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writes:hi people. i just want to know and i really need to know for sure. in life each and everyone of us meets ¨the one¨. the one is who were to be with and love forever. how do we know if we have met the one or not? because if we miss our chance at the one then will we remain lonely forever or was that person we were with not the one? Reply to this Question
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reader, romance_boy18 +, writes (5 April 2009):
romance_boy18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question btw im a guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): The 'One' for you now has the same mental-health as you. Does that makes sense?
What I mean is if you don't like yourself, then you will attract the wrong guy, or you will learn life lessons the 'harder' way. =/
If you take time to make yourself a healthy person, emotionally and physically, you will meet a Great Guy or The One.
I heard this saying on DC and just have to keep repeating it for a meaningful relationship. The Grass is greener where you water it. ;)
(fish sign- for anyone who knows what that means:)
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 April 2009):
Wow you are overdramatic.
You can always find someone new to be happy with.
No one person is your "last chance at happiness" or the human race would have died out.
If you have doubts about someone you can stick it out or go for something better.
It's your choice and everything is always ok in the end.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): You've been reading too many romance novels!
In my opinion, how can it possibly be that you only have ONE person you truly love for your whole life? Do you really think people are so different from one another that even with 6 BILLION to choose from, only one will be just right?
You've already made the assumption that this is true (and you've also assumed the only true, real love must last forever), and your question now is what to do if you "miss your chance" with the one. Well, if you believe that there is someone you were "meant" to be with, then why not also believe that everything will happen just exactly the way it is supposed to, that everything right now is exactly right and whatever person you have missed your chance with, you were supposed to miss all along?
OR you could choose to believe that what happens to you in your life is your choice and responsibility, and if you want it to happen, and you make it work, "the one" will come along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): You will know when you meet the one. My motto is don't marry someone who you can live with, marry someone who you can't live without. When you meet the One, you will not be able to live without them.
Are you asking because you think you've met the One? Or just curious?
Also, if you think you have missed your chance, change it, do all you can to make it happen. Also, if that person is meant to be with you, they will do everthing to be with you.
Finally, don't settl for someone in fear of not finding the right person, when you know, you will know, don't try and force emotions-they will come naturally
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reader, Graci +, writes (5 April 2009):
 I believe that you will have several people who you think might be the "one" but then something might happen and then you realise that they are not and are actually a stepping stone to the one. You can learn from each relationship more about what you want and what you don't in a relationship and this brings you closer to the perfect man for YOU. I don't believe that every person has just one person that they are destined to be with one person but i do believe that there are hundreds of people that will compliment each others personality and are extremely well suited for each other and something will just click and they won't want to be without each other.
Everybody that I know has to work in their relationship so I don't believe two people are absoloutly perfect for each other.
Also, there are billions of people out there so there really is only one person for each and every one of us then thats a pretty tough challenge or a huge coincidence if you find them!
I think the most important thing is to learn what makes you happy in a relationship, don't change for anyone and don't search for somebody who could be the "one", just let it happen, do things you enjoy because thats where you are likely to meet somebody who you will hit it off with. If you look too hard for something you might miss whats right in front of you.
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