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7 May 2022: Since this is a problem website, I guess it's not unusual that we get a lot of posts about infidelity but over the past year or so we've had glut of posts asking about the perils faced by those who have begun their relationship as an affair. Thes...
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How to spot trolls
Q. How to spot our regular troll(s) 1) Our troll loves to give their characters names. Most of our genuine posters don't do this. They refer to "my boyfriend" or "my mother" or "my best friend" but our troll talks about "Tarnya" or "Brooke" or "Lup...
A. 8 June 2022: 16) Trolly likes the word "humdrum" and occasionally the word "mundane". (Rather like his/her posts are becoming.)
17) Obsessed by Covid. I know it's something that affected everybody worldwide but Trolly has to weave Covid SOMEWHERE into their na... (read in full...)
How to spot trolls
Q. How to spot our regular troll(s) 1) Our troll loves to give their characters names. Most of our genuine posters don't do this. They refer to "my boyfriend" or "my mother" or "my best friend" but our troll talks about "Tarnya" or "Brooke" or "Lup...
A. 27 May 2022: Apparently some of our posts are very similar in writing style because they have been ghostwritten. I've just received a PM from this ghostwriter who says that clients pay nearly $100 to have questions ghostwritten for them. I wonder if these ... (read in full...)
could be the reality of things, if my sister continues down the path of dating a married man?"
Q. Last night, my sister, 26, came round to my house to tell me she had something important to say. She admitted to me she'd been dating this married man, who's 38, since last August, when lockdown measures ended here in the UK in July with "Freed...
A. 7 May 2022: I have just written an article on this very subject. You can find it by clicking on the "articles" link at the top of the page (usually highlighted in yellow). I won't post a link because that usually bust the margins of the page.
I hope you read... (read in full...)
Writing a love letter?
Q. My gf and I have been dating for two years. I want to write her a love letter but need help. What to say? I would like our relationship to be more intimate. Can I mention that in a love letter? ...
A. 30 April 2022: Nah, a love letter is not a good way to bring up sexual topics for the first time.
You and she should have a serious discussion in person. ... (read in full...)
Should we wait?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Since a few days, we've been talking about having sex. We really want to do it, but I don't know how to have sex and I'm also scared of getting pregnant. My friends say different things – some say ...
A. 30 April 2022: Hi,
If your feeling anxious and confused about sex, that's probably an indicator that your not ready yet.
The risk of pregnancy is always very real for all sexually active women (the only way to avoid pregnancy 100% is to remain abstinent... (read in full...)
What’s the nicest way to tell our good friends that their daughter is turning into a little tart?
Q. Yesterday when my 13 year old son asked me to sort out an issue on his iPhone I decided to have a little snoop through his messages. It felt really sly at first but I’m glad I did because I found WhatsApp messages between him and the daughter of ...
A. 27 April 2022: HoneyPie gives great advice. The NSPCC website also has a whole section on talking to children and young people about their burgeoning sexuality as well as dealing with sexually precocious children.
And the term "sexually precocious" is much bet... (read in full...)
How to spot trolls
Q. How to spot our regular troll(s) 1) Our troll loves to give their characters names. Most of our genuine posters don't do this. They refer to "my boyfriend" or "my mother" or "my best friend" but our troll talks about "Tarnya" or "Brooke" or "Lup...
A. 25 April 2022: 14) Trolly is often very precise with dates. They met their partner in 2012, got engaged in 2015, married in 2019, got made redundant in 2020 etc etc... The year 2012 seems to hold special significance for them.
15) Trolly often describes his/her ... (read in full...)
My husband's ex travelled 90 miles to see him
Q. Hello guys. Not sure how to deal with this problem involving my husband and his ex. On Friday afternoon, his ex had come to our house, I didn't recognize the woman asking for him, she said she hadn't seen him since 1995, and wanted to talk to hi...
A. 20 April 2022: Well people won't be banned from Facebook unless somebody actually complains to them.
Seek legal advice for getting a restraining order which includes internet communications as well as contact in person.
There's not much else you can do for s... (read in full...)
My son's friend's mum left the kids alone at night
Q. My 12 yrs old son went to stay over with his mate, I assumed the mum of said child would stay in but my son told me she went to her mates for drinks and left them till 2am alone in the house to do what they liked , my son has never been left alo...
A. 20 April 2022: No you're not being mean (although it may seem like it too your son.) In the UK she is probably breaking the law (although it's a bit of a grey area.)
Stick to your guns. Have the friend over for sleep-overs at yours instead. ... (read in full...)
Stepson using home as a hotel
Q. Please help, I am really struggling with my stepson. He is 21 years old, in the army and visits us about three times a year. So, no biggie I hear you say - but when he comes he stays for three weeks or more, we hardly see him as he uses the home...
A. 19 April 2022: I remember this post from before too. And as far as I remember, no one else in the family appears to have a problem with it. Perhaps it's just a case that you and your partner had radically different parenting yourselves and therefore wildly ... (read in full...)
What is proper?
Q. Is it right to use love letter to approach a girl at first ?...
A. 19 April 2022: No, don't send a love letter as an introduction. Love letters are best kept for people who are already dating.
Most women will find a love letter from a guy they aren't dating either very creepy or completely laughable.
Just talk to her and ... (read in full...)
Sister involved with married man. I am worried about her
Q. My sister who's 28 told me that she's been dating this guy since November (when lockdown had well ended by then, but Plan B was in the news) and that he's married but had been in the process of divorcing his wife since September yet she refuses to ...
A. 18 April 2022: Yes, I seem to remember this post from before too.
In the previous post, the poster mentioned that her sister had a support worker. If this is the case, I highly recommend that you discuss your concerns with them. If you are very concerne... (read in full...)
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