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My qualifications I suppose wouldn't compare to any PhD, however, I have a deep incite on the human mind and relations. I currently live in a small town in VERMONT, but my family is in Michigan.

I just recently moved here to live with my boyfriend. Life and Love go hand in hand. Everyone in life has someone made for them, and sometimes it can be only one way, and it hurts. I try to open others minds to love.

I sometimes break down and cry because my daughter has ASD Autism Spectrum

Q.   I know this site is for love, sex, and other questions such as this, but I have another heartache I would like to see if anyone can comment on. I have two daughter's 12 and 5 yrs old. My youngest has ASD Autism Spectrum Disorder. She was diagnosed ...

A.   10 October 2012: Just always remember, she doesn't understsand the terms of her condition really, she is just happy and living a childs life. People only learn to compare themselves to others because others compare themselves. In time once she is older she will have ... (read in full...)

His daughter will always be more special to him than I am, how do I get over this?

Q.   Please help me, I want to leave but am so scared. I have been with my boyfriend 1 year. He is 7 years older than me. He has a daughter of 5 and I get along well with his daughter but do sometimes suffer with jealousy towards her,, although I never...

A.   15 December 2010: That his baby girl... His pride and joy. A father is a girls first love and a sons first hero, thats what they say anyways. Any good father would put his daughter before anyone. I know my father would. It just shows he is passionate about being a ... (read in full...)

Too shy to ask my husband for sex!

Q.   I want to have sex with my husband, but I am too shy to ask, what can I do?...

A.   15 December 2010: You are from South Africa? I am unsure how they do it cultrually there, but here in the USA we just do it. Rather we dress very sexy with lingre, sometimes put on a X rated movie. Maybe sometime when you guys are together, in private, Kiss him more ... (read in full...)

Do teenage boys like Asian girls?

Q.   I am a freshman in highschool and have been told that i am very pretty...Keep in mind that I am asian. I was wondering if teenage boys find pretty asian girls attractive and want to maybe even date them. Have you ever liked an asian girl if so ...

A.   15 December 2010: I am Korean, and I have been hounded by men for so long. I am 20, and when I was a freshman I was a weird goth kid, and yet the preppy boys STILL liked me. I was of course out going and friendly, Goth was just how I dressed. Race isn't a concern, ... (read in full...)

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to buy his ex a mother's day gift?

Q.   my boyfriend has a daughter and he and i have been together for 5 years. Do u think its appropriate for him to buy the kid's mom a mother's day gift? is it ok for me to feel a little jealous over that?...

A.   15 December 2010: I think it is perfectly fine. I agree with the other users, its about respect. Also, without her, he would never have his daughter.... (read in full...)

I had a surgical procedure, am I still a virgin?

Q.   Hi. I just want to know if im still a virgin coz i was curious i did put my finger on my vagina (masturbate) a lot of times. does this means im not virgin anymore? im 26 and dont have any experience so im curious that's y do the masturba...

A.   15 December 2010: Depends on if your "cherry" was poped I suppose. Depends on how you look at it. Physcailly, your body may not register as "virgin" because that is the inhibit of any penetration, However, the actual Term of "virgin" is to have sexual intercourse for ... (read in full...)

I don't trust my online girl with all of her story changes

Q.   ok to try to make this as short as possible I am going through a divorce met a girl on myspace who is 19 Im 34. She lives in the next state over well we talked online and on the phone for a few months. And I have fallen head over heels for her. The ...

A.   15 December 2010: Well there seems to be a age gap, and I dont mean physically. I have personally been in that position first hand, My ex beat me and raped me... I understand the trauma and fear. I swore I would never date a guy who could over power me and I became a ... (read in full...)

Will 1st time sex still hurt when I am 32?

Q.   I am so embarrassed to be a 32 year old virgin and am wondering if sex still hurts even when you're this old. I have kept my virginity for so long because I was caught up with studying and also because of cultural beliefs. I am just worried if I ...

A.   15 December 2010: I am unsure of this but I just wanted to say you shouldn't be embarassed. Its much rather prefered to be happy with your decicions and accomplisments, than to have regrets.... (read in full...)

Do girls look at porn?

Q.   Do girls look at porn? And why are girls so shy to say they "flick the bean"? ...

A.   15 December 2010: Well Let me tell ya, I will be the first girl to actually fess up and admit to it. Yes. I actually have a group of female friends who all openly talk about and enjoy porn just as any guy. ^_^. Most of us are Bisexual, the other half is straight. ... (read in full...)

My parents caught us having sex!

Q.   So last night me and my boyfriend John(I'm gay) were hanging out in the lounge room at my house. We were having a great time watching one our favorite shows:Glee. Throughout the whole show he would touch me, rub my belly and do all these cutesy ...

A.   1 October 2010: Never be embarrassed or ashamed. I told my family in a public restaurant I liked boys and GIRLS. Always be proud of who you are, those who cant accept it are too closed minded for emotions. Remember, its PEOPLE fall in Love not Genitals. Talking is ... (read in full...)

I've lost my sexual self

Q.   I a 48 years old male. I have been married for 25 years. But my marriage is in crises,because I lost my sexual self. I m really ashamed,but I dont know what to do. I lose my erections right when I enter,also I have zero sexual desire. I went to ...

A.   1 October 2010: If you want my personal thought, I think medical cannabis will help. Call me crazy, but the logic is there. It may make it hard to get an erection if you are too medicated, however it will help your mind relax. From a doctors point they see no ... (read in full...)

Should I stay positive and confident or accept what is happening.

Q.   My girlfriend of 3 years just moved out and i find out last night that there is no chance that "we will get back together right now". She says she still loves me but she doesn't know if she is in love with me right now. We were engaged at one time ...

A.   1 October 2010: I am not sure what she meant by that comment, you should try to speak with her. I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years and it takes a toll on you. I have never had to deal with the things I do today. The first year is most def the hardest. Just ... (read in full...)

Could I still be pregnant or am I immediately protected because of the pill?

Q.   I started the combined pill on the 2nd day of my period last wednesday. I took it Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday at exactly the same time of 7:30. On saturday nite i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend and he came inside me could i ...

A.   16 March 2010: Well birth control is only 99.9% effective in preventing pregnancy as it is. Your doctor should have told you how many days you had to take it before it was in effect. Mine was 4 days. There is always a percentage anytime someone has sex, even with ... (read in full...)

I'm worried I have chlamydia again!.

Q.   almost a year ago i had a boyfriend who i loved so much, but in the end things never worked out and i found out that he had passed me chlamydia, i didnt know i had it until a few months after we broke up. i went to the clinic and took anti-biotics ...

A.   16 March 2010: Your best bet is to get checked anyways. He should be able to understand the situation and if he really loves you he will trust you and be more concerned of the well being for both of your sexual relations and future (.IE. having children) I am no ... (read in full...)

Is there a reason I'm so jealous?

Q.   I am 26 years old and Male, i feel exactly the same i even get jealous of my cousin, my best friends, guys she works with, or just guys in general. If she wears anything to revealing when we are out, or i am not there, but if its just us i am fine ...

A.   18 January 2010: Well all of our actions are caused by a stimulus. Something beyond revealing clothing makes you feel this way. It sounds like you have lost a lot of people in your life that you care about, family, friends, gf.s etc. Maybe growing up you have felt a ... (read in full...)

How can I tell if she wants sexual contact?

Q.   Hey I'm almost 15 and my beautiful girlfriend is 14 we haven't had any kind of sexual contact but I really want to and I think she does to how can I tell?...

A.   18 January 2010: Well, I wouldn't recommend jumping into sex. If you two have been dating for a year or so, its not a big deal. If you have been dating for less, maybe you should start with Foreplay. Just ask her. Its not that difficult. If your relationship is ... (read in full...)

Two weeks late...I have to ask the question..Does these symptoms sound like pregnancy?

Q.   I know that none of you are doctors or a pregnancy test and i do know that really need to go get tested to find out for certain but hear me out. Ive been ttc for the past two months. Last month my period was three weeks late, during the three weeks ...

A.   11 July 2009: The symptoms can relate to pregnancy, but the only way to be sure is a test. Many times after fear of being pregnant, not only can it cause you to be late, it can also cause you to lactate, swell up and become sensitive to all the commonly known ... (read in full...)

She smelled my perfume in her car, does she know that her husband cheated with me?

Q.   Im 18 and hes 40 and hes married with 2 young kids, and we had sex in his car last night, and this morning his wife got in his car and she said she could smell perfume, he said it was his mums perfume, do you think his wife knows?...

A.   6 July 2009: She is suspicious. Depending on if she has ever found other incriminating evidence, or if she has other reasons to be suspicious (especially towards you) such as consistent phone calls, late nights out with you, your clothes that she can positively ... (read in full...)

Tan blondes or Fair blondes? Which do you honestly find more attractive?

Q.   I was told by a one of my guy friends that I would be much more attractive if I had darker skin. I have naturally light blonde hair and blue eyes and my skin is very fair. I am not white and pale like a ghost but I am not tan either. He told me I ...

A.   6 July 2009: Honestly, I have seen tan blonds. As long as its not over done, it doesn't look bad. It does tend to look unnatural however, kinda like a blond Asian. Your personal image should only matter to you. I know that probably sounds like I'm an old 60 yr ... (read in full...)

Should I get male enhancement pills, does size matter that much to women?

Q.   i'm 18 years old and my dick is about 6 inches and whenever i show it to a girl i get embarrassed and i've actually thought about taking male enhancement to make it bigger ..does size matter to any of you women?...

A.   6 July 2009: No. I am an 18 year old female, and let me tell you something... In the heat of the moment, we aren't looking to the size. Its about the feeling. If there is foreplay involved then it usually helps too. There are natural techniques that you can ... (read in full...)

I get turned on by boy's FEET!

Q.   I am 13 years old. I am turning 14 on july 11. I am scared that I am gay. I do not get turned on by anything from girls but I do get turned on by (BOY'S) Feet, but that is the only thing I get turned on from, not there private parts. Do you gu...

A.   6 July 2009: It is your personal decision to label yourself gay. Homosexuality is a very personal thing. I would not label you as gay. Its a fetish and you are young sweetie xoxo ... (read in full...)

Should I just tell her I don't want to be friends because of how shes changed?

Q.   Me and my friend have been really good friends for about 3 years now, you could say we are best friends. We've always had so much fun and have always talked about everything and it's been great. Lately however she has changed. She has become s...

A.   4 July 2009: Just let her be aware of the change. Most people don't see the change in themselves and they need a true friend to show them. Don't be hostile about it, just make it a very private, calm , deep conversation. Let her know that you do care, and you ... (read in full...)

What can I do about this girl who doesn't want friendship anymore?

Q.   I have a problem which is starting to cause a good bit of depression in me. You see I had a friend who I talked to a lot, I considered her one of my best friends. We seemed to have fun with each other and talked a lot (An awful lot). However ...

A.   4 July 2009: In all honesty, it seems as if she is afraid of your friendship becoming more than just friends. If you are writing her out of anger or hostility, it may just freak her out and push her away more. The best thing to do is write a "parting emai... (read in full...)

What can I do to make my skin clearer?

Q.   i dont ahve the best skin.i get acne but i have creams for that but i want beautiful smooth soft skin like alot of girls have.what do you do?..like drink alot of water and stuff..and i bearely use any cream for my body,im too lazy.i need 2 fix ...

A.   4 July 2009: Okay, I don't have the BEST skin, but here are some more natural less expensive things I have found to actually work! 1) Use baking soda and water, mix it into a paste scrub to take off dead skin. Make sure to rub in circular motions. 2) Lemo... (read in full...)

He's moved to be with me, and he says he loves me but that things just aren't "right"

Q.   I met my boyfriend in a weird way. Our "at the times" cheated with each other. Him and I ended up bonding over broken hearts. He is my best friend and has always been there for me. He makes me smile and my every day. The only issue is, I lived in ...

A.   4 July 2009: He is 23, I am 18. We have known each other for about a year, but have only been dating for 4 months. ... (read in full...)

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