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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I messed around alot for 2 years with guys but never went all the way. I let them finger me and I jerked them off but no real sex.I am now l7 and want sex with my boyfriend. Will I bleed my first time because of all the guys I was with. also will it hurt Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): I don't think your past will make much of a difference to pain and such. You'll probably feel a little bit of blood - some girls have more than others. And its the same with pain - some girls feel more, some don't feel any at all! Just remember, lots of foreplay, get yourself relaxed, and everything should be fine.
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reader, sarah_s  +, writes (10 April 2008):
 You can either bleed or not. Everyone's different. If you haven't had full intercourse then it could likely hurt for the first time but, since you let the person finger you it could be likely less of the pain for you. You'll know yourself.
Best wishes. Sarah.
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