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well im 18, i have long dark brown hair, im skinny, not really strong but i dont care and i wear glasses. i like writing stories, thinking alot, playing video games sometimes, listening to japanese music. i admire romance alot and know how to treat a girl (if shes not greedy, selfish or has an attitude). ppl treat me differently like im nothing but who cares? theres 1 thing i want from this world, but i can never get it. its priceless and doesnt require money to obtain it... it will always be with you even if its far away... you can get them anyday if u want but a real one would be the first to talk to you... know what it is? a true friend

Should I stay with her or not?

Q.   I have known this girl for almost my entire life and we are the best of friends. She is the type of girl that flaunts around and has had many boyfriends before. well recently i thought that maybe i could try to be with her and she said yes. so we st...

A.   9 December 2010: personally i would just stay friends. some friendships can evolve into a lasting relationship and some are better just staying friends. you gave her the chance to be with a nice caring guy like yourself and if she really cared so much that she ... (read in full...)

Clothes make the woman!

Q.   Hey everyone, I heard this one guy say something when i was walking down the street. he said ¨clothes make the woman.¨ What does that term mean?...

A.   1 May 2010: thank you all for your fair and wide option of answers. i understand the term more completely like based on how there personality, attitude, and sensitivity relates to there attire. sexy = a flirt & wild girl/guy business = serious & organized... (read in full...)

I'm scared of my boyfriend at times but afraid to end things!

Q.   My boyfriend complains about everything I do. He goes through my cell phone, follows me to the grocery store, check to see if I am at work, wants sex everyday, hates my best friend(female), goes through my mail, tells me how to dress, and I am ...

A.   24 December 2009: leave him, seriously. hes either too paranoid or he has serious issues based on his past relationships. even a guy has to give the girl space, but this is just way too controlling... (read in full...)

I'm so through with letting people into my heart

Q.   Ok I've got this computer till after Christmas. I am 19 not a manwhore (3 partners) and have been in a relationship with a long time friend of 12 years for 1 year and we have a daughter which is now 6 months. My mother died when I was 15 and it was ...

A.   24 December 2009: first off, you seriously need to pull yourself together! if you really want to be with the mother of your child then you need to get this help she recommends. i know it must've been hard losing your mother but you also wouldn't want to put a burden ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to tease my female best friend when I only like her as a friend?

Q.   hello everyone, just a simple question, is it wrong to tease a female bestfriend? like hugging too much, acting romantic toward her a lot, being overly nice to her, holding her hand. i only want to be friends and only like her as a friend though...

A.   24 December 2009: well thank you all for your help, it really helped but it was kinda too late though cuz she did fall for me, but i also started to have feelings for her as well. so i guess it turned out differently then what i expected. thanks again for your guys... (read in full...)

16, and I want to have sex! Who should I do it with, random guy or close friend?

Q.   im 16, and i feel like im ready to have sex. i dont want to do it with some random guy, but would it be better if i did it with a close friend who is also ready??? (: thanks in advance x...

A.   5 December 2009: i recommend wait until you meet the right person, believe me it will be more meaningful. if you need to get rid of this feeling you are having, then try masterbation, everyone does it plus its natural. ... (read in full...)

Do guys fantasize about rescueing the woman they love?

Q.   Do guys have rescue fantasies? The reason I ask is this, I broke up with my boyfriend last December and recently found out about something that I thought could get him in trouble with the law, so I called him to warn him. When I broke up with...

A.   30 September 2009: well personally, i do alot. just running up to her and hold her tightly never letting go. i believe its quite romantic and sweet... (read in full...)

Met my real sister on facebook but am feeling scared to meet up in real life!

Q.   Hey I’m 14 and I’ve just found my biological sister on facebook and she’s really nice and kind and she acts like she really cares about me and she’s just said she loves me even though we only met on facebook a few days ago. Let me start from the...

A.   4 September 2009: if she says that she truly loves you then appearence has nothing to it hun. she said it herself but i know what you mean, to meet a relative you never seen yet knew you had. when you go meet her just take deep breath before you do. you love her and ... (read in full...)

I can't imagine being with someone else, so why am I having these doubts?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. He's 22 and i'm 18. He's got a full time job, which means he has to be up for work at 6 every morning until 4 in the afternoon. Whereas i am at uni. Hes my first proper relationship. He tells m...

A.   7 July 2009: i think your just bored, you want something different to happen so you doubt your love (at least thats my opinion). id say ask your hubby you want to do something like go out, have dinner, take a walk in the park, or something together. I hope this ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has feelings for another guy

Q.   Ok so heres how it goes.. Ive been dating this call for 4 months now. before that, we were best friends for a year, and it was basically the best relationship ever in the beginnin when i could see that she loved me a lot. Now, i dont see that ...

A.   7 July 2009: first tell what she wants in a man and ask her what she loves about you, tell her that when she talks to you about another person that it hurts you inside. Ive been in this situation at least once before. when a woman meets a man that she likes, ... (read in full...)

I need your help here! How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me? Do I have to open up first?

Q.   Hi, I'm having trouble opening up to my girlfriend to get her to open up. I always imagine just being totally romantic to her and kissing her passionately but I'm afraid of the out come is what scares me and if I screw up. I feel like such an idiot ...

A.   27 June 2009: she opened up to me! yay! thank u all for your wonderful answers, were closer then ever! i think ive met the one. again, thank you all vary much... (read in full...)

Do I need help?

Q.   hey everyone, im just here to tell how my life is and what i should do. i have low self esteem and i dont really believe in myself sometimes, ive been sexually abused when i was younger by 2 of my friends and i never told anyone, i never had any ...

A.   12 June 2009: thank you for your answers. i vary much appreciate your help. this site will help alot plus i have a good idea why all of it happened to me... i read a book called the secret, and i found out why they happened. thank you again everyone... (read in full...)

Teacher mystery. Please help!

Q.   I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. How...

A.   12 June 2009: glad i helped in someway. friendships come and go but the memories of the time spent together will always remind us of how great they were.... (read in full...)

Teacher mystery. Please help!

Q.   I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. How...

A.   4 June 2009: by the sound of it, she probably did have feelings toward you but she didnt want to act of them because if something did happen between the 2 of you, it could jeopardise her career as a teacher even if you did graduate. you have to look in her ... (read in full...)

Met a guy over World of Warcraft while yet in another relationship, things got confusing, what is your opinion of the state of affairs?

Q.   I met a guy over World of Warcraft....he was amazing. He became my best friend and in no time we fell for each other. Well at the point in time, he was in a three year relationship, where I was in a one year. We still continued to flirt, until ...

A.   26 May 2009: "you cant force a flower to bloom to beauty overnight". marriage is a serious bond that must be built on longtime love and passion for 1 another, but this is a burst of a huge crush hun. that doesnt get you far in life, trust me ive had those ... (read in full...)

I like him but his sister is overprotective!

Q.   Long story short, this guy and I have recently started liking eachother, we really tend to hit it off quite well, and i could see us really going somewhere in the future.. only problem is, his sister hates mostly all of his girlfriends and ex's. She ...

A.   13 May 2009: i know this sounds crazy but do u ever wonder just how close they are? u have to think of that possibility cuz me and my sis are close so much that no 1 would understand. brothers and sisters usually fight but in rare occasions they get along like ... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   12 May 2009: we... we had sex, one thing lead to another and... we did it but i dont feel ive done anything wrong at all. it felt like a loving bond. also we were both virgins too. i love her alot but do u think it was wrong? btw i used protection of course... (read in full...)

She won't like the age gap

Q.   Im 17 and my boyfriends 23, ive known him since ive been 14, and for many reasons we didnt get together but now we love each other so much. Next week im going to live with my mum which is about 3 hours away from him and i want him to come and stay...

A.   4 May 2009: if she really loves u then she should understand. my teacher is 26 and im 18 and we still love each other very much. shes nice and beautiful. anyways if your mom disagrees then tell her to reconsider. hope she understands hun... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   27 April 2009: i know what you mean, its true we cant control our feelings. i know i couldn't control mine, my love for my sis just grew into something ppl wouldn't understand. its risky but it makes happy to be with my sister in a more connected way... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me?! Is this NORMAL for a teenager?

Q.   I'm a teenager that just can't date like others do. People my age date because they have a small crush on each other, because that's what you're supposed to do at my age, right? But for some reason I can only go with a girl for love, not just for...

A.   26 April 2009: buddy i had that feeling and my friend ive met 5 yrs ago when i was 15 is now my gf. i always had that feeling that there was always the one for everyone and still do today. i knew that forever love was impossible but i started to have 2nd thoughts. ... (read in full...)

I hate my mother!

Q.   I HATE MY MOTHER she plays favorites my older brother being her favorite; she would always say we dont have enough money to get ME this but...she even bought him a CAR I ALWAYS wished i was born to a different family one where they would actually ...

A.   26 April 2009: normally id agree with u, but remember youll only really have 1 mother. you should tell her how you feel, being given unfairness can hurt. ive been there.... (read in full...)

I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).

Q.   I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...

A.   26 April 2009: love shouldn't matter by appearance. i have a chubby gf and id still love her sexually. im for bbws... (read in full...)

Nicknames!

Q.   Okay I really need help what is a good nickname for "Amy Marie" Please help I REALLY need one thanks....

A.   26 April 2009: Amy rose! lol it sounds super cute awesome... (read in full...)

I cheated, tried to fix it, now he's planning a secret tryst...

Q.   I cheated about 7 months ago. I had been unhappy for years, tried to tell my husband but he brushed me off. Not that he's bad, he's great, just oblivious. He told me he always thought that the fact that he loved me so much was enough, he didn't ...

A.   26 April 2009: one word - karma, but my second guess is he wants to get even. men do that alot, when there cheated on they always have 3 options. 1. forgive and forget. 2. leave that person. 3. get even. life is hard and painful, but we have to try and be ... (read in full...)

I have to see my g/f secretly as her controlling mum dislikes me, any help?

Q.   My girlfriend is 22 and i am 23 and she is totally dominated by her mum, she has her own car and she has her own job but her mum controls her like mad. my Gf cannot go out without her mum's permission and it seems the only time her mum will allow ...

A.   25 April 2009: well thats normal, in every relationship we all need our space. let her have it and when she is ready to give an answer on what she wants to do, she'll tell you. after all, she loves you and you love her... (read in full...)

I have to see my g/f secretly as her controlling mum dislikes me, any help?

Q.   My girlfriend is 22 and i am 23 and she is totally dominated by her mum, she has her own car and she has her own job but her mum controls her like mad. my Gf cannot go out without her mum's permission and it seems the only time her mum will allow ...

A.   22 April 2009: well if her mom really loves her daughter then she should allow her to make her decisions in life. also tell your gf shes old enough to make her own decisions too. she doesn't have to be pushed around like a doll, shes an adult. personally, i would ... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   22 April 2009: yup, i dont mind that we can sleep together freely, i definitely said yes when she asked me to move with her. its like were free to do what we want at her new place. i think its more romantic then just a sexual feeling in my eyes... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   21 April 2009: well i told her about the article and she said "bro everyone makes there own decision in life and some people won't understand and we made one. i love you and you love me, your like my dream boy, but we cant go to far. ill always be there for u". im ... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   11 April 2009: well we have mouth to mouth and just cuddle when we sleep together. lately, we have moved on though but we still sleep and kiss, its like a thing we cant stop. she has her bf and i have my gf, times change and when u start something it can be hard ... (read in full...)

He is rude towards me after we broke up

Q.   Hoping someone can help. My ex broke up with me before Christmas. I was hurt but since he asked for no contact, I complied. I saw him tonight when we happened to be at a table of mutual friends in the restaurant. I ignored him, just acted like he ...

A.   7 April 2009: think of it, he feels hurt in someway and hes trying to avoid that by ignoring you. id feel hurt if i got out of a great relationship and i saw my ex, id just ignore her and not smile, i wouldn't be mean or anything... (read in full...)

Lost my faith in guys - have I been used?

Q.   I've been dating a nice guy for about 7 weeks. Was very romantic, kind and seemed to be very in to me. I went on another date with him again at the weekend - the date went well and I invited him back to mine. We ended up sleeping together. He is the ...

A.   7 April 2009: for one thing if he met me, id knock his lights out if he really did use you. aside from that, u shouldnt let 1 guy decide your future relationships to find that great guy if your life. alot of guys out there are just jurks to begin with or they ... (read in full...)

Have we all met "the one" yet?

Q.   hi people. i just want to know and i really need to know for sure. in life each and everyone of us meets ¨the one¨. the one is who were to be with and love forever. how do we know if we have met the one or not? because if we miss our chance at the ...

A.   5 April 2009: btw im a guy!... (read in full...)

Older women dating younger guys

Q.   its high insight question.is there something with girl of 31 years old going out with 29 year old guy? Is there anything wrong with this? ...

A.   5 April 2009: i wouldnt think so. if a woman wanted to date me 2 years older than me and we had alot in common, i have no problem being with her... (read in full...)

Older woman younger guy...good idea? Bad idea?

Q.   Started seeing a guy 10 years younger than me. He says he likes older women and age isn't an issue. Still at the early stages but don't want to get hurt. Am I silly to even contemplate this is as a long term relationship. As I am an older Mum,...

A.   5 April 2009: well as long as u both love each other and your kids get along then it shouldnt be as bad as u think, plus hes younger than you which makes the sex even better. you shouldnt worry as long as u trust each other. if he has a kid than he must be a ... (read in full...)

What's your dream girl/guy?

Q.   If you could have a dream girl/guy what would they be like??...

A.   21 March 2009: well a girl thats funny, cute, smart, open, into anime, likes listening to 90s music, neck length brown hair, green eyes, understanding, aggressive but submissive at times, romantic, passionate, shorter than me, doesn't do drugs or drink, a good ... (read in full...)

He's shorter than me!

Q.   We like each other very much he worries all the time that i dnt like him cause hes shorter than me... M 5"10 hes 5"8. By him worrying he makes me self conscious about my height. Any idea guys please... And also girls too... Help me...

A.   17 March 2009: aww thats so cute! its like a lil brother being hugged by his older sister. anyways, just tell him time, age, height, etc. doesnt matter when it comes to love... (read in full...)

I need your help here! How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me? Do I have to open up first?

Q.   Hi, I'm having trouble opening up to my girlfriend to get her to open up. I always imagine just being totally romantic to her and kissing her passionately but I'm afraid of the out come is what scares me and if I screw up. I feel like such an idiot ...

A.   16 March 2009: well i appreciate your answers very much and will try to get her to open up. i remember when me and her were at this dance and i just never wanted to let her go. lol and when we kissed i told her i love her, she said it back! I was like “OMG!! i ... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   12 March 2009: well things are going normally for now. i told her it was wrong and that we might regret it if were together and she understands, but we recently been sleeping together and sneaking into each others bed at night. we just sleep and talk, nothing ... (read in full...)

Should I return my big sister's love

Q.   hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

A.   11 March 2009: but shes like my only friend that truly understands me and shes there when i need someone. you wouldnt understand. ... (read in full...)

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