Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 3 January 2013: As a female... I think personally think its how thick it is that matters and what you do with it. The only challenge I've ever had with anyone 5.5inches or smaller is doing doggy style because once in a while it would fall out from not fully ... (read in full...)
What do you think about during sex?
Q. I am curious to know what other people think about during sex. I asked a girlfriend this once and she laughed and then started to speak, but then declined to answer saying that it would ruin it for her if she told me. I am guessing my w...
A. 10 January 2012: The only time I'm thinking about anything during sex is if its a quickie in an unusual place...them I'm thinking we best hurry up and finish before we are caught xD ... (read in full...)
Hubby's clothes have body glitter on them...is this from another woman?
Q. Three years ago right after having a baby, I found my husband's jacket that he wears everywhere (especially on business trips) covered in body glitter, on the front. He of course told me a female co-worked sat on it after he had thrown it on a ...
A. 20 December 2011: The armpit thing could be from his deoderant if it has a lot of fragrance and the glitter could be from cologne that was on it when it was washed. I've washed a bunch of mine and my hubby's clothes where the deoderant has stained them because it sat ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of dogs, and this is causing a problem with my sister and me!
Q. My sister is a dog lover. I am terrified of dogs. She adopts large dogs and has several at a time. She recently moved from across the country to a few miles away from me and my family. She has become pregnant for the first time. I can't stand ...
A. 21 September 2011: I have two pitbulls and all of the neighborhood kids' eyes light up everytime they see them outside because they know they're the nicest dogs. They are prey driven to small animals, such as chickens, but are not human aggressive. You can mess with ... (read in full...)
I'm 39 and have developed deep darkening of my vagina lips, elbows and knees - is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 39 years old and noticed in the past year or so that not only have my knees and elbows become darker, but my vagina (the lips and also a portion inside) has become very dark. It used to be a plum color and now it's dark greyish/black. I ...
A. 24 July 2010: The only other thing I can think of besides what you mentioned is if your hormones have changed to a premenopausal state...it can do some strange things to your body. I would just wait and see what the doctor says rather than depend on this website.... (read in full...)
Is it true if a guy doesn't have a batchlor party he'l feel like cheating?
Q. Is it true if a guy doesnt have a batchlor party he'l feel like cheating? cuase i dont want him to have one cause he thinks it will be his last night to mess around. Doest it depand on the person cause if your gonna cheat wouldnt you no matter what? ...
A. 24 July 2010: It doesn't matter whether or not a guy has a bachelor party, it won't determine if he will be faithful to you. If a guy wants to cheat he will cheat either way...a lot of guys cheat at their bachelor party by having sex with strippers though. ... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 15 July 2010: I would say that if he is not willing to give up porn, perhaps be the one to initiate control in the situation so that even if you are not 100% comfortable with it there will be compromise. Perhaps come to an agreement on specific occasions where ... (read in full...)
Making comments about when I was skinny..now he ignores me!
Q. my boyfirend made a comment the other day about my weight. He said I looked so good when I was skinny. The other night I was eating a piece of chocolate and he said your never going to lose weight if you keep treating yourself to sweets. He used ...
A. 31 August 2009: As women age their bodies change, unless you're 20lbs overweight I would talk to him about how the things he says affect your self esteem. Maybe still eat what you like, but in moderation and count calories. Women over 25 need no more than 1600 ... (read in full...)
My bf cheated and got someone pregnant -- should I forgive him?
Q. My boyfriend cheated and had a baby. I found out 10 months later by accident Now he wants another chance. I am so torn because I love him but the entire family knew about it and they all kept quiet. They asked me to cosign for a house..this was befo...
A. 31 August 2009: I wouldn't forgive him. I would ditch him and his family. Once a cheater always a cheater, and now that he had her kid they will always been attached in some way. Plus what if you want kids in the future? You won't want them with him. ... (read in full...)
Men: Do you like clingy women?
Q. I've read a lot of advice from females, but i really want to know what males think. Apparently, males don't like clingy girlfriends. That true? What if the male was clingy, wouldn't he want a clingy girlfriend? What do you think about clingy girlf...
A. 22 August 2009: My fiance tells me that he loves feeling needed and likes that I'm clingy because it would be uncomfortable for him if I didn't text him 100 times each day... (read in full...)
How do women gain confidence in themselves?
Q. How do women gain more confidence in themselves? I always thought if you got a good education, found a good job, made decent money, were fairly happy with your appearance, you would have confidence. But I don't. It's almost like, your either born ...
A. 21 August 2009: It sounds strange but I went by the phrase "fake it 'til you make it" and really pretended to love myself and be confident in front of others which eventually resulted in my beginning to see the unique beauty in myself... (read in full...)
Are looks really that important?
Q. To sum the whole problem up, everyone thinks and says my boyfriend is ugly. We're in a long distance relationship, therefore most of my friends haven't even seen him closely, but when they see his pics they all start screaming at me about how ugly ...
A. 18 August 2009: No, looks are not that important. Your friends and family are being very shallow and should just be happy that you are happy and support you in your relationship. If you are attracted to him that is all that matters, plus often times it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Can you can tell by a girls vagina if she is a transexual?
Q. Im just wondering if you can tell by a girls vagina if she is a transexual. Would it look, feel, smell, even taste the same? Anything would be great thanks!...
A. 17 August 2009: Well sometimes I hear you can't tell but if she is unshaven, I have seen scars in the corners of the pubic region near her stomach where hair will not grow. Appearance is a bit different, I don't know much else as I've only seen pictures. You can ... (read in full...)
Why don't I squirt with the new boyfriend?
Q. I used to squirt while having an orgasm with my ex but with my new bf I cant...and I don’t know if it’s because of my masturbation or him or if I did it too much with my ex??...
A. 17 August 2009: You probably aren't relaxed enough with your new bf or else your body is dehydrated and you are unable to produce enough fluids. Or else a possible birth control side effect.... (read in full...)
Will my husband think I'm a slut if I say yes to all the things he wants me to do?
Q. I have a question: My husband like porn. And certain things that the women there either do, or have done to them. He has mentioned to me stuff that "might be intersting" to do. (That he obviously got from watching this stuff.) Mild bonda...
A. 15 August 2009: I don't think so, I think he'll just be a very happy man. I let my fiance cum on my face before and it didn't get in my hair and I didn't feel the least bit degraded, he is always very caring a respectful towards me.... (read in full...)
Does the size of your boobs depend on the size of the areolas?
Q. Does the size of your boobs depend on the size of the areolas or nipples?...
A. 15 August 2009: Oh trust me, the sizes don't correlate. My sister and I have the same size nipples and she is a DD while I'm a B... (read in full...)
Why do men/women cheat on their husband/wife?
Q. Why do men/women cheat on their husband/wife? Is it just because they can't resist a beautiful person? Is it because they aren't fully committed? Well then, why did they get married in the first place? Is it because their spouse changes? I love my...
A. 15 August 2009: I used to worry constantly about this, and reading questions on dearcupid didn't help with my worries. But I realized, at the end of the day you just have to look at your partner and who they are, evaluate your relationship, and be confident in ... (read in full...)
I don't get why he's like this, anyone able to help?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now, I'm 26, he's 29. We've been engaged for 2 years now. In the last few weeks he's become very interested in signing us up as members of AARP, lost interest in sex and spends all his time on the Inte...
A. 14 August 2009: Maybe he is planning on having you sign a prenup and wants you to go to the meeting as a lighter way of telling you that he feels the need to protect what he has worked hard for. Just make sure he doesn't become too controlling of you or prevent you ... (read in full...)
How long does nuva ring work after being removed?
Q. How long does the nuva ring work after it has been removed? I always take it out during sex because the guys say they can feel it, then put it back in after. Last night I forgot to put it back in after sex and fell asleep. In the morning we had sex ...
A. 14 August 2009: Yes! You should be more cautious! It should stay inside of your vagina at all times unless you have your period or it needs to be changed! It is not ative unless its inside of you!... (read in full...)
Why did he leave his cellphone with me?
Q. ok so if yu guys seen my other question then yull know who im talking about. if not then hes just my lover. ok so the guy that i live with was going to go to work today but he said here take my cellphone, and i was like why?he said idk fer saf...
A. 10 August 2009: Maybe he's trying to open up trust and begin a relationship. He wouldn't give you his cell if he had something to hide. Also maybe he wanted you to take pictures for him with his phone or else call him while he's at work.... (read in full...)
Are there risks in marrying a man whose never even kissed anyone else?
Q. Hello I was just wondering if there is any risk in marrying a man who hasn't even kissed or been with another woman sexually? Is there more likelihood for cheating and/or divorce? Thank you =)...
A. 10 August 2009: Thank you for your answers =) and I did indeed mean that I wondered if he would be curious later. He says he is happy with no regrets, but he has also asked about threesomes before. ... (read in full...)
How much is too much to tolerate?
Q. My boyfriend of a year and a half wants to go visit his family far away. In order to do so, he insists that i do not stay at our apartment on my own - none the less in the CITY on my own and tells me that I have to go to my family's house in ...
A. 5 August 2009: Is he really going to meet his family or is he trying to get you to leave so he can have an affair at your apartment?... (read in full...)
My wifes lover dumped her now she's depressed.
Q. Hi Cupids, can anyone help me, my wife cheated just over 6 months ago and the OTM dumped her and then broke of all contact. We have remained together to work at saving our marriage,but the problem is that she seems constantly down and depressed that ...
A. 4 August 2009: No offense but I think its karma and she got what was coming to her. Do you truly feel she deserves to confront him and rid herself of these feelings? If you let her go back you are letting her walk all over you and showing her that its okay. ... (read in full...)
When do vaginal openings start to exist?
Q. I am the mother of a 5 year old girl. Anatomists or doctors please clarify my following doubt. Do vigial opening exist in girls at the time of their birth or it opens/appears only at the time of first menstration. If such an opening is not there, ...
A. 1 August 2009: If it appears she does not have a vaginal opening I would take her to a pediatrician. It could be possible that due to improper hygeine practices ata young age, her inner labia grew together to give the appearance that she is without a vaginal ... (read in full...)
How to get my boyfriend to be more dominant in bed?
Q. i want to know how to get my boyfriend to be more dominant in bed. i get turned on knowing i am satisfying the guy, doing the positions he likes etc but my bf will not ever say. i ask do u wanna try a different position? and he just says if you do, ...
A. 11 July 2009: My boyfriend is exactly the same way, he is just shy and feels inexperienced. Perhaps your boyfriend is self conscious about his own performance? Otherwise he may have a very low sex drive or you may have incompatible sex drives?... (read in full...)
Anal sex tips and help plz!
Q. i have just had anal sex for the first time me and my boyfriend used lubricant it did hurt, however i let him continiue for about 10 -20 minutes untill he had ejaculated. i have had an embarasseing time when i went to the toilet afte...
A. 11 July 2009: Wow, I would not keep going after you feel pain, that means damage is being done. Try purchasing a syringe to fill with lubricant and inject it into your anal cavity rather than just using it on the opening and your partners genitals. This allows ... (read in full...)
I don't like porn! Is that so wrong?
Q. I don't like porn. Is that so wrong? I've read many questions about porn, and the responses are always something like "Get over it, it's just a video, porn is great, watch it with him, grow up, all men do it...". But I don't like it. I've watched...
A. 11 July 2009: I just went through these same exact issues and thankfully my boyfriend is mature enough that he decided porn is a luxury and after thinking it over the idea of it no longer excites him and he would rather have sex with me when he feels the urge to ... (read in full...)
Is there a certain age when women find sex more satisfying?
Q. Is there a certain age that woman find sex more satisfying or appealing? Is there a certain age that woman have more sex? Woman any advice? ...
A. 10 July 2009: I've always been told that women reach their sexual peak in their early thirties because they become more focused on their own pleasure and less on the other person and emotion. Also their bodies are fully matured. ... (read in full...)
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