only are they more experienced but they most likely are more mature... The Maturity is what drags us in and the experience is what keeps us... I would rather date a man much older than me than dating some one my ... (read in full...)

What else can I do to woo her?

Q.   I'm a guy who oves his girl, very much, two people couldnt be more in love and right for each other. Due to recent activity I don't get to see her as often as I would like, she doesn't live too far away but I want to do SOMETHING straight from the...

A.   27 November 2010: That is so sweet that you would do something like this. Try by making a romantic picnic dinner for two somewhere special. Just make it you two and make sure its a surprise to her until the exact moment you bring her there. Take her to the one ... (read in full...)

2 great guys want to marry me! I don't know which to chose!

Q.   Hey All , i am a 24 years old i have my perfect CALM life .. i never felt i needed love in my life .. many guys wanted to be with me but till now no one of any captured my heart. in those past couple of days, a guy came to our house asking for marr...

A.   26 November 2010: Just follow your heart and believe in yourself... Tell them you need time to decide spend some time with them get to know them more and in about a month decide... ... (read in full...)

How do I get away from my abusive mother?

Q.   Hi, I'm 18 years old and live with both my parents and my sister. For the last, approximately, five years I've been subjected to frequent rages from my mother. In the majority of these she has been very violent towards me, often bruising my face ...

A.   26 November 2010: Talk to your friends see if you can move in with one of them until you can find a steady job and a cheap but nice apartment... Your mother shouldnt be treating you like this... Dont let it get to you and watch your sister after you move out to see ... (read in full...)

He kicked me and I'm scared now I have to be in class with him every day

Q.   im 14 and the other day me and my boyfriend (who is also 14) were walkin to school and he was with all his mates and he whistled at my freind and calle her a slag and i said he was a pr*ick and walked off but he grabbed my arm and pushed me over but ...

A.   25 November 2010: Dont EVER let a guy treat you like that do not let him get to you, show that you are not scared of him... Be strong im praying for you...... (read in full...)

Is it normal to still feel scared of your parents when you've been on your own?

Q.   Hi, my bf and I really want a baby - his family are thrilled whereas mine think I'll be throwing my life away if I get pregnant. I'm 20, my partners 21. I'm too scared to start trying because of my parents reaction. My mum said she wouldn't be ...

A.   25 November 2010: It is your life not theirs so dont let their reaction stop you...... (read in full...)

I caught my sister masturbating

Q.   I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?...

A.   25 November 2010: How would you feel if your sister told something privet about yourself to your parents... You would be angry with her... Just let it go you dont need to tell on her what she was doing was a part of life... ... (read in full...)

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to be saying these things? Or is he crazy to want to come and meet me?

Q.   no body replied to my question so i have to post it again.plzzzzz reply. Im in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,...

A.   25 November 2010: I think it is sweet that he wants to see you so bad... Your best bet is to talk to your cousin about your boyfriend coming to the reception (Not the Wedding cause that is like for family if you know what i mean). If he says no then talk to your dad ... (read in full...)

I caught my housemates bitching about me being gay - I can't forgive them. Help?

Q.   I currently share a house with two girls. We’ve known each other for two years and through out those two years we’ve always been best friends. We’ve been through a lot with each other and I’d like to think we’ve there for one another at different ...

A.   25 November 2010: I am Bi Sexual and I am proud of who I am just like you should be proud of who you are... No matter what your friends think they cant change you and you should be proud of who you are... Just go day by day... Talk to your girlfriend about it...... (read in full...)

What else can I say other than I'm frustrated?

Q.   My "guy friend" says that I need to use more words when we are "playing" around. All I can say is I'm frustrated when he is teasing me. He is a very vocal person and wishes that I would be to when we are "playing". He makes me lose my mind I cant ...

A.   23 November 2010: So i figured out what he ment he didnt want me to think of new words he wanted me to speak my mind not to hold back what i was thinking. I feel so much better now that i know what he ment. ... (read in full...)

How do I stay strong for my family and friends?

Q.   I went to the Doctor on Friday to find out about a lump on my back. The doctor told me that i was to have surgery to take it out. He said it could be one of three things, 1. Cancer 2. Tumor 3. Cyst. We are hoping for a Cyst but im scared. I try ...

A.   23 November 2010: The younger ones are 12 9 and 6 so they are not that little. I know i should let my guard down but i cant help trying to hide it. I hate to see my family members upset that is the one thing that bothers me. An I promise you guys will be the next ... (read in full...)

I'm not supposed to like him but I do...

Q.   ok so i sorta have a crush on my moms bf son.hah ik bad. i like him so so much he is a sweet caring sensitive guy we are both teenagers. he always stares at me, i catch him so much and he would smile sometimes or laugh. he walks close to me and when ...

A.   22 November 2010: It doesnt matter if ur mother is dating his father. All that matters is that you like him and maybe he likes you. Dont listen to ppl who say its gross. Just talk to him tell him u like him and make sure that he knows that no matter what if his ... (read in full...)

For two years I've been with this widower but why does he keep me a secret?

Q.   i have been seeing with a widower for two years, his wife sadly passed away three years ago december. He has three grown up children, but i am unsure that he has told them about me, he spends alot of time with me and my children (young), the ...

A.   22 November 2010: Dont give up hope! Calmly Talk to him about his family and ask him why you havent met them yet.... (read in full...)

Am I doing enough for his birthday?

Q.   Ok so my boyfriend's birthday is tomorrow and he will be turning 30. I am worried I am not getting him enough or anything spectacular. So far the plan has been to take him to his favorite restaurant, super expensive and he has only been there once ...

A.   22 November 2010: It is the thought that counts. What you have gotten him is enough. He loves you he will love it.... (read in full...)

The Myth of Virginity?

Q.   Why does society pose so much pressure on the idea of 'Virginity'? Many religions see that virginity is some sort of important rite of passage, from girl to woman. Others see that a virgin is clean and pure, once she has had sex, she is impure, s...

A.   22 November 2010: Its not your virginity that makes you pure...... (read in full...)

I don't feel pretty.

Q.   i am 13 im ugly with brown spots (one above my lip and one on my cheek on the other side) on my face, i have dark brown eyes, and my friends alway call me pretty, even though im sure im not. i hate how there are so pretty people and i aint even half ...

A.   22 November 2010: You are beautiful no matter what it doesnt matter what is on the outside its what is on the inside that counts... Trust me...... (read in full...)

I want my mom to treat me like an adult, not a kid!

Q.   My mom treats me like i am 6 when im 18. When I tell her to treat me like im 18 she says she doesnt have time to deal with me. How do I tell her to stop treating me like a little kid?...

A.   15 November 2010: I have abandonment issues so it would be hard to move out of the house. An i have always been mature for my age. Its hard not to fight with her we are two red heads in one house hold and our tempers get the best of us. My grandparents treat me ... (read in full...)

What else can I say other than I'm frustrated?

Q.   My "guy friend" says that I need to use more words when we are "playing" around. All I can say is I'm frustrated when he is teasing me. He is a very vocal person and wishes that I would be to when we are "playing". He makes me lose my mind I cant ...

A.   11 November 2010: Im very comfortable around him. When I ask him what i should say he says think about it. Then starts touching me barely which F's my mind up so i cant think at all.... (read in full...)

What else can I say other than I'm frustrated?

Q.   My "guy friend" says that I need to use more words when we are "playing" around. All I can say is I'm frustrated when he is teasing me. He is a very vocal person and wishes that I would be to when we are "playing". He makes me lose my mind I cant ...

A.   11 November 2010: I want to be more vocal I just don't know what to say. My mind goes blank and all i can say is im frustrated.... (read in full...)

What can I do, say, or wear to get guys to want me ?

Q.   what is something you can do to get a guy to want you? i mean like really want you lol. should i wear different clothes or change how i look? what are somethings i can say to get him to know i want him?...

A.   11 November 2010: How about you be yourself. Why be someone your not. Its who you are that counts not who they want you to be. Just trust yourself and believe in yourself and you're there.... (read in full...)

In the end doesn't it only matter about maturity in the situation, not age?

Q.   So at the end of last summer me and this older guy really started something. We met through one of my close friends one day and later that night hooked up in the back of his car (No sex). I was expecting it to be a one night thing, but we started ...

A.   11 November 2010: It is your choice not your friends. Just remember even if he has protection things can go wrong that is how i got my first nephew. Just follow your heart. Yes age might be a problem but when is it not. The guy I am "Seeing" is ten years older ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever come across the male counterpart of a cock-tease?

Q.   Hello all. I was talking with someone earlier this evening who told me a story of coming across a 'minge-tease' or the male equivalent of a cock-tease in her recent dating life. I was wondering, if any of you had ever come across this yourselves ...

A.   11 November 2010: The guy I have been seeing will touch me and make me feel good but as soon as i get into it he stops and says he has something to do. He even picks up his coffee and puts it between us. He even has come to the point where I go to kiss him and he ... (read in full...)

I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!

Q.   I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...

A.   11 November 2010: Its not his choice its yours. Always follow your heart and if your heart tells you to keep the baby then keep it. Your partner shouldnt tell you what to do. Just believe in yourself.... (read in full...)

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