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Should I ask him out because he's too shy and all??

Q.   I'm usually a confident borderling over confident lass. However, I have very deep rooted morals that somewhat are the major cause to this matter. Additionally being a girl, I do tend to prefer the whole "i'm laid back so i'll wait for you to ask me ...

A.   9 January 2009: Go for it.... (read in full...)

What does foreplay really mean?

Q.   I have read that size doesn't matter and stuff and that foreplay is very important. What actually does foreplay mean? And why doesn't penis size matter? I have a 5.5 inch penis when erected and 5 girth.... Is that good to satisfy a women? I'm also a ...

A.   9 January 2009: Foreplay is kissing,hugging,touching basically everything you do with clothes on.Penis size doesn't matter because the most sensitive part of a woman is on the outside of the body and it is called the clitoris.It is fine to be a virgin until you are ... (read in full...)

Does this make me...well... a slut?

Q.   OK. Again similar to my previous questions... I will condense what could definitely be an essay worth sized question down to a simple straight-forward, all rounded question. OK. I've had many relationships in the past. Some I would say were ...

A.   8 January 2009: It's not for anyone but you to decide what you are.Do you think you are a slut?If you do then change your ways and become the person you want to be.If you are happy the way your life is then stay on the same path.... (read in full...)

I can't tell my husband-to-be that I am not a virgin! Help!

Q.   actually im getting married next year so im not a virgin.....but i cant tell my husband that im a virgin..so what i can i do now....i cant tell him coz that will ruin my relationship......so is it possible that can i hide this reality from my ...

A.   5 January 2009: The best thing to do is tell Him the truth and let Him decide whether to marry You or not.Starting a marriage off with a lie is not a good thing.The truth could come out and He will feel betrayed and wonder what other things You have lied to Him ... (read in full...)

Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?

Q.   I am an attractive, divorced, young at heart female who was introduced by a work friend to a guy. We happened to have a twenty year age difference. Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?...

A.   4 January 2009: Sure,Why not?My Grandma married a man 20 years after My Granpa died.When She was 70 years old.That was 12 years ago and they are still together.... (read in full...)

What if I lose this chance at a relationship over making dancing something so important?

Q.   I am a single, 36 year old female, never married and I love to dance. Every opportunity I get I am out at the club. I'm not out there to pick up anybody, just to dance. I've met a guy who doesn't dance. According to him, the dancing is a small ...

A.   4 January 2009: Can't you continue to date Him and dance in the club? Maybe He will choose to dance with you eventually if you do it enough to make Him lonely.... (read in full...)

Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input ...

A.   4 January 2009: Some people think that if you do everything but vaginal intercourse you are still a virgin. Some people would say if you have had oral or anal sex you've lost your virginity. Think about it this way, if 2 men have had sex with each other, but not a ... (read in full...)

Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?

Q.   Does taking speed and drugs stop a guy from getting a hard on?...

A.   4 January 2009: Yes. Drug use of any kind can effect your body many strange ways, and sexual dysfunction is one of the most noticeable.... (read in full...)

Should I forgive my boyfriend for watching porn?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years. We do not live together and we are both virgins. He recently confessed that has watched porn at least once a week for the last 3 years. I was really hurt when he told me. He seemed to feel bad ...

A.   4 January 2009: Pretty much all men look at porn of some kind,even if it's other women just walking around.Porn is anything that turns you on and most people will be turned on by something,it's normal.He might never stop looking at it,but other men may do worse ... (read in full...)

Do guys like vegans? Animal lovers?

Q.   I'm a vegetarian - considering becoming a vegan. Do guys dislike/like/have any preference over vegetarians and animal lovers?...

A.   4 January 2009: If you can be with someone without trying to make them a vegetarian/vegan then I think any guy that likes you will be fine with whatever you choose.If you need your boyfriend to live the same way,you need to find one that already does.... (read in full...)

My husband is storing up so much timber there's no where else for it to go! It's really worrying me.

Q.   For the past month and a half my husband has spent (I estimate) about $15,000 on wire and timber - and our garden looks like a building yard. Yet he doesn't work in the building industry, he works as a customer services manager and gets a high ...

A.   4 January 2009: Maybe He is thinking of this as an investment?If the price of lumber and wire go up He is going to sell them at a profit.My guess is that He is planning on building something and just doesn't want to tell you what it is. DIY is "Do It Yourself... (read in full...)

Could anyone give me advice on why the imflamed vaginal lip still hasn't gone down to nornal size?

Q.   I was coming off my period but had to go to work, I knew I wasn't able to have any breaks so I wore a sanitary towel just to be safe. I never bled when I was at work so as the towel was dry and rough, irritation occurred. After my shift I reali...

A.   4 January 2009: You might have a Bartholin's gland cyst.You should ask your gynecologist about this.It could also be your normal size,one side is naturally larger than the other.... (read in full...)

Don't know what I want to do with my life!

Q.   Ok to start how about a little insite to my life so far, as to better (hopefully) understand me. I'm a 19 yr old mother. I've been married for a yr and a half now. I'm only 5' 3" and weight 131 on my bathroom scale. I wasnt supposed to be a...

A.   4 January 2009: Why not work on 1 of your ideas every day?Dance 1 day then photography the next and maybe start taking classes a few days a week to learn how to do the things you want to.... (read in full...)

Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl?

Q.   Is a 1 inch hard erect penis large enough to please a girl? P.S. For the publishers. You rejected by last post as you said it was a duplicate. But the first post I made (which you are here regarding as the duplicate) was also rejected as it w...

A.   4 January 2009: It sounds like you might have a hormone related growth problem or a trapped, buried penis. I know this could be embarrassing to you, but you need to talk to your parents about this and have them take you to a doctor as soon as possible.... (read in full...)

I had a baby and now I'm so emotional

Q.   okay, so i have a 3 1/2 month old baby. i have been getting really emotional and i cry all the time, i go from being happy and laughing to crying or anger. i never had this problem before, and my sister thinks i have post-partum depression. what do ...

A.   30 December 2008: It sounds like post-partum depression.You should make an appointment with your doctor ASAP.... (read in full...)

Do guys like innocent girls?

Q.   So I am 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me that I'm gorgeous and guys tend to be really timid and nervous around me. I'm also pretty quiet, so I would never confess to anyone (tried that and it backfired on me) lol but I ...

A.   30 December 2008: Most guys would appreciate someone like you.Just remember you don't need to jump into a relationship if you don't feel ready for it and at your age most guys aren't looking for a long term relationship.... (read in full...)

Does circumcision affect penis size?

Q.   dear cupid i am not sure if this question is gonna be posted but if it is i would like to know: does the penis of a man shrink if he was circumcised when he was young, and if so is they anyway to make it bigger again ??? ...

A.   30 December 2008: It can make the penis slightly smaller.Surgical penile enlargement,also called phalloplasty,can increase the lenght and width. Does circumcision affect penis size? A recent article found that the mean penis erect length was 16cm, i.e., about ... (read in full...)

Can circumcision be reversed?

Q.   i have a girlfriend and we been together for like 6 months and were planning on having sex but i have a circumsised penis....can i asked a docter to uncircumsise is or no??...

A.   6 December 2008: Circumcision can be partially reversed,but you cannot repair the nerve damage caused by it or replace the sensitive ridged band or frenulum,if it has been removed.Foreskin restoration can be done non-surgically by stretching or surgically by a skin ... (read in full...)

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