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hi i live in ayrshrie scotland and im a full time mother to my one year old daughter. i cant stand rudeness and cruelty to children. im recently single and all my friends say im the perfect agony aunt! so ask away and ill try to help in any way i can. thanks luv rachael xxxxxx

I cant stop prank calling my ex!! Think I've got a problem! Help!

Q.   I can't stop prank calling my ex boyfriend. Seriously. I'm 24 years old and I'm acting like a 10 year old. He cheated on me and I was very angry, but instead of confronting him, I just prank call him all the time. My most recent one was calling...

A.   30 April 2007: You do have a problem! i am in the same situation as you. ive just found out my bf was cheating for 4 months and now the lassie is pregnant!i feel confused, angry and totally devestated but in this whole messy situation i have one thing he cant ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 years old with a baby on the way and I'm incredibly afraid about my future. I need help badly!

Q.   I'm a 15 year old girl with a baby on the way and has a 20 year old boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I am incredibly afraid and I have no idea what's going to happen. I am NOT getting an abortion, it's totaly against my morals, plus I ...

A.   18 April 2007: you poor thing!i feel pregnant at 17 and was petrefied and that was with the help of my family and friends!first of all you said your mum kicked you out last september. does she know that you are pregnant? i think you should think about contacting ... (read in full...)

I wonder if my ex bf is sexually addicted. He doesn't seem happy with just one woman! Should I cut all ties as it's hard to be friends with him?

Q.   I have just recently moved out and somewhat separated from my boyfriend of 5 years. We talked of marriage over the years but he would go back and forth on this issue. We wnet through alot in those five years and i helped support him through much of ...

A.   18 April 2007: i dont think hes a sex addict but i do think he is a selfish man. as you said you have been together for 5 years and thouhg you had built a strong and happy relationship. even though it wasnt your thing you tried for him and still it wasnt enough. ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to married men and they to me. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I feel terrible that im attracted to married men and they to me. I find out they are married until after we've had sex. i can't believe it always happens to me. Im in a sorta relationship now and he loves his wife he's told me, but can't stop ...

A.   14 April 2007: cant you see these men are using you! i have a friend in a very similar situation and i will tell you what i told her. stop it, now. these men will never leave there wives for you. they have been with there wives for many years, you are just a bit ... (read in full...)

What things do girls like to be said to them in clubs when they are getting chatted up by a guy?

Q.   what things do girls like to be said to them in clubs when they are getting chatted up by a guy?? n why do girl not give the opportunity to some guys in clubs n juss look down ther nose at them as if ther dirt! ...

A.   14 April 2007: some women are jsut like that, so dont let they few ignorant ppl put you of. first of all, dont EVER use any corny chat up lines atol, ever ever ever!!!!!!!lol, it is an instant turn of and you will get nowere with it. try the very original ... (read in full...)

My husband making me feel so unloved, and unhappy, he is so mean to me and tells me I'm lazy, despite full time college, teaching part time, and looking after 3 kids!!

Q.   Is my marriage over? Please help! I have been married for ten years to my husband. The problem is, I feel so unloved and unhappy. He says very cruel things to me, and acts as though he doesn't care for me at all. I go to college full time, substitu...

A.   10 April 2007: 2 days ago i left a situation very similar to yourself. my partner did not appreciate me, he put me down and called me names infront of our daughter. i had felt so down and unhappy for months and months. i had told him before i was leaving he would ... (read in full...)

I dont feel the same way about my fiance that I once did, would this be wrong to marry him ?

Q.   I am currently engaged to a wonderful guy, but I am not sure that I love him like I should. Occasionally I would get butterflies but not all the time. Also mostly everything he does bugs the crap out of me. I have my days where I can't get enough of ...

A.   10 April 2007: dont marry him you dont love him your jsut used to him! when you leave him you will see there is so many other men out there that you will adore, not that annoy the crap out of you! leave him, it will hurt at first but just take every day one at a ... (read in full...)

I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?

Q.   I am 18 and my girl friend is 14... Is this wrong?...

A.   10 April 2007: alot of poeple will have very different views on this im afraid. firstly it is illegal if you have sex with this girl even if she consents to it. you could be chrged with mandatory rape if someone reports you to the police and could even be placed ... (read in full...)

My menstrual cycle is all over the place! Can anyone shed any light in this area ?

Q.   hi everyone i am a 18 year old girl and i am having female problems... the last period i had was sept,2006 it lasted a week and then feb2007 i was spotting for a day and then it went away and then april7,2007 i started bleeding and it only lasted an ...

A.   9 April 2007: i had exactly the same problem! its a nightmare. you didnt really say if you wanted them or not.if you do want them to be mroe regular i would advise to go on the pill. it means that you should get them every 4 weeks when you take your break from ... (read in full...)

Is she just not telling me shes been dating someone else as we have a house to still sell ?

Q.   I have been broke up for a few months now from my partner of 6 years. She gave her reasons for leaving me which I understand as it was pretty much my fault. Part of me now thinks she had someone in mind before leaving me. We have not really spoke...

A.   9 April 2007: you didnt really explain your reason why if she did have anyone else it has anything to do with you. she is allowed to go and meet other people and what she does with her life is really none of your business im afraid. but apart from that you are ... (read in full...)

I am 19 with a 9 month old daughter and my partner just keeps bringing me down...

Q.   Hi ,my problem is that my long term partner and me are not getting on. he picks on the littlest things and brings me down on them. we have a 9 month old daughter and i am very much in love with my partner but even though i have tried to be the ...

A.   9 April 2007: i left him yesterday and feel so sad it hurt so much. but i know i done the right thing. thanks you for your help.... (read in full...)

Been reading books on dating, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty... but being a virgin at 20 is still eating me up!

Q.   I am a 20 year old male virgin. For the past seven months the fact that I am still a virgin has been eating away at me. During the duration of this time, I have been reading non-stop books on dateing, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty ...

A.   9 April 2007: Hi, i jsut had to reply to this message because a 20 yearn old virgin male is such a rare and refreshing thing. i am 20 aswell and i would rather go with a virgin rather than sum man who is sleeping with anything and everything. you should be proud ... (read in full...)

Im starting to fall for my brothers mate, I doubt this would work so what should I do ?

Q.   there is this boy who is really nice and we get along fine but i think i'm starting to fall in love with him and it's killing me because last night i had the fourth dream in a row about him. But nothing could ever happen because he is my brothers ...

A.   9 April 2007: hunni when your that age you get so many crushes. i dont want to be a typical adult but you will get oner him.at this age im sure your brother wouldnt like the fact his baby sister likes any boys never mind his best pal. try and forget him and enjoy ... (read in full...)

When a woman is on the pill..is there a distinct symptom that will tell her she could be pregnant?

Q.   Does anyone know what is the symptom if you're on the pill all along but got pregnant? I know it's rare, but would you still have your period?...

A.   6 December 2006: well i fell pregnant whilst i was on the patch( a similar contraceptive) and i knew straight away. teh tiredness came first, then hte sore boobs both of these i ognored thinking i couldnt possiblt be pregnant. then came the severe sickness which ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking about the every three month shot

Q.   i'm sixteen. My boyfriend and I started having sex a few weeks ago. He's been using a condom, but I think I'd feel better with something that's more effective so I don't get pregnant. I'm thinking about the every three month shot. Anyone have ...

A.   6 December 2006: well i have to say no dont do it. i went on the the jag when i was sixteen and went from a size 8 to an 18 in 3 months. it dramaticly increases your appitite! ive also been on the patch. you put it on your bum or shoulder o leg for a week and change ... (read in full...)

Will having braces on my teeth affect how oral sex feels to a man?

Q.   does having braces effect oral sex towards males ?...

A.   6 December 2006: well yeah it does. i asked my boyfriend and he confirmed. he said that aslong as you keep your teeth well away your in for a winner! lol. just watch what your doing! you never know guys like the feel of tounge studs which are metal and so are ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I'm 16, not 17 like I said? Do I really have to tell him?

Q.   i have recently been dating this guy who's 20 (i'm 16). we really like each other but i have lied to him, i told him i was 17 turning 18 in May. i know i need to tell him the truth but i dnt want him to leave me because of it. Is there a way around ...

A.   6 December 2006: uck jsut tell him! if he dumps you because of one year of a diference he wasnt worth it anyway!tell him your really sorry and it was becasue you liked him so much you thought you had to lie just for the chance to go out with him! big ego boos for a ... (read in full...)

Is cyber sex, online with different men considered cheating on my husband?

Q.   is it cheating if you are going onto chat sites and chat to guys and talk to them in a sexual way. Sex with my husband is non existent and i feel its the only way i can get rid of my frustration. Yes i have tried to approach my husband to do ...

A.   6 December 2006: Yes i beleive its cheating.does your husband know? does he do it with you i doubt it! that means its wrong and cheating. if your that frustrated id suggest a rampint rabbit. works every time!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

My daughter has a drink and drug problem...how can I make her get help?

Q.   could you please tell me if i can make my 15 year old daughter have help with a drink and drug problem . also can i force her to come home if i think where she is staying is not appropriate...

A.   5 December 2006: i saw this question an just had to answer. you see i was that 15 yea old once. my mum was at her wits end with. i was coming in at all hours full of drink and drugs and sadly that is what todays society is like. i am 19 years old now with a daughter ... (read in full...)

Unruly 4 year old girl! How do we get her to listen and behave?

Q.   I have 3 children a 6yr old son and 4 year old twin girls, One of my twin daughters is very unruley and i'm at an end of what to do next. If her behaviour was just at home I wouldn't mind so much but shes like it at pre school as well. She does the ...

A.   5 December 2006: I had the same problem with my 4 year old, constantly acting up and biting people. so embarasing!im sure you have tried everything you can think of but heres what i done.when my daughter bit anyone she was sent up stairs for 4 minutes ( her age) she ... (read in full...)

Do I keep allowing my small son's, neglectful, slacker father in his life or stop it altogether?

Q.   Hi, I am new to this site and i have joined because i really need some advice from someone impartial (unlike my mother!) my second child is going to be 3 in february and he has a different father from my first child. unfortunately i thought his fath...

A.   5 December 2006: very tricky situation.I am a mother myself and instantly though to say keep this jerk out of his life.But then i spoke to my partner who put another perspective on it.Your son does deserve to know his father but under strict quidlines from you. ... (read in full...)

My ex broke up with me but wants to meet back up to talk...

Q.   my ex went to uni this october after a week he came back and broke up with me then a month later he got a new girl, it was my birthday the other day he sent a card and in it said wen i cum back at xmas we can talk coz ive had a rough time with there ...

A.   5 December 2006: Hi, well i had a similar situation actually and i aswell was so worked up i couldnt eat!. But what you have to consider is this. Why did he break up with you? ESPECIALLY is he knew there has been deaths in the family. what sort of man would do that? ... (read in full...)

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