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I need to know if he wants a child with me?

Q.   I have been with my guy for going on 2 years. He has a 7 year old son. When we first met I told him I wasn't sure if I ever wanted to be married or have children. But within 3 months I knew that I wanted to be a mom one day. Knowing that he does ...

A.   12 January 2011: Honey, do yourself a favor, when they don't want another child, they do not, and to try to trick him is the oldest trick in the book to keep him. And all women will tell you it doesn't work. By the by...he doesn't want to have a child with you. You ... (read in full...)

She is driving me insane! And NOT in a good way! :S

Q.   Alright, Where to begin... I've just been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months now, but after the first month everything changed... You see I'm currently unemployed and unable to drive due to the drought of money so i cant afford my car ...

A.   12 January 2011: She's not a pot head call it what it is a drug user and you are an enabler! Move on and of course, stop dating younguns.... (read in full...)

I don't want to be engaged anymore.

Q.   Im 23 and have been with my partner for nearly six years. I care for him and deep down love him. We have a daughter together, shes nearly 3. We had a difficult time two years ago when he started having panick attacks. I supported him througho...

A.   12 January 2011: Sounds like you need to go ahead and move on before someone gets hurt. And your customer that you fancy, is just a FANTASY. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to be a father figure for this other girl's child!

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for five years and weve hit some rough spots every now and then. 2 years into our relationship he cheated on me with this girl he worked with. we ended up working through it and stayed together and since then he has ...

A.   12 January 2011: Please forget about this guy, his heart is somewhere else.... (read in full...)

How can I make friends with benefits more?

Q.   I have this on and off again sexual relationship with a guy who recently became my friend on Facebook. His actions are really confusing. Sometimes he shows he wants to see me again and then doesn't follow through. When we are around each other ...

A.   9 January 2011: There is no such thing as friends with benefits!! Stop giving it away!! He will never want you as a girlfriend because you are easy to bed. Move on, and don't sleep with men who don't want a commitment.... (read in full...)

Why is this man addressing my wife as "my dear"?

Q.   Is it ok if a guy whom I suspect of having an emotional affair with my wife text her addressing her 'my dear...'?? She told me he is interested in her but she is not. And she continue meeting him. Is it alright for her to meet him knowing his ...

A.   8 January 2011: You are right, your wife is making the biggest mistake in business to falsely be a "friend" to a customer. It WILL blow up in her face. She led him on, and it is never worth it. Someone crossed the line here, and I point the finger at her. She is ... (read in full...)

I want my wife back but the thought of her with him has made me think twice about it now

Q.   I broke up with my wife 14 months ago after a 2 year marriage,we are both professionals shes 28 and im 33,the break up was mutual and really shouldnt have happened,since then iv had 4 sexual partners none of which were serious relationships,my wife ...

A.   8 January 2011: Great, great question! I think your wife is still cool, it was just her choice in a man that was totally off. But I tell ya, she didn't have the dating experience to spot a character like that! If you both are ready for the second time around, grab ... (read in full...)

Why can't I get past a 3rd date?

Q.   I have been trying to date for a good 6 years now and no one has ever showed an interest in staying with me past a third date or so. I am 28 years old and have been rated an "8" on a looks scale from 1-10. I make close to 6 figures in a good ...

A.   8 January 2011: Sounds like you need a makeover, or the horror you did not offer to pay when you were on the date. Do you have a stylish haircut? what did you wear? How are your teeth? Have a female coworker/friend update your look. We luv to do that. If you got it ... (read in full...)

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

Q.   Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

A.   8 January 2011: This is a tough one and based on the background information I would say stay. Though I am the type to say move on. Here's why...as a former single lady who didn't think twice about messing with a married man-the she-wolves were at his door honey. ... (read in full...)

My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.

Q.   me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?...

A.   8 January 2011: Your wife is a silly fool. See all women want to be married, you gave her that. And we like to be adored/admired which is what the other guy is giving her. If you love her, grow a back bone and demand that other relationship end today. She just ... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

Q.   I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking ...

A.   8 January 2011: Learn your lesson, when you have a good guy KEEP HIM!! Move on, you have to, he has. You have no other choice.... (read in full...)

My mother's manipulating ways are driving me crazy!

Q.   my mum has always been controlling and manipulative and we used to argue when I was growing up. im from a strict asian family and didnt have freedom like my friends through school and had to lie about going out, boyfriends etc. now im at uni ...

A.   8 January 2011: Please don't pick up her deceptive habits. Please.... (read in full...)

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

Q.   Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

A.   8 January 2011: First of all wake up and realize you never had a "relationship" with this married man. You simply allowed him to sleep with you when he came to town. Next, you should have known you NEVER tell a man about how many lovers you had in the past. ... (read in full...)

Shall we report her anonymously or hope she will stop being a bully?

Q.   Morning all. Please advise on the following.... Our team leader at work has been promoted to assistant manager and the power has gone slightly to her head. She talks down to us and is quite rude with her comments. For example 1 girl on the ...

A.   8 January 2011: Your boss is unhappy at home, introduce her to a man, she will become softer. Trust me.... (read in full...)

He touches himself and then denies it!

Q.   my boyfriend knows about my 1st relationship and how screwed up it made me especially being so young and finding my bf/baby daddy watching porn and jacking off instead of getting it from me.there were other sexual traumas but this alone affected me ...

A.   8 January 2011: OMG LEAVE you have a child. LEAVE! And don't even think twice about it.... (read in full...)

I don't want kids but my husband does......

Q.   my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we've been together for a total of 10 years.We've made it this far and relationship has been great in every way except that since the last 1 year he has been telling me that he is interested in ...

A.   8 January 2011: You should divorce him so he can have the life he wants BUT...sounds like he chose a younger wife because of her looks, and this is what he gets. You don't want a baby with him because you married him for the "lifestyle", not for love. When you love ... (read in full...)

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