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Due to my past experience with acne, I am worried that my boyfriend is trying to tell me something. What do you all think?

Q.   I am someone who went through a severe bout of acne when I was younger. I have been left with scars (no acne now) and have been seeing a dermatologist regularly to get filler and laser to deal with it. Its better, but I do still have scars. Anyh...

A.   12 November 2013: Thank you very much for your answers guys, I really appreciate it. It is a very new thing (seeing each other for a month, not official), so Im not inclined to tell him all about my struggle with acne just yet. It's something very touchy and one bad ... (read in full...)

I'm modest and reserved but seem to attract guys who only want sex

Q.   I seem to be attracting the wrong type of men and I have no Idea why ? I wonder if Im doing something wrong ? I have never been the type of woman to expose her body, I dress pretty classy, I wear clothes that accentuate my curbs, and may show a...

A.   23 July 2013: I have exactly the same problems. Sucks doesn't it? And I can't work out what I am doing wrong either. I dont think Im giving off the wrong vibes.... (read in full...)

My Gf has a friend. I'd like to spend cozy moments with her friend. Can I do this successfully and not hurt my Gf?

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for two years. But I'm attracted to her friend and I feel like going out with her friend to share cozy moments. I don't want to hurt my gf but at the same time I want to spend time with her friend. Help!! What ...

A.   14 March 2013: Your horrible. Leave your gf coz she deserves someone better. You don't get cozy moments with her friend if your in a relationship. How would you feel if she was craving cozy moments with your best mate. It would embarrass and humiliate you.... (read in full...)

Are we in the friend zone? He forgot my birthday so should I still send him the gift I bought for his?

Q.   So, I've met this guy about a year ago. He is a friend of my cousin. I was immediately attracted to him. He pretty much kept to himself so there wasnt much getting to know each other. He was very shy and can be at times. As attracted as I was to ...

A.   16 September 2012: U seem like a sweetie, I was honest and I have totally been in your position before. I should have taken my own advise. Haha but we live and learn I guess. Chin up :-) xx... (read in full...)

Are we in the friend zone? He forgot my birthday so should I still send him the gift I bought for his?

Q.   So, I've met this guy about a year ago. He is a friend of my cousin. I was immediately attracted to him. He pretty much kept to himself so there wasnt much getting to know each other. He was very shy and can be at times. As attracted as I was to ...

A.   16 September 2012: You have two options. Send the gift and declare your feelings - he may or may not reciprocate; judging by his actions to date he does not seem to feel the same way as you do. Obviously If you want to fight to change his mind and try to make him ... (read in full...)

How do I draw him towards me in a subtle way so he thinks he is doing all the chasing? I'll text if I really have to.

Q.   I have started liking a guy ( I havent had buttreflies for a guy in a good long while) so for me this is a bigish deal. Problem is we have hung out a couple of times and I can tell he is not nearly as into me as I am to him. He is always keen t...

A.   4 September 2012: Well he just text me. Saying he would be out tonight at a particular club do if I wanna join then I should come along. Not exactly wooing but it was a text. I wanna see him but it was very short notice. Wat do u think I should text back??... (read in full...)

How do I draw him towards me in a subtle way so he thinks he is doing all the chasing? I'll text if I really have to.

Q.   I have started liking a guy ( I havent had buttreflies for a guy in a good long while) so for me this is a bigish deal. Problem is we have hung out a couple of times and I can tell he is not nearly as into me as I am to him. He is always keen t...

A.   3 September 2012: Thanks for your help Abella, I think I just really needed someone to say keep away from the phone. I want to contact him quite badly but my experience has been that the guys you let come after you always stick around for the long haul. Why is it ... (read in full...)

Have I given her the message that I'm only looking for something casual?

Q.   Hey guys, could do with some advice here. Main question - do you think if you sleep with a girl on 2nd date that means you give the impression you're not that interested in a relationship/serious thing, but moreso a casual thing? I met this gir...

A.   29 February 2012: Talk to her. Forget about impressions, they are often miscommunicated. If you want to have a relationship or take things a lil more seriously then tell her, if you want it casual tell her.... (read in full...)

Is he just a two faced crush? And now he's revealed he likes another as well.

Q.   Ok going to be straight forward. I've had this weird on and off crush on this guy for about four month now (guessing here) it basically started when I went to the wrong class on the first day of school and I had to run across the school before the ...

A.   4 February 2012: Been there recently in fact, and it has been a major blow to my self esteem. When they seem to be so into you and then it turns out they were also chasing someone else it really gets to you. It makes you wonder if all your instincts are wrong about ... (read in full...)

I don't find him attractive, but I cant stop thinking about him!

Q.   so ive met this guy twice and hes sweet but totally not my type. ive only met him when ive had a drink and he has too. i wouldnt say he's good looking - lets put it that way - but the first time i met him he gave me a kiss goodbye. and then the ...

A.   1 February 2012: He's paying you attention, being absolutely adorable - of course you want to see him again. But..... can you imagine having sex with him, do you feel the undeniable burn to just kiss him, are you proud to be out and about with this man on your arm. ... (read in full...)

Ex and I are talking again should I assume he might like me?

Q.   I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over ...

A.   30 January 2012: Dont ever ASSUME anything with men. EVER. If a guy likes a girl, he will make a move. No matter how shy he is, he will make a move if he truly wants her. Also it is very rare for people to change much. I just thought that you should really think ... (read in full...)

Guys I talk to think I'm flirting, but I don't even know how to flirt!

Q.   One of my friends keep telling me not to talk to boys the way I do, and he says that I "don't know what I do to other guys." I've tried asking him what he meant, but he shrugged it off. I'm almost certain that he's talking about flirting, but I ...

A.   30 January 2012: Guys often misinterpret a pretty girls friendliness as romantic interest. Its their problem, not yours. Unfortunately often its a case of either acting cold and disinterested and then people will call you a bitch or being your friendly bubbly self ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to get over him whilst still having contact with him 24\7?

Q.   Hi guys, I hope you can help me, I really like this guy, we met through work, but always text and phone each other all day every day. I have told him how I feel about him and he has said he likes me too, we have had a couple of times outside of work ...

A.   29 January 2012: I have been in a similar situation only with the roles reversed. I was seeing a guy for a little while and then I realised it wasnt right so I decided I would rather be his friend. He told me he loves me and refuses to be around me if he cant have ... (read in full...)

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