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writes: Hey,A copule of weaks ago, i got drunk and ended up giving two lads blowjobs,toss of two lads and fingerd by one.They were all 16,17 and 18 and i am only 13.But the problem is i was half asleep and very drunk when all of this happend.Should I tell my parents?Can These guys get in trouble for it?Please HelpXxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): You are 13?? Tell your parents what happened as you need to see your doctor to get checked out.
If I was you I would change you group of friends and start enjoying life as a 13 year old. Dont grow up too fast, you will regret it.
Enjoy life, drink when you are 18 and stay away from guys like that. You could get them in a lot of trouble as you are under the age of consent.
Take care x
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reader, scared16 +, writes (16 December 2006):
 i hate it wen people blame alcohol 4 their actions. You still know slightly wot ur doin n i know frm personal experience that you can still stop urself. n 4 the people who are shocked that she is 13. ur obviously way outta ur teens. this happens all the tym. she is a normal 13 year old! i think the best thing 2 do is deff not tell urparents they will flip and jus make sure it doesn happen again. wher were ur friends in all of this? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): even though i think its bad what this young girl has done i dont think the advisors should be so harsh to her many people make mistakes iv'e woke up with regrets and feel ashamed when i think back to wot happened when i was drunk but shes prob feeling bad as it is .
my advice is i think u need to speak to some one to see why at such a young age you would be even be drinking and acting like that or tell your parents your deeply ashamed and need to stop this before u carry on like it in years to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): I have to ask why you state you are 13, in your posting, but you have your age group listed at 16-17? Which one is it? Either you are a good liar or just a really, really, good liar! I personally think this posting may be a hoax. However.if you are posting this as a joke, you have issues and need counseling...quickly. But if this is the truth and no matter your age, you have deeply, disturbing self-worth issues and you need still need to seek counseling. Tell your parents what you did and go to your family doctor to make sure you aren't pregnant ot contracted any std's. Then ask him to refer a good family counselor for you and your family. Sounds like you and they may need all the support and help they can getto getting yu on the right track.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Yes you can get these guys into trouble for it, but it sounds to me like you were a willing participant as you gave them blowjobs, at 13 why do you even know how to do that....I think you should tell your parents that you are drinking and having sex so they can take you to a doctor a gynocologist for an exam and a pregnancy test....you need to be on birth control and practice safe sex if you are going to continue on this path...I also feel you have some real self esteem issues if you are behaving this way, these boys basically had a gang bang with you and your reputation is now ruined, I hope you are happy about that because it is going to be hard to live that now that it has happened.
You need some counseling my dear, what you are doing is very self destructive behavior and quite sad for you.
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reader, lovelikethis +, writes (15 December 2006):
the only person that should be getting in to trouble here is you. why would you even put your self in to a situation where that could happen. you obviously said yes to all of the actions that took place. i really wish that people would stop blaming alcohol for their stupid mistakes!
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