I am not a serial cheat and nor is he....so why are we doing this?
Q. Firstly...please don't judge me. I know I'm playing with fire and I'm an idiot but I really need an objective opinion and some advice. I am married, it's not perfect and I think I rushed into marriage too young. My husband is a good man but we are ...
A. 12 January 2012: You are both in unsatisfactory relationships and looking for a distraction. The danger of both being married and working together adds to the excitement. Neither of you can leave it alone because you both have needs not being met, and you are both ... (read in full...)
Queefing during doggy-style, is there any way to stop it?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have sexual intercourse, we tried the 'doggy style' position, I love it because of the deep penetration but whenever we do it, my vagina makes a weird 'farting' noise? People call it a 'queef'. When it happens I stop and I'm ...
A. 12 January 2012: In my experience, the more relaxed you are the less likely it is to occur. If you tense up due to embarassment it will be worse.... (read in full...)
Am I in the running to get hurt big time even though he loves me?
Q. Hi I hope you can help me as I just don't know how to play this situation that I am in. My fella and I have been together 6 months, he has kids from a previous relationship. I haven't met them yet, as I thought its best to take things slow, fo...
A. 12 January 2012: As a mother, I can see how it must be hard to accept that another woman is going to be part of her kids lives. But you would think that she could be more reasonable seeings as she has a new man herself playing the dad role. I'm wondering if she is ... (read in full...)
We are only having sex once a month! What is going on?
Q. ive been seeing my boyfriend for nearly two years,we get on brilliant and have great times together ,but when it comes down to sex its just not happening ,we getr lots of free time together, my boyfriend also does 12 hour shifts and sometimes feels ...
A. 12 January 2012: You are just not sexually compatible, for whatever reason. Also, I feel that he is not being totally honest with you. If he doesn't make you feel desired it will frustrate you and lower your image of yourself. So don't let the current situation go ... (read in full...)
Husband had emotional affair and isn't attracted to me. He says its my duty to make him aroused!
Q. My hubby had a emmotional affair with his co.worker..even he was ready to 2 marriage but the girl want him to leave me..but he can't do this bcz he thinks he is a victom of love but also love me and our 6 y old baby.now my hubby has leave this ...
A. 12 January 2012: I think you have been damaged emotionally by what he has said and done, and I think that will continue to be the case unless HE changes radically and wants to make your marriage work. Unless he can be exclusive to you, cherish you and make you feel ... (read in full...)
Too early to talk babies?
Q. Im in a relationship and have been for 10 months my partner split with his last girlfriend of 9 years they have one child 6 and still txt as if there friends in jan she walked out I was there for him and we got close and now where together he really ...
A. 14 December 2011: It is too early because you are clearly worried about it. Also, you would worry that he will leave you holding the baby just as he did to her. I think you need more commitment, possibly marriage before children even. x... (read in full...)
Living with my ex after his marriage failed and hoping to get back together but he is still talking to his ex wife....how long is this going to go on for? I feel like piggy in the middle!
Q. My ex split from his wife a few months ago and has been renting a room from me since. The reason why he chose my place is because I have a son for him and thought that we'd get it back on as he made a mistake marrying her. (He's been out of my life ...
A. 14 December 2011: You are being made a total fool of, and you know it. He is trying the classic, having his cake and eating it. If you need to rent a room out for money, get another tennant. This situation is full of aggro for you, you just need to ask him to leave ... (read in full...)
We've been together 5 years but I can't commit!
Q. I really need some advice - I spent over 10 years married to a guy who put himself first, was never really proactive in thinking of doing stuff together and was selfish regarding his hobbies, career etc. He also put me down and showed no ...
A. 14 December 2011: I think if you loved your new man you would have been able to move on alright. You don't need to ever get married again if you are afraid of being caught in a bad relationship again, but you could be part of a loving relationship. I think you are ... (read in full...)
I feel like a loser in Life! What do I do?
Q. I feel like a loser. I know this is not relationship based, but I do need some help or advice or just someone to read this. I am in my late twenties, I dont have a job, I dont have a a partner, I dont have any family or friends, and I dont have ...
A. 14 December 2011: You can only start with one small step and build up from there. Voluntary work will increase your skills, your confidence in yourself and your social contacts. Or join a group to get in touch with other people. Try the meetup.com site for things in ... (read in full...)
I DON'T know if it's really a relationship I want with my FWB but if I leave, I DO know I'll miss the sex!
Q. Hi agony aunts and uncles. I need a bit of advice that maybe some of you can help me with regarding a no strings attached relationship I've been involved in for almost a year. I know that generally things don't tend to work out in the favor of the ...
A. 14 December 2011: More than likely, you have been feeling these feelings of attachment to him for quite some time. The sex is good because you really do like him as more than just a body to use for sex. You need to realise that if you continue on the basis of no ... (read in full...)
Casual fling versus genuine interest
Q. Dear Friends, I don't know whether i'm self-destructive or whether these kinds of guys are just NOT for me.. As soon as i broke up with my boyfriend i met a guy. Naturally when you break up you sometimes need some time before proceeding with ...
A. 14 December 2011: The bloke sounds like a bit of an arse. If he truly cared he would have been more empathetic from the start and taken things more slowly. And if he was really interested he'd keep in touch with you and bide his time because you'd still be on his ... (read in full...)
She's in the early stages of a divorce fighting over a child. Do I sit back?
Q. I recently met a woman, who is in the earliest possible stage of divorce. She has a child with her husband, and he is fighting the divorce because he refuses to go a day without that child. I over the past several months have fallen in love with ...
A. 14 December 2011: I don't see why you have to disappear from this woman's life. You certainly need to take things slowly. For example, if you moved in with her that would make her ex even more crazy and angry and that in turn would make her life more difficult. I say ... (read in full...)
Should I accept the Proposal? But I don't trust him!
Q. Hey, I need some advice on whether I should listen to my head or my heart regarding my bf's marriage proposal. We've been together 17 months, and he's asked me to marry him. My initial reaction was to be very very happy... but I'm starting to give ...
A. 14 December 2011: You can't marry someone while you have these doubts. Why rush into anything. You can just carry on being together till you are 100 per cent sure of him, and if you never get to that point you should find someone else. That bit you said about peopl... (read in full...)
My husband is chatting flirtatiously with a girl from his office. Should I be worried?
Q. So, I have had some trust issues with my husband in the past. Some of it he deserved, and some of it can be attributed to the fact that I tend to be a jealous person. I am having a similar issue tonight. He and I have been doing pretty well late...
A. 14 December 2011: I think it's out of order of him to be honest, and if that was my husband I'd be pissed off. The smileys and hearts thing is the bit that triggered this response in me. He needs to discourage her as she might have a crush on him, that would be the ... (read in full...)
Does everyone get second thoughts when they’re moments away from a divorce?
Q. My soon-to-be ex-husband and were together 15 years, out of which we have been married for 8 years, out of those separated for 3 years and within those we have been in divorce proceedings for the past 2 years… amicably I may add. Half our time ...
A. 14 December 2011: You wouldn't be human if you didn't have mixed feelings about this. Of course it is natural to remember the good times and wish things could have been different. But you said it yourself, he got moody, treated you badly, he made you unhappy and he's ... (read in full...)
Should I end all ties? It will upset me. But my FWB guy wants no commitment.
Q. Hi, I've been friends with benefits with this guy i've known since school for like 3 months now. We text each other constantly and are always talking to each other. We see each other about 3/4 times a week and when we're not with each other we...
A. 24 October 2011: For your own sake, end it. He either likes you enough to be your partner or he's just using you for sex and attention. Sadly, it looks like the latter. x... (read in full...)
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