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writes:Well let's see I'm 19 years old now. I have been off and on friends with this chick for 4 years. We got into a big fight in 2008 that lasted to 2009. We didn't talk. Well she tried to, not the good talk the "I'm gonna cyber harass you for months. And try and get my older male cousin to make your life a living hell." That kind of talk. And just recently she started hanging out with these 2 guys. There her "friends" but honestly I don't think they are too bright of men. But she picked them over hanging out with me. And as a girl I called her out on it. Then this big stupid fight came out. She said she didn't like me, and that she'd rather hang out with them any day. I just don't get it? I am sick and tired of girls and guys! I never ever could make any good friends and its sooo hard! I'm 19 and now have no friends as usual. Do you think it's me? Am I the bad friend? I'm just lost again. I feel lonely like I did in high school and it just hurts my heart to be alone....again. I can't find anyone I could really truly call my best friend. I cant trust anyone. I never could. Girls are an evil race. I don't think I'll ever make a good girl friend and this makes me sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): My apologies miss for mistaken your gender. Best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the feedback...and um..I'm not a guy trancedrhythmear. I'm actually a chick lol. And sorry for offending anyone with the whole females are an evil race thing. There not, just some chicks are evil. I am insecure and that is why I find it hard to make new friends. I don't want to feel rejected so I always make the wrong friends, the "party animals" who only want to hang out with you when there is booze involved. I don't know how to talk to people normally. But yeah I'm not going to talk to her again. I know for a fact that a couple of months from now she will try and apologize to me, because she always does! But this time I'm not going to let her back into my life. I know she was a bad friend and I have to move on, and try and be a stronger person :) but thanks!
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reader, Rosygirls92  +, writes (25 September 2010):
Dude, I'm a girl and no you don't seem horrible. You seems insecure and maybe in need of an actually nice girl to come into your life. To tell you the truth, she sounds like a bit of a bitch, honestly, telling you that she'd hang out with other ppl over you anyday? Sure i'd have an argument and not talk to the guy but I'd make sure the guy didn't feel like crap, just that he'd realised he'd done something wrong.
It's sad but it's reality, you usually can't always trust everyone, except perhaps your family members. That's not to say be on your toes every second, but be wary stuff like that mite happen.
Also GIRLS ARE NOT AN EVIL RACE!!! -slightly offended-
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Im not gonna sit here and feel sorry for you. You have the decision of who you wish to associate yourself with. These people obviously bring you down and you seem like an upbeat guy, therefore, stay the hell away from them. They will do you no good. Girls are not an evil race. Believe me...they are frickin amazing both sexually and in personality. You just need to find better people to hang out with. Dont be afraid to network a bit thru ppl you know. Heck, I met my best friend thru the secretary at my high school. When people see youre friendly, theyll pick up on that and sooner or later youll attract people who genuinely want you as a friend. Stick to who you are and cut out that bitch from your life completely. No email, no phone, nothin' man. That may sound extreme but its what may be necessary. Good luck.
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