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im really interested in being a psychologist wen i am older so hopefully i can start now by helping people as much as i can. i know i am quite young but bleav me i hav been thru a lot already n still come out smiling! xxx

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We used the pull out method!

Q.   okay, so im 15 and my boyfriend have been together for 3yrs. we had sex for the first time on tuesday. we didnt use a condom, he pulled out. but i think he mightyhave came a little. i didnt get my period yet this month. it is pretty irregular, and ...

A.   17 December 2006: right first of all dont stress. technically the pull out mesthod is not birth control but that doesn matter. me n my boyfriend use the pull out method n hav bin for months so its very unlikely that u r are pregnant but im not saying its ideal. you ... (read in full...)

I feel sick, my breasts are tender, I'm always hungry...am I pregnant?

Q.   i feel sick all the time my breast are tender and i still feel hungry after i eat but i have my period not like always its really light not spotting im bleeding but not like usual could i be pregnant? i took a test and it said no but i was pregnant ...

A.   17 December 2006: take another home test n see what that says. then if u still dont get ur period you shud go 2 th doctors just 2 put your mind at rest x x x... (read in full...)

He came in me, but I think I got it out. Can I still get pregnant?

Q.   I am 22 years old and me and my boyfriend had sex last night. When he stopped he told me that he did come inside me but it was just a little bit. I got right up and went to the bathroom. I may have gotten it out. But would I still get pregnant?...

A.   17 December 2006: yes u most definitely can get pregnant. do go and get the morning after pill. and whoeever said it makes you sick it doesn. i had 2 take it n it doessn affect you at all. also the pharmacist is really nice they don't make you feel uncomfortable by ... (read in full...)

What can my 13 year old friend do about her pregnancy?

Q.   Hiya my friend is 13 years old and has taken a pregnancy test and its positive . she is pregnant and she thinks she wants to get rid of it because she says she can't have a baby at 13. I told her i would write this for her to see if anybody has ...

A.   17 December 2006: first of all she needs to talk someone. this could be a teacher doctor whatever. u can go with her for support n make sure she knows that there are people aronud her to help. they shud b able to talk her thru wot she can do. but if she is thinking ... (read in full...)

I thinl I'm pregnant so when is the earliest I can do a home pregnancy test?

Q.   when is the earliest i can do a home pregnancy test? i know its better as close to your period as possible, but I have had sex at the time of ovulation and with it being christmas i may have alcoholic drinks, and i dont want to do this if i am preg. ...

A.   17 December 2006: the most accurate 1 i know of in the uk is u can take it 3 days before you are due on your period. however, the best ones are when you should have come on your period and are late. these are the most accurate x x x... (read in full...)

He went on MySpace for the first time...should I be concerned?

Q.   If you were talking to your significant other on the phone and asked them what they were doing and they said just playing around on the computer and they said they went on myspace for the first time....would you be concerned? I said to my b/f, try...

A.   17 December 2006: he may just b going on there 2 talk 2 people. y do u hav 2 suspicious? if he woz going on sex chatrooms or something then fair enuf! but my space? absolutely nuthin 2 worry about x x x ... (read in full...)

I'm only 15 and he propsed but I don't want to be tied down! What should I do?

Q.   Hiya! ive been going out with my boyfriend sort of on and off for the past 6 months.When we first started going out it was all a bit of a laugh, but recently he has been acting really strangely. I asked him what was goimg on and he actually ...

A.   17 December 2006: jus talk 2 him. say u r thrilled he has asked you but ur not ready 2 make that sort of commitment. you need 2 make it clear that it doesn mean u love him ne less u wud jus prefer 2 wait till u r bit older x x x ... (read in full...)

I really don't want to be a lesbian!

Q.   im nearly 18 and im so confused about my sexuality! im defo straight cause i loveee boyss! but lately i hav been having feelings for girls in the same way! :| i think i fancy girls too! i really dont want to be a lesbian! but i cant help my feelings ...

A.   17 December 2006: i have a boyfriend i hav bin wiv 4 10 months n i love boys but occasionally i hav feelings for girls. it doesn mean ur a lesbian. ir doesn necessarrily mean u r gay u jus get a thrill thinkin about bin wiv a girl. i dont want 2 go with a girl but i ... (read in full...)

I want to have my first child when I reach 17...any advice?

Q.   hi im 16 nearly 17 years old, im not in a relationship at the moment but would really love to have my first child at 17 just wanted some advice please..........

A.   17 December 2006: i would say that if you are ready then yes go ahead. but u say that u dont hav a boyfriend and if u r nearly 17 then tha is less than a year 2 become so close 2 your partner that u feel ready 4 a child. i dont think that is going 2 happen. jus wait ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my boyfriends that I don't like him doing drugs?

Q.   Hi Im 13 and my bf 16, he takes drugs and i want to tell him how i feel about them and him taking them but every time i bring the subject up he says im having a go at him. I want him to realise i love him and i hate him doing drugs but wit ou...

A.   17 December 2006: if it takes having an arguement to sort this out then u need 2 do it. if he loves you he will stay will with u no matter wot happens. perhaps u shudn tell him he has to stop completely. my bf used 2 take drugs n i didn like it so i ask him 2 ... (read in full...)

Had sex with no protection! Should I take a morning after pill?

Q.   I had unportected sex with my long term boyfriend and don't know what to do! should i take the morning after pill?...

A.   17 December 2006: thanks 4 all the help guys. i did get the morning after pill and everything shud b fine. im hopefully going on the pill soon but i dont know how 2 ask my mam but thas a different story :s thanks x x x... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents about how I got drunk and did sexual things with older guys?

Q.   Hey, A copule of weaks ago, i got drunk and ended up giving two lads blowjobs,toss of two lads and fingerd by one. They were all 16,17 and 18 and i am only 13. But the problem is i was half asleep and very drunk when all of this happend. Should...

A.   16 December 2006: i hate it wen people blame alcohol 4 their actions. You still know slightly wot ur doin n i know frm personal experience that you can still stop urself. n 4 the people who are shocked that she is 13. ur obviously way outta ur teens. this happens all ... (read in full...)

When we were having sex she did some anal play on me and now I feel weird about it..any thoughts?

Q.   I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time at the weekend and when she was masturbating me she put her finger in my anus. I really liked it but now i feel weird. I feel like ive done something wrong. Is it ok, i mean am i stressing about ...

A.   16 December 2006: if u like it go 4 it theres absolutely nuthin wrong. However, if u feel uncomfortable with it thn thas not so gd. x... (read in full...)

I'm 15-he's 23. We've had sex and we're very nervous as we're unsure if it was legal?

Q.   Hey....I am currently 15, I will be 16 in 6 days. I have been seeing this guy who is 23 for the past 3 weeks and we have slept together. We are nervous about people finding out because we are unsure if it is legal. I was wondering if it is ok for ...

A.   16 December 2006: well i think it is illegal as it is classed as statutory rape. u r under the age of consent. but once u r 16 it doesn't matter how old he is coz u will b over the age of consent. so if ur 16 soon i wudn really worry. well this is the law in the uk ... (read in full...)

she wants to meet me!

Q.   over the last few days a girl kept phoning me and tellin me she likes me. i ignored the calls, but now she text me telling me how much she loves me. she lives not far from me, goes to different school. she saw my pic on hi5 and she said she ...

A.   16 December 2006: well why don't you say that u r going on holidays soon so you can talk when you get back! that would be for the best x x ... (read in full...)

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