Would great sex make guys want a relationship?
Q. Ok guys if you have had mind blowing sex with a girl on a one night stand are you more likely to want to have a relationship with her? ...
A. 28 April 2008: No Because if I can have sex with a girl in a one night stand she obviously lacks respect for herself. And if she can not respect herself she cannot respect her partner.... (read in full...)
He's always very concerned about me cheating on him
Q. okayyy so my n my bf have been together for a year but he just recently moved out of state....i am truly in love with him and could really see myself with him for a lllong time... we have plans of moving in together once we've both saved enough m...
A. 28 April 2008: You should end the relationship with him... You just cheated on him and you are now saying ohh but I dont want him to think I am cheating, even though I am cheating... What the ____ is this? This disgusts me... You should leave him, save him the ... (read in full...)
Should I try to revive my relation with the ex, in spite of my friends and family that may disagree?
Q. I have become close again with my ex-girlfriend. I love her to bits and always have and i think she wants to start something up again as we kissed the other day. She broke up with me 6 months ago because we kept arguing. We now have different frie...
A. 24 April 2008: Yea man its your life, not theirs. No one can tell you who you can and can not love, its not their place and it never will be. However, sometimes people can see things that you can not due to being blinded by love. Maybe not do as people tell you, ... (read in full...)
I would happily settle as second best just to be with him again. How can I go about getting him to be with me again?
Q. Recently I met a guy who works for my dad. We were working together at an exhibition away from where we both live. He has a girlfriend who I met the same day I met him. He is not very attractive but throughout the exhibition we got on really well. ...
A. 24 April 2008: If you really wanted to be the slut here and continually procrastinate a very bad situation, you could write very promiscuous texts saying things like I want you to finger my ass and I cant wait to take your dick deep in my mouth. That should wing ... (read in full...)
We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?
Q. I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...
A. 24 April 2008: Dont fall for this, he is scamming you of your heart, your body, and your soul! Leave him, find a real man.... (read in full...)
I want to marry him but he has a child and I come from a traditional background. What do you think?
Q. I'm 21 and absolutely in love with a man whose 30. He already has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. I know for a fact he is ready to marry me. I want to marry him as well, but one thing keeps me from saying "yes", and that is the fact ...
A. 24 April 2008: You should end the relationship because in all honesty, that child is probably more important to him than you. Not to say that he does not love you, but to keep you separated from his child would be near impossible, especially under the same roof. ... (read in full...)
My husband loves to masturbate and I find this a turn-off! It's coming between us..
Q. My husband loves masterbating and i find it such a turn off and upsetting? He always masterbate while watching porn when i'm not home and the times we have sex, it's not special cause he had it yesterday or whenever and i know it . It's always in ...
A. 24 April 2008: Masturbation is normal! All men do it... Not just your hubby. Even in a sexual relationship men still masturbate... Hell I do it about once a day even though I have sex usually twice a day (go libido go), it all just depends on his drive and if you ... (read in full...)
Is a 3 year age gap that big of a deal?
Q. is that okay to continue with my boyfriend who is younger than me? i am 24 and he is 21 what do you think?...
A. 24 April 2008: No not a problem at all. If his maturity surpasses his astrological birth age what does it matter?... (read in full...)
Do girls make passes at guys with glasses?
Q. Do girls think guys with glasses are nerdy? Im tall, 6'2, im not horribly thin but i am not that muscular and i have glasses so basically i am the normal tall,skinny,nerd. I was wondering if getting contacts would make me more attractive, w...
A. 24 April 2008: Forget about looks, forget about material obsessions, forget about things which cloud your mind with negative outlooks on yourself. Rather you wear glasses, contacts, whatever will not matter. Rather you are tall and skinny or short and fat will not ... (read in full...)
Was this sex? I'm a virgin and I'm not sure what to think of this or how to move past it!
Q. I am a guy 24 yrs old and not had sex as yet.I had a aunty in relation whom I am open with. I share every problem with her .I went to a party a wedding in her relation. I was tense those days regarding my job and regarding my girlfriend. i told her...
A. 23 April 2008: Hmm... I dont think I could condone that as sex... Maybe a tease...... (read in full...)
Do birds of a feather flock together?
Q. Hi all, can you really judge your husband/partner by the friends he keeps. I have just hear from a friend of mine that her partner of 5 years had be secretly been seeing another woman for 2 years behind her back and the only way she found out was ...
A. 22 April 2008: I wonder the same because I met some of my gf's friends the other night and they were all complete sluts. One of them kept saying that she was completely "DTF"... I asked her what that ment and she said down to fuck. She fucked 2 guys the night we ... (read in full...)
I would love to diversify our sex making but I fear she will think I am perverted to suggest more than the traditional style?
Q. Am facing a serious problem in my sex life coz of monotony. My girlfriend and i have been enjoying our quality time but its become very boring of recent especially for me. She doesnt seem to have any interest in trying any other sex style apart from ...
A. 22 April 2008: have you tried getting her on top of you first? Try to have her ride you.
If you can accomplish that, you can bring in other positions.
Explain to your partner that its about you and her, and pleasuring one another. ... (read in full...)
Possible side effects of watching porn regularly?
Q. What are the possible effects of regular watching of hardcore porn?...
A. 22 April 2008: Besides the immediate? lol
Um... I dont see anything wrong with porn really. Sex is not some man on women secret bed style thing that it was made out to be in the 50's! Hardcore porn can help bring excitement and new ideas to relation... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 22 April 2008: Really, its not...
But... I could understand if you killed his dog or something...
If you hit him first or something...
Everyone is different, I could not imagine laying my hands on my gf... However, if she hit my dog with a bat in the he... (read in full...)
I want to be with her and I know she feels the same, but she's in a committed relation for the past 11 years!
Q. I am a female and in love with another female. I have shared my feelings to her and she has shared the same feelings with me. She is in a relationship for the past 11 years and I have been in one for the past 8. Mine just ended and she is still ...
A. 22 April 2008: Are you sure she is the love of your life? How many women have you been with? How many women have you been with that leaves a committed relationship for you? Perhaps after she leaves and comes to you she will resent you for leaving her previous ... (read in full...)
I am bi and constantly struggle with my sexuality. If I am with a guy then I long for a girl and vice versa!
Q. I am bi and constantly struggle with my sexuality. If I am with a guy then I long for a girl and vice versa. Only a small part of it is sexual but most part of it is emotional and psychological - like holding hands with a woman feels so different ...
A. 22 April 2008: Hm... Have you talked to anyone about this other than on the internet? Here is a though... Try talking to your bf about it, and maybe by venting your emotions to another woman to him it will help relieve some of the strain that you feel by keeping ... (read in full...)
How would I ask a complete stranger out?
Q. How would i ask a complete stranger out? Like say going through the line at a grocery store and having a attractive girl ringing you out, in my experience putting them on the spot by saying "want to hang out sometime?" usually they get nervous...
A. 22 April 2008: Yes do NOT write it on a piece of paper, that would be creepy. If you are trying to hit on the girl ringing up your groceries its going to be tough... Trying to ask someone on a date while they are working is tricky, especially since you are a ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated after being married for 30years
Q. been married for 20 years.had very wonderful sex life i never ever thought this could happen to me. we are not young.i m 52 and she is 48.we have three kids 18 yr. 16 and 12. she has been a house wife all her life.last year she told me that she...
A. 22 April 2008: The first poster is dead on! Its so frustrating how someone, especially her age, could still act so childish. It would raise all sorts of questions in my head, like if she had been faithful the entire time? Did the other guy give her something that ... (read in full...)
My reflection makes me feel sick. I can't make eye contact and talk to people because of this!
Q. i seriously hate the way i look - my reflection makes me feel sick n i cant stand myself most days. some people say im ugly, others tell me i have nice eyes n am pretty but i still see an ugly girl when i look in the mirror. my main problem is ...
A. 21 April 2008: Looks are not something to beat yourself up over and good looks are really just an opinion. I know some men who say that a skinny girl turns them on, while some say heavy girls do it for them, some like brunette, some like blond. Its all a matter of ... (read in full...)
Will this relationship end in disaster over her good-looking ex?
Q. I can't stop comparing myself to my girl friend's ex. My girl friend went out with a guy from when she was 16 to 18 and I started going out with her from 19 to now and she is 22. My problem is that her ex is extremely good looking and I can...
A. 21 April 2008: Hey, I recently went through something somewhat similar to you... What you are dealing with is Jealousy.
First let me say that looks are not important. Do not compare yourself by looks... In fact, do not compare yourself to him period. You have... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I might lose everyone due to my jealousy! How can I stop?
Q. Would it me so hard for me to get rid of my jealousy. Cause I'm a very, and very jealous and I get jealous I'm like a different person, it makes me try to control my friends and specially my bouyfriend. And I'm afraid because of my jealousy I might ...
A. 21 April 2008: When you feel yourself getting jealous, ask yourself these three questions:
1) Why am I jealous?
2) Why do I feel threatened?
3) What do I think is really going to happen?
... (read in full...)
I'm 12yrs old and I like my 38yr old band teacher! I want to kiss him, help!
Q. I really like my band teacher. he ALWAYS hugs me and kisses me on the head. he's like 38 and is my neighbor! he's not married. he always really open to me, like he'll tell me if something is bothering him. at the dance a song came on that we love ...
A. 18 April 2008: Dont do it, youre only going to get in heaps of trouble, better off suppressing it.... (read in full...)
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