My mom will never talk to me again if she knew I need birth control! Help!
Q. Please please help me? My boyfriend and I lost our virginity with eachother a few weeks ago. We have sex quite a lot and we haven't had sex without a condom. We ALWAYS use one. There's no way I can raise a baby. We really want to use birth control. ...
A. 13 January 2009: okay i have a daughter your age so i think i am qualified to answer this.
i do not agree with you having sex at your age. i think you should have waited but you did it and thats that.
your mom needs to wake up and realize that you are sexualy ... (read in full...)
I think I'm unattractive and I lost my boyfriend because I'm insecure!
Q. I am an unattractive girl, who is also very insecure. I just lost my boyfriend to this. He got fed up with the fact that I always felt insecure about better looking girls. He always told me it didn't matter and that he loved me. Yet, he also said ...
A. 13 January 2009: its not because you are so unattractive. he is with you so he must be attracted to you.beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyways. those fake hollywood types make me sick because the average looking woman can not look like them. they have a team ... (read in full...)
His confession is haunting me!
Q. I'm not sure why I'm so upset and whether or not I should be. Little background info: I've been married for 3 years (we've been together for 6). We share common interests (the same profession, passion for diving, love for animals, we have two cats ...
A. 13 January 2009: i think that was a very tramatic experience for him and im sure he has felt like a monster all his life for what he did. i think for him telling you it was his way of dealing with it. a secret he has been carrying around with him forever. just let ... (read in full...)
He made plans and then never called me back
Q. hi..i had this really good guyfriend who use to confuse me by talkin to me either all sex stuff or treat me like m his little bro..i mean kiddish but tomboyish kind..i had a crush on him but could not figure out his stand..later he called me up ...
A. 13 January 2009: well i think you should just move on. you say you told him you liked him but what did you say to him? if you came on to strong you may have freaked him out. if not then he is not worth the time your wasteing thinking about him. you got all made up ... (read in full...)
Why don't any of these guys have feelings for me?
Q. Brace yourself people this is going to be a long one Grrr, right what is wrong with all the males I meet after reading this question please do not tell me that I need to stop going for the same kind of guy because really everything about...
A. 12 January 2009: You know the first thing I've learned is that when you bring up the subjects of commitment and asking too soon where your relationship is going it freaks men out. Just relax and keep things friendly. Don't sleep with them and don't act too needy. ... (read in full...)
Newly married husband looking at porn, I'm disgusted
Q. My new husband has been looking at naked women on Craigslist and now I feel disgusted with him. It makes me feel like we are not special. It makes me feel like he thinks of other women when having sex with him and now I don't really want to have ...
A. 12 January 2009: i think most men look at and are curiouce about porn. as long as he is not going outside of the marriage to hook up i dont see a problem. if i were you i would sugest looking at some porn together. you might get turned on a bit yourself and enjoy ... (read in full...)
Should I do oral?
Q. me and my boyfriend, which is 18 and im 15, where playing around in are secret spot at school this morning like always. and this weekend we got to know more details about each other, like small things about his future and past, and how he felt about ...
A. 12 January 2009: first of all here in california what you are thinking about doing is illegal and called statatory rape. your only 15 and hes 18. if you were my daughter id make you stop seeing that boy. i always tell my own daughter that boys like to kiss and tell ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend not off well financially but its draining me both financially & mentally--I'm tired of it!
Q. I have spent 5 years without a proper job since I graduated from university. Those have been the toughest times of my life. I was trying very hard to get a job but it was getting more difficult. I did part time jobs and went as far as writing for ...
A. 12 January 2009: absolutely not! your not being mean. he needs to pay his own way in life and thats just the way it is. your working hard for your money and giving some of it to him. theres a difference in lending a helping hand and wanting a hand out. this guy is ... (read in full...)
My wife is gorgeous & I hate men looking at her!
Q. Ive been married to my gorgeous wife for 7 years. Im very insecure about other men eyeing her up in public. When we go out she looks amazing, the trouble is this makes me feel very uncomfortable as im constantly being hyper-vigilent to see if any ...
A. 12 January 2009: first of all you married a beautiful weman so you should have known that from the start. instead of letting it ruin your night or even your relationship just go with it. let the men know that she is with you and although there is no harm in lookin ... (read in full...)
Baffled as he says he loves me...but he abuses me! I need help!
Q. i have been with my bf for 6 years now... i never belived in love at first sight till i met my bf now. i love him with all my heart we have 2 kds one is 3 and the other is 2. my bf says he loves me but he has anger issues he said its because his dad ...
A. 12 January 2009: sweetheart you are not alone. there are lots of woman just like you out there. theres a womans shelter in almost every city. my friend went to one and they got a restraining order on her man and got her into her own apartment and even helped her ... (read in full...)
His age is messing with my head.
Q. I met this guy at a bar, sort of a friend of a friend, and I spent the night talking to him and having a great time. Afterwards, though, I found out ... I'm five+ years older than him. He's 23; I just turned 29. Is this sketchy? We've been email...
A. 12 January 2009: go out and have fun girlfriend! what do you have to lose?
your both young and having a good time. you might find hes mature for his age and then again you may find that hes way to young. age is just a number. go have fun and enjoy yourself!... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom I'm dating?
Q. This is really embarrassing and I really don't know who else to ask. I am a 26 year old man, who because I lost my job had to move back in with my mother. The problem is that mom, now wants to know everything I do, who I hang out with, which is ...
A. 12 January 2009: your a grown ass man you should be working two jobs and saving all your money to get your own place. its time to move out and be a man now. im sorry but 26 and living at home and worrying about what mommy thinks is rediculouce!
why dont you and ... (read in full...)
How do I break to family I'm seeing an ex-con?
Q. How do I break the news? For years now I have been a single, independent woman -but just recently I have been seeing an ex con who I think wants to get serious! - The trouble is my family and friends would probably be shocked that 1) I have a new ...
A. 12 January 2009: it sounds like your tired of being alone but you must be pretty hard up to be dating someone with nothing to offer you. soon you will get tired of paying for everything and when your money runs out hell be long gone.wake up sister your family and ... (read in full...)
His mom is sooooo controlling!!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are 20 years old and we live with our moms! His mom is controlling and it seems like we can't enjoy our own relationship without her telling us what we can and can't do. I feel like we are in middle school or something... she ...
A. 12 January 2009: well how about you and your boyfriend get your own place and then you can do what you want.... (read in full...)
I really don't know what to do with myself, I'm confused and depressed.
Q. Hi I've been separated for about 10 years now and have a 12-year-old son. I've been through to a lot of relationship after my separation and my husband was remarried too and had a daughter already to his 2nd wife but was separated again 2 years ago. ...
A. 12 January 2009: well when you have a job or a career your have more opertunities to meet people. mr. right is not going to knock on your door hun. get out there and see what this beautiful world has out there to offer you. when your working and making your own ... (read in full...)
Forget it never happened?
Q. I have a boyfriend right now. we just recently called it official, but before that, about four months ago, we both liked each other, but i was scared i was going to get my heart broken, so i started pushing him away purposely and not talking to him. ...
A. 12 January 2009: it does not sound to me like you had to twist his arm. he was the one who iniciated it. but from now a little more privacy when your having your time together would be more classier.its not a good thing to be having sex in a car with someone else in ... (read in full...)
I love someone but he isn't in love with me...
Q. I love someone but he isn't in love with me, he just wants to have sex with me although he loves a girl and does have sex with her. Am I just a best friend to him? What can I do!!... ...
A. 12 January 2009: hi this guy is using you and you should have more respect for yourself and put a stop to it now. your not getting anything out of it and it is not fair to you. you sdeserve better.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't like sexy underwear?
Q. My boyfriend has recently told me that my efforts in wearing sexy underwear do nothing for him. He has told me that underwear has no effect on him, so I should stop trying and wasting my money. This upsets me for two reasons, one, I find it slightly ...
A. 12 January 2009: I myself would not give a damn if he likes them or not. wear them for you. If he does not care for underwear thats his prerogative. ... (read in full...)
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