Could this be my first period, at 14?
Q. Okay so my mom didint start her period till she was 16. so today I started bleeding like dark brown and it was In my underwear? I'm only 14 never had sex what's going on? PlZ help? ...
A. 17 January 2010: yeah its ur periodd... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 15 January 2010: no. dont. honestly ur not ready and u dont no everything that comes with it. have u watched the show teen mom? about 16 year olds who have kids. well guess what. they have a really hard time with it and if ur 14 ur gonna have a way worse time. it ... (read in full...)
I want to get a guy and have my first kiss!
Q. I feel like i will never get a first kiss. I want to find out how to get a guy. i mean i just want like a person who i will always feel safe with. im 14 and still havent hooked up with anyone which is pretty pathetic. please don't tell me im too ...
A. 10 January 2010: itts okay. im 14 too. i havent had my first kiss yet either. or a boyfriend. and im good looking too. i think its just becuz im soooo shy that i never talk to guys outside of school. like these guys will chek me out and show interest yet im too ... (read in full...)
I really love my best guy friend, now he's engaged and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm afraid of losing my best guy friend. I've loved him forever and been afraid to tell him for fear of losing him, maybe just fear it wont be recepricated. We spend a lot of time together always have, I tell him almost everything, not this. He's ...
A. 10 January 2010: i think u should go for it! just tell him. cuz then ull never really tell him how u feel and ull regret it ur whole life. i know u think ur gona loose ur relationship with him but i bet he'll realize he wants to be with u once he knows that. and if ... (read in full...)
Girl wants to have unprotected sex with me and I'm only 14!
Q. I am 14 and a girl i kno wants me to hav sex with her i am about 5 inches when erect and uncircumsised i am a virgin and she is not ... she wants to do it unprotected and hav a kid ... confused :S help pls...
A. 9 January 2010: wow wtf that girl sorry but shes messed up if she wants to have a kid right now. dont do it. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up his relationship but how do I ask him out?
Q. I like this guy a lot in my school and even though he has a girlfriend, were really close and occasionally flirt (not to bad) and he looks at me a lot. The thing is, I haven't had a real convo with him because I only see him once in my whole day ...
A. 7 January 2010: i wont be that girl. im not a bit** i said i wouldnt mess up their relationship. but she already hates me i think cuz she glares and me all the time and i havent done anything bad. i think she knows that he likes me :]... (read in full...)
Is oral sex considered losing your virginity?
Q. I am 14 and I want to save my self for marrage but I keep having sexual urges and dreams tempting me.and I think it oral sex would help but I dont know If its considered loosing your virginity please help me ...
A. 6 January 2010: no it doesnt make you loose your virginity but other people think diffferently which is stuipid lol ... (read in full...)
It hurts my girlfriend when we have sex in the missionary position, what other positions can we try?
Q. my girlfriend told me I hurt her when we missionary what shall I do, different position?...
A. 6 January 2010: go to google and type in sex positions and click on a link and a page should pop up with hundreds of different positions. its amazing. lol they also physically show u with animated people lol ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?
Q. My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...
A. 3 January 2010: im not trying to sound like a bit** but i think u should respect her privacy. im 14 and have done it for a couple years. shes old enough to do it. its not wrong at all. let her be. ... (read in full...)
Does my cousin like me as a girlfriend?
Q. I was at my cousins new years party and we had just opened a 9 litre bottle of champagne (be jealous) and I gave him a hug and said I love you!! he squeezed me and said, no I love YOU!! then he started kissing my cheeks and neck and I was kissing ...
A. 2 January 2010: hmmm. well i still think u should ask lol ... (read in full...)
Does my cousin like me as a girlfriend?
Q. I was at my cousins new years party and we had just opened a 9 litre bottle of champagne (be jealous) and I gave him a hug and said I love you!! he squeezed me and said, no I love YOU!! then he started kissing my cheeks and neck and I was kissing ...
A. 2 January 2010: ask him. i dont think their is anything wrong with it if he does like u like that. just go for it :)... (read in full...)
He's a bad boy and I'm falling for him! I need your help.
Q. Heyaa, I really need your help. There is this boy.. and he was new at my school about 2 months ago. My friend and I welcomed him and showed him around. Then we found out he smoked, has lost his virginity and watches porn but we stilled laughed at ...
A. 1 January 2010: him watching porn doesnt make him a "bad boy" or loosing virginity. almost everyone watches porn and a lot of kids now r loosing their virginity. which is bad. i dunnoo its ur choice if u wanna be with someone who smokes and has a shorter life...... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to feel bad after masturbating?
Q. Well I Am A 13 Year Old Girl almost 14 and i have Been Touching myself For about a year now And it feels really good but when ever i am finished i feel like really Dirty or what ever But i cant stop and i feel well kind of bad About myself. Is It ...
A. 31 December 2009: its normal. i used to alwayz feel bad after doing it and i thought what the hell is wrong with me why do i feel bad its normal. but then once i knew that a lot of girls masturbate, i was like okay its normal for me to do it too. just think to urself ... (read in full...)
I masturbate so much I get headaches!
Q. Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. I started to masterbate when I, 7. Anyways, I masterbate like 4 to 6 times a day to the point where I have a bad headache. It's like I can't get enough... Is there something wrong with me???...
A. 31 December 2009: no theres nothing wrong with you. your hormones r just going crazy right now. see when i was 7 or 8 too, i started to masturbate, and i still do and im 14. my hormornes r still going crazy and i hate it. u just like the feeling of the arousal u get. ... (read in full...)
How can I find him?
Q. I really want help on this one... So this is the beginning... In 2008 I met this guy. We talked a lot and had a lot in common. We ended up liking each other. But I think it was more like love. He wanted to be together with me, but couldn't because ...
A. 29 December 2009: hhaha thanks but i cant drive and also dont no exactly where he lives. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my first female cousin
Q. ok here's whats up I'm in love with my younger female first cousin and i think she likes me back because when we are around each other she sits with me and we hold hands and we cuddle a lot even our family say were kissing cousins their is a slight ...
A. 29 December 2009: i would just take her somewhere where no ones around and tell her how u feel. good luckk.. ... (read in full...)
I am worried about having sex with my boyfriend!
Q. right, im nearly 14 and i have a boyfriend. hes older than me, hes 15. hes not a virgin and we do talk about having sex alot. he has fingered me but he only fit 1 finger up and i am very scared of the pain if he does have sex with me, im also scared ...
A. 27 December 2009: i know everyones telling u ur too young, im 14, and ur too young. ur not gonna marry him.... so dont loose ur virginity to him. just becuz ur dating doesnt mean u have to have sex. he might just be using u. and if hes not a virgin and had sex with a ... (read in full...)
How come they cant see past the little inperfections and see ME!
Q. Oh boy, I am lost. I'm 16 and have never had a boy friend nor have I ever been what the idiot guys at school call "Fuckable." Which is being #1 Skinny. #2 wear 3lbs of makeup that makes you look like some cliche teeny bopper popstar. and #3 have ...
A. 23 December 2009: Im the same way. Well 14 tho. Ive never dated anyone cuz no one wants to or likes me :( i think someone does tho but yeah iduno. i wear makeup and have boobs and am skinny but not total and yet i dont get a bf. i wish both of us luck. :)... (read in full...)
How do I confront a guy thats trying to get my attention?
Q. Okay, so every girl loves when guys check them out right? Yeah, so today, I went to this place with some family, and I was sitting alone for a while, and this really amazingly hot guy was sitting across from me. I was playing with my phone thinking ...
A. 9 July 2009: omg lol i didnt mean "playing" with my phone as in like sexually i meant playing with it as in like tossing it and flipping it and sliding it not like that weirdo!!!!! lol. ... (read in full...)
Will I regret having sex with someone I won't love later in life?
Q. So I'm 14 and I know I'm kind of young, but I look more like I'm 18 apparently and I've done everything but have sex, and I've been asked many times to have sex and I've always turned people down, but I kind of want to have sex, but I partly also ...
A. 9 July 2009: im the same way. im 14, have been asked fer sex, denied them, and i want it but not soooooo bad. i think ur gonna regret it if u do it with someone u dont like. and i look like im 18 too. haha this one lady asked me if i had a credit card cuz she ... (read in full...)
Confused about online guy I like
Q. im 13 i met this guy online he lives in mexico and i live in the US he is sweet we talk every day idk if he likes me this happened a month ago i asked him wat he was doing and he said talkin with some 1 (it was a girl) and he said i dont like her ...
A. 6 July 2009: uhm... i agree with the anonymous guy. especially how young u r. and meeting someone online. especially who lives in mexico. dont give out any info about u. i bet hes like in his 40's and willing to rape u. so block/delete him. dont talk to him ... (read in full...)
Help! Anger problems...
Q. Ok so heres my problem.. I think I have a problem with my anger.. I always fly off the handle for stupid reasons, especially at my boyfriend. It's putting a strain on our relationship as I get really angry at him for no reason. When I'm angr...
A. 6 July 2009: its ok. i have anger issues too. maybe their just hormones since im 14 but idk. anywayz, i get into stupid fights with my mom and best friend. its soooooooo retarted. but idk i was watching tv today and it was showing SAM-E wwhich is this pill or ... (read in full...)
First Time....Viginal Problems
Q. I had sex for the first time on a Sunday evening. the sex was rough and painful(used protection by the way) since i was with a more experienced person. As what most female would expected, i bled. But now for two days (Tuesday) i continue to bled ...
A. 6 July 2009: yeah ur hymen just broke, thats why ur bleeding. its weird that people dont no about their hymens.... ... (read in full...)
They're only 3 days broken up, but I'm falling for her!
Q. OKay a friend of a friend of mine, has just broken up with his girlfriend about 3 days ago, and me and the girl are really good mates, were proper close, anyway the problem is that even without flirting with each other there seems to be this huge ...
A. 6 July 2009: well... i think maybe u should try to not be close with her.. becuz other wise ull loose ur friend and things might not work out with that girl. just tell her u want to be really good friends but nothing more. cuz is it worth losing a really good ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...
Q. I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...
A. 6 July 2009: ur fine. im 14 too and havent got my period yet. its just age difference when u get it. no worriesss. :]... (read in full...)
Help! Sex for the first time!
Q. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14, we are going to have sex for the first time soon, but am really nervous and scared. will it hurt? how does the pain feel like? will i bleed? will i faint? can i walk? thank you to the person who answers ! really ne...
A. 6 July 2009: ive never had sex but i know a lot about it. im 14 so yes it will hurt becuz ur hymen will break, itll hurt to pee after, u will prob bleed cuz most girls do, and ull be able to walk. no worries. have funnnn :]... (read in full...)
Should I or should I not make this fantasy with my cousin?
Q. hi. so i recently got back in touch with a cousin of mine after a while. we met when i was about 14 at my grandma's funeral and we instantly hit it off. we get along great tho we seldom spoke. we met at funerals mostly and other family gatherings. ...
A. 6 July 2009: i would have a fantasy with him. its ok. i dont get whats wrong with related ppl being together.... (read in full...)
Shave my pubes for him?
Q. Hiaa im 13 and im unsure if i should shave my pubes for my boy or not. Please give me a answer!!...
A. 6 July 2009: and p.s. - i would use nair it is soooooooooo easy... (read in full...)
Shave my pubes for him?
Q. Hiaa im 13 and im unsure if i should shave my pubes for my boy or not. Please give me a answer!!...
A. 6 July 2009: i would just becuz u dont no how hes gonna react. ... (read in full...)
How should I maintain my small figure for the duration of pregnancy?
Q. So, i'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my husband has a thing for thinner models like kate moss and the like. He once told me he married me largely because he knew I'd always be one to stay naturally slender, because of how naturally skinny...
A. 6 July 2009: omg u need to be big for the baby. lose weight after u have it. ... (read in full...)
Goth or Diva?
Q. i need help.im going in to middle school and i wanna become a goth or a diva.my friend says if i become a snotty diva she won't be my friend no longer.but my dad says that if i should become a snotty diva to show dont mes with me who should i listen ...
A. 5 July 2009: okay im 14 and in 8th grade. and i went thru a phase where i wanted to be goth or emo but im over it know, its just something ppl do to get attention. and dont turn into a diva either. ull realize u dont have any friends anymore. just be urself. be ... (read in full...)
My parents are too strict!
Q. my parents are too strict and overprotective. i have been a solid A student my entire life. my midnight curfew has always been the same and im only allowed out once a week despite the fact that i am now 18 and that this is my final year of school. t...
A. 5 July 2009: okay, tell them that ur 18 now and they cant control your life anymore. ur not a kid. when u were 17 and under yeah they could tell u when to do stuff and everything but now they cant. i feel bad u cant have a bf even tho u have one secretly. and ... (read in full...)
He had a picture of his penis on his phone
Q. i've been dating this boy for quite a while now, almost nine months- and up until the other day we were quite happy together.. until we had a little arguement, i walked away with his phone because he walked away with my shoe.. and as i walked away ...
A. 5 July 2009: omg dump him. hes trying to make u believe him, and hes probably cheating or cheated on u. sorrry :[ but guys r such a**'s. i feel bad for u. :[ ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I really want a baby!
Q. Ok guys I know this may seem a little extreme or even stupid, but I am 17 and I want a baby. I have always been obessed with children and in my household sex before marriage is frowned upon. I had sex between 7-10 times and I've been trying to get ...
A. 5 July 2009: omg. im 14 and i want a baby too. and i know thats sooooooooo young, but after i held my new baby cousin i wanted one soooooooo fricken bad. but really i think if u do have a baby, its exaustting. and u wont have anytime for fun things in the world. ... (read in full...)
I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 5 July 2009: even tho im 14 DONT get an abortion. im totally against them, becuz its like u not wanting someone in this world is like someone who hates u not wanting u so they could just go kill u. really they should make abortions illegal i think. and i feel ... (read in full...)
How can I turn her down?
Q. i'm an 18 year old boy dating a 16 year old girl that threatens to hurt herself and she acts inmature out in public and i just can't stand the way she acts when we go out somewhere and i'm at that point where i just wanna break up with her ...
A. 5 July 2009: okay, im 14 and even tho im 4 years younger than u, u should tell her to at least try to act mature and maybe she'll understand. idk about the threatning to hurt herself tho.... weird. but anywayz uhm idk see if things get any better, and if they ... (read in full...)
Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!
Q. My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this ...
A. 4 July 2009: well u might regret it when u do shave, yeah sexual things going on will be worth it but after? idk. dont do it unless u want to. im a girl and have no problems with guys hair. but idk how long have u been together? maybe she realy doenst like u ?... (read in full...)
I really hope I'm not pregnant...
Q. I'm really worried, and hope i am not pregnant! I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and we are regularly sexually active. I am not on he pill, but he uses condoms every time. Last month when i was due on, i came on, the day expected, but st...
A. 4 July 2009: Okay, Im 14 and I know ur thinking taking advice from someone younger than me? but i was watching this show where girls didnt no they were pregnant till they went into labor. they had no signs of being pregnant. they didnt feel sick, didnt crave ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend... I seriously do!!!
Q. hey cupid, i'm 14 years old and i have had one boyfriend and he was my 3 year crush. we went out for 3 months and we broke up. blah blah blah but now its been about 5 months since we broke up.. i see everyone with a boyfriend and ...
A. 4 July 2009: heyy im 14 too. and i want a bf so bad. although ive never had one.... and im not ugly i just idk. haha. but theres this website i go on called espin.com and u can talk to people around u where u live, and its completly safe. i use it all the time. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I am ready...
Q. I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...
A. 4 July 2009: omg i feel bad for you. im 14 and ive never been asked to have sex, but have been told they want it from me, even when im not going out with them. sooo uhm well the best u can do is say you dont want to becuz u dont feel like it should happen this ... (read in full...)
My ethnicity seems to keep me from finding a girlfriend...
Q. Well i'm chinese and i live in the uk. I'm a gentleman and a nice lad but i can't seem to find a girlfriend as most girls don't seem to be interested in me due to my ethnicity and not my personality. i'm pretty outgoing and get on well with a lot of ...
A. 3 July 2009: well... i dont no wats wrong with those girls that arent interested in u. becuz i love chinese guys, and like other guys too, but idk wat their problem is. sometime soon ull probably find someone who actually cares about you not ur ethnicity.... (read in full...)
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