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He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?

Q.   Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...

A.   2 July 2008: though what i still cant understand is why is he spending so much time with me, hanging around with me and staying on the phone with me till early hours of the morning surely that says hes interested right or am i just being naive...... (read in full...)

He gave me this look that stopped my heart. Now how can I get him back?

Q.   hello, i want to tell you all my story. i was with this guy for a while and we got pretty serious, we got as far as fingering. and he gave me this look that stopped my heart. i fell in love with him. he said he loved me. life was perfect. but then ...

A.   2 July 2008: to be honest sweetie if he doesnt want to be with you during school terms then when does he want to be with you. he doesnt want to commit or he doesnt want anyone to know that you guys are together. whats the point of that, if he cant show you of to ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?

Q.   HELP!! I'm still in love with my ex who I was with for 2 years. Currently have a GF who been with for few months now and I do like her. What should I do! My ex also told me she loves me stil and she got a partner too... ...

A.   2 July 2008: to be honest if both of you still have feelings for each other its really not fair on your current partners to be pushed into in the middle of you two. Before getting together with someone you should have given time to get over your ex and thats ... (read in full...)

He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?

Q.   Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...

A.   2 July 2008: hmmm i kinda agree with ask oldersister... somehow i kinda feel that he doesnt buy the whole virgin route and believes that he can get me hence him still waiting around.... (read in full...)

I don't want to be a witch by cutting him off but he hurt me terribly!

Q.   My EX keeps calling, emailing, texting me...I think this is out of lonliness as he has moved across country into another job. I love him and miss him terribly but this is really making it difficult for me to move on. Should I just delete everythi...

A.   1 July 2008: sometimes a person needs to be a little selfish and think about what is best for them rather then the other person. you have to ask your self whether you can forgive him for the hurt he caused you. if you can then and oonly then you can begin ... (read in full...)

He says he loves someone else and I can't get over him, please help me!

Q.   this is a terrible dilemna, and I would like to know what I should do. I don't know how to move on when I love someone and can't imagine anyone else ever being as special. I loved my best friend for a long time, but he has a girlfriend he's in ...

A.   1 July 2008: never settle for someone that you dont love as that wouldnt be fair on you or the other guy. rather then putting you whole life on stand still go out and enjoy sometime with your girlfriends. theres more to life then just this guy. the downside to ... (read in full...)

How do I stop the arguments over the same thing?

Q.   I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 19 months. We don't have too many arguments but when we do, it's always over the same thing. I'm really good friends with this boy but this boy fancies me. I've thought of him as in a boyfrien...

A.   1 July 2008: your boyfriend is feeling insecure as he knows that you friend has feelings for you putting him into a position of not trusting you. he cant help but feel that you friend has different motives from you. though he may trust u he doesnt trust your ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of being a virgin, maybe I should have just gone out with sluts and been more liberal. I think it's time for a change in values...

Q.   I´m a 23 year old virgen. I was brought up believing that saving virginity for marriage is the right thing to do. I believed in being patient, honest and faithful with my girlfriend. I believed in sacrafice and putting my partner´s feelings above my ...

A.   1 July 2008: i dont think you should change your whole way of thinking just because your feeling low. i see nothing wrong in waiting for the right person and in time it will happen and it will feel alot more special. patients is a virtue. sleeping with someone ... (read in full...)

He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?

Q.   Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...

A.   1 July 2008: A quick upddate: I spoke to him this morning and i told him exactly how i felt. he persisted that if he didnt care about me or even like me he wouldnt waste so much time hanging around with me or even talking to me on the phone. he said if it wa... (read in full...)

He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?

Q.   Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...

A.   1 July 2008: A little update: i spoke to him this morning and he mentioned that he still has feelings for his ex but there is no way he would even consider getting back with her. I told him that he cant possible have the same feelings for me if that is the case. ... (read in full...)

Do his actions show that he fancies me? What do you think?

Q.   Does he fancy me? I have known this guy for 4 years and over the past couple of years we have become good friends, especially in the last 6 months. He has always had mostly female friends and so is comfortable around us all and the more he se...

A.   1 July 2008: hey i was recntly in a similar position but honestly the best thing to do is just ask him. what i did was i sent the same messages back to him. eg when he gave me a hug i gave him a kiss on the cheek. i played in exactly the way he played it. when ... (read in full...)

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