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I'm in a long relationship with my first boyfriend who's 19 years old from Thailand who love dearly with all my heart.
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She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 12 April 2008: Who's also the one being a smartass and uses sarcasm between his lines? Who's whining? More like ranting since, you keep coming back as if it's your victory. No hard feelings you just need to face facts and accept what people have said if you can't ... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 11 April 2008: I appreciate you didn't get offended but, refrain yourself from calling those who you believe they're so perfect as if we trying to bash you down. Were only giving you right advices for goodness sake. Don't act immature. I hope your making the right ... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 11 April 2008: Who said we were worried? Were just advising you what's best for you. If you listen to us you can avoid every detail of consequence. You can't predict at this rate. Certainly, not what your doing. You don't sound too happy about it either.... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 11 April 2008: I never give answers like this to anyone becuase, I never met someone here as obsessed and ignorant like you. I feel so sorry for the husband and children. Disgraceful. I hope to God he'll give you a future because, it's clear you have none. As ... (read in full...)
My brother is a bully and my parents are away
Q. my brother is a bully. he is terrible, horrible and he hurts me. my parents are in holiday so they can't see that. i do not want to go to police of course because its my brother. please help me!...
A. 10 April 2008: How old is your brother? If he was older than you such as his late teens then. Your dealing with a immature child. Take control not fight back but, head up high and not let him pester you as that's what he wants. To be in control which makes you ... (read in full...)
I have lots of sexual experience, but no intercourse. Will intercourse hurt the first time anyway?
Q. I messed around alot for 2 years with guys but never went all the way. I let them finger me and I jerked them off but no real sex.I am now l7 and want sex with my boyfriend. Will I bleed my first time because of all the guys I was with. also will it ...
A. 10 April 2008: You can either bleed or not. Everyone's different. If you haven't had full intercourse then it could likely hurt for the first time but, since you let the person finger you it could be likely less of the pain for you. You'll know yourself.
Best ... (read in full...)
Anal sex hurts her.. also she wont let me give oral... HELP?!?!?!
Q. Hey guys, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, we have a good sex life, recently we have been trying to have anal sex, but it hurts her too much. How can i make it comfortable for her?? And another question.. she has only let me give...
A. 10 April 2008: Remember she ain't a toy so, don't pressure her. Let her be comfortable in her own way too. Lubrication is recommened if your thinking to do anal penetration again but, only if you both are ready.... (read in full...)
Is my penis normal??
Q. where do you start measuring your penis? mine is 5.5" whenerect is it small or what?? the base of my pubic hair is so itchy.i don't know why but it is only at the left side.what is unprotected sex? and how can i avoid it? at first my ejaculatio...
A. 10 April 2008: You shouldn't be too concern on the size of your penis as your still young and growing. I think it's normal that the area around your pubic area is itchy. Apply cream if it rashes to loosen it up. If that doesn't work you should go to the doctor for ... (read in full...)
I cheated with his best friend and regret it! How can I stop cheating?
Q. okay so im 12 yrs. old and my boyfriend is about to turn 14 we've been datin off and on 4 5 yrs now!! this may be a little confusing but try to work wit me... but about a month ago i cheated on him with his best friend and my boyfriends best ...
A. 10 April 2008: Your not mature enough to be in a relationship. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't handle the expereince as your still too young to know the consequences. At your age you should buy more freedom and not stressed about boys as if they're ... (read in full...)
What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?
Q. I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...
A. 10 April 2008: Ah, I heard that title when I was still at high school not something you want to hear personally. Just exchanging period juice to one another through kissing for short.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband lie to everyone?
Q. Why does my husband keep things from people and lie to make himself feel better? When we got married he told all his work mates we got married in Las Vegas, which was a complete lie.(we got married in our home town in a register office and then had ...
A. 9 April 2008: I think he just wants something he can't have as that's why some people lie to grab attention. Vegas - he exaggerated so he's living his thought in luxury. Why he keeps doing it he maybe feel he won't be caught in the act and I probably presume not ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 but I have not started my period yet?
Q. hi im 12 and tall for my age but i have not started my period. im worried about this because all my family say i should of started by now. is this normal?...
A. 8 April 2008: Every girl is different but, that doesn't mean we aren't normal. No need to worry about it.
Best wishes. Sarah.... (read in full...)
I'm really scared my first time will hurt!!
Q. Ok, well i'm 16 and me and my boyfriend are getting serious and we want to have sex. I'm really scared because it's my first time, and i'm just really freaking out because i'm scared it's going hurt really bad. So i've been telling him no everytime, ...
A. 8 April 2008: It seems your not quite ready to have sex at this stage because, your mind is focusing through this thought. Use lubrication as that could make less of the pain.
It doesn't hurt for the first for some women. Some bleed as well. Everyone's differen... (read in full...)
Does a break count as part of a relationship?
Q. Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Although, he wanted 'space' that; he felt not to be ready in a relationship and that he wanted his freedom back. We haven't been seeing new people but ourselves to be honest as we were closte...
A. 7 April 2008: The reason was not the relationship itself so, therefore there were no actual causes. He just wanted space. That is all. He was confused at the beginning because, I believe he didn't know what he wanted.
So. We've haven't really started from the ... (read in full...)
I cant stand the thought of them being together.so please help me find a way for her to leave this guy!!
Q. uhm..well theres this girl in my life!!she means the world to me!i love her.she loves me from what it seems!!one little problem...she has a boyfriend..but we have talks about being together..we cant live without each other...i saw her this weekend ...
A. 7 April 2008: Don't expect a answer real soon. It wouldn't be fair for her current boyfriend espiecally, they've been together for 2 years now. Take her advice and be patient but, I would advice you not to keep clouding your thoughts and feelings because, your ... (read in full...)
Do I try to win him back...or...just let him go?
Q. ok where to start? me and my bf broke up around 5 months ago because i had lost interest in him. he begged me to get back with him for ages but i refused. then new years eve we ended up having a massive arguement (which i dont remember because of ...
A. 7 April 2008: Follow what's right for you. If you feel what's best for you both then go for it. Don't say 'I love you' if your not comfortable with it. Say it when you mean it. Only your feelings can decide.... (read in full...)
We both liked each other, now he's sleeping with someone else. What now?
Q. A lad ive liked for a while now, n who said he liked me, has started having "casual sex" with a woman in her middle/late 20's. we werent in a relationship but we were almost there and now i feel like he strung me along a bit? now hes saying that we ...
A. 7 April 2008: Hmm. Even if you get with this guy your mind will still be disturbed from what's happening and worse he could cheat along your relationship since, if he was ready then why would he sleep with another women if he had the chance to for you?
Not w... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 7 April 2008: It sounds to me she wants a first come first serve.
Her choice is rather self-centred I'm afraid you should be wise enough to understand she is in a relationship with children even though, it's quite tempting as the feelings still rely there.
My ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time with this man?
Q. Been seeing this guy for 6 weeks. He's still distant at times. Is intimate, but when we are together, he doesn't give into small talk. He states he has to get to know someone before opening up. Is this normal or am i wasting my time?...
A. 7 April 2008: Give him a chance, hun. He is right. Getting to know a person first is part of a trusted relationship for the better.... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?...
A. 7 April 2008: You should be wise enough at your age to know the consequences. Even though he hasn't ejaculated you still run the risk of falling pregnant since, sperm can still leak through.
What do you mean 4 months of nothing? Have you had a missed period? ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he jokes about my weight. What can I do about it?
Q. Hi I have a problem, I've been with my boyfriend for about two months and because of my weight I was too shy to take it to the next level. But we had sex the other day he is very slim and he commented on my weight and hurt my feelings. We were havi...
A. 7 April 2008: What I don't understand is his relationship with you? If it's because of the sex or just buying random stuff like..weed? then there's the main thing you should look out for. Does he actually 'do' something to make you happy?
Hun, if I was you I wo... (read in full...)
I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.
Q. I love him so much I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me. I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt,...
A. 7 April 2008: Will he still have the heart to talk to you? That's the only way to interact with him. Talk to him. Although, it sounds to me his moved on sweetheart because, remember he was the one heartbroken. If there's a chance you will have to learn your ... (read in full...)
Does any one have any alternative suggestions for shaving/waxing for me please?
Q. Hi this may sound really daft but i have tried using waxing strips and i cannot get them to work, but shaving sum times makes my legs get rashy. I find shaving my private regions hard because i wear glasses and wen without them on i can hardly ...
A. 7 April 2008: If you have a rash then refrain from using any products until it heals a little bit better. I had that but, I use SudoCrem so the rashes decreases.
If you want to wax you should get it professionally done and if you want to shave. Soak the your... (read in full...)
I have painful reactions after sex and sometime even during.
Q. ok where is my sex experts. ok, i have a problem. this happens ever so often i have painful reactions after sex and sometime even during. its hurts so bad i can't even walk sometimes. it hurt under my stomache in my vagina and i can even feel it in ...
A. 7 April 2008: I felt your pain only discovering I had thrush which kinda dried me out during intercourse though, a week later I was treated but, that's different to your situation I believe.
If lubrication does not work (which shouldn't be used anywayz,... (read in full...)
After five years of marriage, he now tells me he never loved me!!
Q. I just found out my husband is and has been cheating for the 5 years that we were married. When i asked him why he done this to me he said that he had never loved me. Can someone live with someone, marry them and not love them?...
A. 29 March 2008: How harsh. That man has no right to call himself a man. I don't see any pride to that it just spells 'loser'. He is not even worth your time dear so, don't feel any sorrow to it as it's not worth it.
Best wishes. Sarah.... (read in full...)
The future for us as friends almost like we are still in a relationship?
Q. Dear Cupid. Hello. Rcentely, I've broken up with my 7 month boyfriend as because, he wants his space and 'single' life back. He explained it was not me but, him and I could go onto more details though, this one striked me. He said ''Sarah. Let me ...
A. 29 March 2008: Well, to be honest. This friendship thing is not a waste he actually told me his real feelings saying what we had together he didnt want to loose. At the end me and him are back together again.. We still have that closure we couldn't ignore.
Thank... (read in full...)
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