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My husband won't put me above beer and doesn't want to have sex EVER.

Q.   Well basically my husband is an alcoholic which I didnt know when I met him and didnt know for a while after we started dating. Anyways, I fell in love with him, and eventually relized he drinks a lot (everyday). I told him that i didnt want to be ...

A.   23 January 2009: Thank all of you who have written so far. i just wanted to update a little bit on whats going on and reply to some of what you all have written... RunsWithScissors… “Find a place to go and follow through” Okay so that sounds like a great idea i... (read in full...)

I'm a 17 year old girl and he's 21... Is that too much of an age gap?

Q.   So there is this guy that I've known for a few years, and my mom and everyone on her side of the family seems to like him, so you can call him a famiyl friend, if you will. I feel that there is something between us, but I'm nervous to go on because ...

A.   21 January 2009: dude im 17 (will be 18 tomorrow) and i am married to a 33 year old man. the age difference is nothing. just make sure the maturity levels are somewhat the same.... (read in full...)

What are the reasons that people have sex because to reproduce

Q.   Besides the reproductive reasons what are some other good reasons to have sex? People are not always having sex just to have a baby. Women I am interested in your reasons. ...

A.   18 December 2008: i have sex because it feels freaking amazing.. esp if the guy knows what hes doing and can make me orgasm (my husband for instance).. thats one reason, also i love to make my husband happy, and i know he is happy when hes having sex (except right ... (read in full...)

How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex?

Q.   Ladies please answer. How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex? What things need to be considered? What things does the relationship need to have to consider sex? Ladies do you like to take things in stages (ie kissing, mak...

A.   18 December 2008: so basically for some reason i though you were a girl.. so same advice as i posted, just take out the part where i called you girl.. haha XxMariahxX... (read in full...)

How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex?

Q.   Ladies please answer. How long do you need to be in a relationship to consider sex? What things need to be considered? What things does the relationship need to have to consider sex? Ladies do you like to take things in stages (ie kissing, mak...

A.   18 December 2008: to me its really just based off instinct... when you feel ready is the time to do it.. with my last boyfriend i waited 4 months to have full on out sex, and with my husband i only waited like 2 weeks after meeting him (a week after we started ... (read in full...)

Is Mountain Dew ACTUALLY killing my sperm count?!?

Q.   Soo.. I've heard from alot of people that Mountain Dew may lower sperm count. I don't even know how the sperm count things works really. I been drinking Moutain Dew ever since it came out in production. I do want to be a father someday and I want to ...

A.   7 December 2008: mountain do actually does lower your sperm count... well the yellow#5 in it does.... but anyways.. zinc generally will raise your sperm count.. you should cut back on the consumption of sugars (MOUNTAIN DEW), and greasy fatty foods, and that would ... (read in full...)

Why, cant we have full sex??

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for five years now. I belong to India and over here the concept is quiet different from European or Western culture. In our country they tell us sex before marriage is bad. Although we had these teachings, but whenever ...

A.   3 December 2008: the penis does not necessarily "find" the vagina, you guide it to the vagina.. maybe you are not wet enough down there. i would recomend you buy some lube or have him preform oral on you, meaning he licks, sucks, plays with your vagina with his... (read in full...)

Is it okay that I'm falling for an older man?

Q.   Im 27 and dating a 43 year old man? is that ok? i feel like all eyes are on me when we both go into public... what should i do?...

A.   3 December 2008: age is not the matter here at all... honestly, it doesnt matter if you are dating a 43 year old... and if you are falling for him, and him you hopefully, then it should not matter who is looking or judging you. LOVE is what matters. but i do wanna... (read in full...)

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