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Could this man 33 years older than me be interested in me?

Q.   Do you think i should give this man a chance, if he wants to go out with me , despite the age difference ?. I am 27, and he is 60. He is a very kind person. I was seeing another man recently, and he didn't treat me very well sometimes. This man, who ...

A.   18 June 2011: I think it's a terrible idea. If you really want to puruse a future with him, and have a child. By the time your child is 20, he's already got a foot in the grave and you're still going to be young. Go and try to find a man your own age, it will ... (read in full...)

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

Q.   hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any ...

A.   31 October 2010: I disagree wit girl above. U c if he hasn't dun anything wrong is faithful to u stay with him. When u were a baby crying to b fed n waking ur mum up at night. Were u v loveable? Yet ur mum still prob loved u. Also ur sons need a father.... (read in full...)

Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts

Q.   This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me ...

A.   31 October 2010: He's a jerk I think he said those things cuz he was ashamed of his small pee pee... (read in full...)

My husband is living with his mistress but says he loves me

Q.   Hi. My husband has moved out and in with his mistress. He met her on facebook and had an online relationship with her for several months before meeting in person. I found out shortly after, but he did not end the affair and now lives with her, has ...

A.   31 October 2010: He's full of bull. He reminds me of my own dad. Married for20 yrs wit 4 kids and has the nerve to knock up my mum wit a kid, leaving her preg n alone whilst running bak to his wife. Let me tell u I have no respect for jerks like him. So wat happened ... (read in full...)

What is so special about love or lust?

Q.   Well, it's been a long time since I've had sex, which was a few years back, but my question is... Why do people insist on saying that relationships are special? What is so special about an intimate relationship? Is it possible (just possible) ...

A.   25 September 2010: Well um, it's prolly all thru the media and songs n stuff. Personally I've never had relationship and I've never really been bothered much. But it all depends on who u are i guess... (read in full...)

My girlfriend cries all the time

Q.   My girlfriend likes to cry... a lot. When I first met her, she wasn't overly emotional at all, I mean, she still showed emotion, but she never really cried. But when we started going out and became more serious, she just became more and more em...

A.   25 September 2010: Nothing much you can do. If you've listened and done all that, and she's still weeping uncontrollably, you've either gotta accept it as a part of the relationship or just leave her.... (read in full...)

I'm lost again as usual : /

Q.   Well let's see I'm 19 years old now. I have been off and on friends with this chick for 4 years. We got into a big fight in 2008 that lasted to 2009. We didn't talk. Well she tried to, not the good talk the "I'm gonna cyber harass you for months. ...

A.   25 September 2010: Dude, I'm a girl and no you don't seem horrible. You seems insecure and maybe in need of an actually nice girl to come into your life. To tell you the truth, she sounds like a bit of a bitch, honestly, telling you that she'd hang out with other ppl ... (read in full...)

My mom never remembers things the way that they actually happened!

Q.   I'm really at my wits end with my mum, we argue all the time and she insists on always being right no matter what. I'm almost tempted to record our conversations as proof, because she ALWAYS remembers something as happening in an entirely different ...

A.   25 September 2010: Lol I'm chinese and i've got a mum like that too. Well, just try you're best to make peace with your mum. Just be quiet and try and be understanding. Don't try to explain since she'll take it that you're arguing (mine always does). Just say yes and ... (read in full...)

Does a brazilian wax hurt?

Q.   Hey I'm 19 and I wanna get a brazilian wax and I was wondering does it hurt?...

A.   25 September 2010: It's pain pain pain, get a beautician to do it for you first! Maybe consider laser?... (read in full...)

How can I feel more comfortable as single ?

Q.   I bet many singles hate the situation , when friends and family ask you, "why are you single" ? or "How come that a good looking person like you is single" ? " How come that you turn 18 and you haven't lost your virginity yet "? The top is ,when ...

A.   25 September 2010: Loool! I'm 18 and I'm actually really happy being single! So I might be the right person to answer. Well basically, I see this period as being one that I'm definetely going to miss in the future. Think about a noisy house with kids, won't you wish ... (read in full...)

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

Q.   I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use ...

A.   31 January 2010: Gosh, don't feel bad. Maybe its not you, maybe its money problems that are killing off the sexual appetite. Maybe ask him. If that doesn't work, try 'sex him up'. Organize a romantic dinner and do the candlelight and petal thing. Hope that helps :)... (read in full...)

Are some people simply destined to be alone all their lives?

Q.   At age 25 i have never been in a relationship and obviously still a virgin never kissed anyone and as each day passes i see myself growing older and lonlier. I suffer badly from depression and anxiety i have no self esteem at all no confiden...

A.   31 January 2010: Hey, I haven't been in a relationship myself. But maybe you shouldn't have such a bleak outlook on life. Realise that life has so much to offer, of course there are downs but we won't appreciate ups without them. So hold ur head up high. Smile, ... (read in full...)

We have a perfect relationship except he shakes me and pulls my hair...

Q.   Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together 5 months now but have known eachother for over a year. we have a perfect relationship. sometimes. when we are not fighting and screaming and wanting to strangle eachother. we fight over ...

A.   15 October 2009: I can't stress enough TELL SOMEBODY!!!! You are not the only pregnant teenager who tries to hide her pregnancy for reasons of insecurity. Trust me, after your parents have gotten over the shock, ultimately, they ARE your parents and care... (read in full...)

Infatuated with my teacher... but she's female same as me!

Q.   She is a teacher, my french teacher. I stare at her whenever I get the opportunity. She's got gorgeous blonde hair, it goes down to her shoulders. I think about her; like every minute of the day. I'm infatuated. I don't want to have sex with her. I ...

A.   26 April 2009: Well maybe try your hardest to get over her. Objectively, this relationship isn't going far not is there any chance of it. I'm sure you'll find someone just as amazing if not nicer later on... (read in full...)

Why would he leave me to be with women that treat him like crap?

Q.   Hi, I am so confused. My ex and I were together for 7 years and our relationship wasn't a bad one although it was rocky towards the end. What I want to know is why he left me to be with women who treat him like crap. I was faithful and I loved him ...

A.   26 April 2009: Oh my goodness, sounds like a bad case of being way to nice. Perhaps you should play 'hard to get?' It's been proven to work for centuries. Don't just act like a go-between girlfriend. Be firm in what you want. But he sounds selfish. You seem lik... (read in full...)

Male Teacher, Female Student and a Father-Daughter Relationship

Q.   I'm sorry for another one of these questions.. My philosophy/religion teacher is middle aged, and a very handsome man; but what has won me over most has been his confidence, down-to-earth demeanor and corky sense of humour. He has led an admir...

A.   26 April 2009: Mmm thing is he's got a wife and kids. Not a good idea hum, perhaps as harsh as it sounds, moving on? I know it sounds fickle but i had a crazy crush that lasted a year, I found it so hard but eventually I managed to let him go.... (read in full...)

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