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Why do I keep having unpleasant dreams and how can I get rid of them ?

Q.   It bothers me a lot, I dream all sort of creepy stuff, like rats, mud, humidity, me being hated (in the dream), me being chased by horses, cows, me naked in public etc. I also have pleasant dreams, but in the end they turn out bad. I don't read i...

A.   6 March 2011: 1. Read before you go to bed. 2.Watch a lot of tv before you go to bed. 3.Dont think about your dreams, think of nice stuff before you go to bed. 4.Go on the computer before you go to bed. You can contol it but only before you zonk out. Distr... (read in full...)

What's wrong with being sexually conservative?!

Q.   I felt strongly about the kind of misleading advice / negative overtones that are often present in the responses to people who've been sexually conservative (or abstinent) and are disturbed to find their SO (significant other) have not. They are ...

A.   6 March 2011: I have a short-temper and get bored easly. I couldn't read it all. You should try and make it shorter so other people can be bothered to read it all the way through. °_°... (read in full...)

How do I determine if he does like me? He's way out of my league.

Q.   i this guy, but he's way out my league. i'm not sure if he likes me back even though he smiles at me and we talk during class. no one knows i like him and i don't no what to do because i'm really shy and have low self esteem. my confidence is real...

A.   5 March 2011: Im in the same situation! Luckly, I know how to get out of it. Ask him. Pick your chance. If you are really shy, ask him when hes alone.... (read in full...)

What is this fluid?

Q.   I'm a 17-year old male , but i haven't any ejaculations yet , i only get seminal fluid (transparent fluid) at the tip of my penis but no cum or ejaculation at all , what would that be ??...

A.   5 March 2011: Its okey! No need to panic! Its a normal thing for some men to have this. Its stuff that still contains sperm, so a woman would get peggers anyway, but your girlfriend might find it weird.?... (read in full...)

Is this a normal way for best friends to act?

Q.   Recently Me and my best friend admitted over the computer that we like each other. It's not awkward in person, when we go over to each others houses we cuddle on each others beds and tickle each other. I feel really comfortable with him and I want ...

A.   5 March 2011: Well, you feel that way because its a new expirance to kiss your best mate. The reson that its weird is bcause before you saw him as a best friend and nothing else. You cant keep a staight face because you and him laugh together all the time so it ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's turns 16 on Wednesday, and I need gift ideas! Please help!

Q.   Dear cupid...my boyfriend's birthday is on Wednesday and he's turning 16. I have absolutely no idea on what to give him. I want to give him something REALLY CUTE that shows how I feel, and something that he will greatly appreciate. I already gave ...

A.   5 March 2011: ....It all depends on what he likes. Buy him something good that you found that proves your love. Or you could buy stuff and make something out of it. ... (read in full...)

I think I could be bisexual...

Q.   Hi guys! I've asked a question on here before and the answers were very helpful, but now I have a different question. I'm confused about my sexual orientation! I think I could be bisexual. I wouldn't have a problem with being bisexual, but my ...

A.   5 March 2011: If you are bisexuall then your bisexual. Your farther has to she you dont choose what you are. Life makes you that way. If you are then try it for a few weeks or so and if your convinsed you are bisexual then you have to face them one day. You can ... (read in full...)

How do I get her see past my skin colour?

Q.   Okay life story.. This question is specifically about a girl I like but I'll probably go off the point a bit. Alright then - there is this girl I've liked for a while now (a few months to half a year). We'll call her S. She is black, I'm wh...

A.   5 March 2011: Okey so this S girl, shes black and your white and she cant she past your skin colour? Well, tell me if Im wrong, but I think shes been in a relationship where he was racist and haveing a fake love. She doesnt want it to happen again to her. You ... (read in full...)

I want to get my ex back!

Q.   I had this gf that had left me and I met this other girl that I've had been dating her for 2months. And I left her for my other ex and then after a while I started talking to her and I did the same stupid mistake. And now I really want something ...

A.   5 March 2011: Dependes what she likes personaly. If you want her back you have to prove yourself to her, make her see how much you care and adore her compement her and tell her nice thing that she wants to her. If shes a hair fenatic that compelment that her hair ... (read in full...)

My roving childhood makes it hard for me to form relationships. Will it ever get easier?

Q.   I've been to 7 different states. My life has been composed of trying to make some friends and leaving my friends. Still to this day, I have a hard time with all of it. Why is it so hard on me still? Most of my life, I've been on my own aside fro...

A.   5 March 2011: If your looking for a girlfriend then if she really loves you then she wont care where you are. Thats what facebook and skype and msn are for!There is no need to worry. You need to find the right person first. P.S.Phone numbers are helpful aswe... (read in full...)

I like a girl who's taken!

Q.   Hello. I like this person for a few years now, despite she's been taken before I met her. I would feel bad if I made someone I like realize that her current relationship may be wrong. At the same time, it's kind of helping as if it would be say 5 ye...

A.   5 March 2011: There are to options 1. Wait untill free. Try and suck up but dont let her notice you fancie her. 2. Move on. Think like this *you cant eat an apple that has already been eaten* sometimes giving up is what makes life life. Look forintests s... (read in full...)

I just don't know what to make of her behaviour!

Q.   Pls help me. I am really upset. Please :'( I have loved her like crazy for 4 years. We started uni 4 years ago together. I was a Pakistani and she was too. I fell in love with her. She did not love me. I made her say yes to me after a lot of effor...

A.   5 March 2011: Right then, to me, its like shes...playing with you abit to much. She might think its fun to swing you around like this. Then she realized that she wont have her toy anymore and wants you to go back so she can play her game. Course its not cheating! ... (read in full...)

I'm only truly happy when I'm in a relationship, what's wrong with me?

Q.   This is an inconvenient truth for me... I've realized that I'm only ever truly happy when I am in a relationship. I love the feeling of being loved and I absolutely loving making someone else feel special. For me, nothing in life is better. Unfor...

A.   5 March 2011: Im not to good with boy quistions. What I see is someone who thinks they need to impress. Someone how thinks there life meaning is to make someone feel loved. Relax and take things slow. Try talking to mates more and family more to improve your ... (read in full...)

Sick of his lies over smoking, porn, and just everything. What should I do?

Q.   Well, where do I start? My boyfriend is constantly lying about everything. About what he's doing and who he is with and smoking and porn. The smoking is not your everyday cigarette, it's pot. And the porn I wouldn't mind so much if he would at least ...

A.   5 March 2011: Listen, in my mind, I would dump him. Because they way I see it, he is just a teen caught in the trap of false maturaty. I bet he thinks hes an adult now, as long as he has a sexy woman nothing matters appart from stuff adults do. You have to remind ... (read in full...)

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