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i've been through a hell of alot in my nearly 18 years, good bad and ugly, and i like helping people.

i live in a suburban area in england.

i have very strong opinions on alot of things, especially about self respect and making your own decisions.

i am engaged to the most wonderful man to have ever walked this planet and i adore him completely. it has been the process of ending up where i want to be that has given me the tools to be able to help people on here.

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Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?

Q.   Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"? Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine meas...

A.   1 November 2009: as long as you can use other parts of your body to satisfy her its fine. yes there is a line that is too small, but if your skilled in other ways she shouldn't mind.... (read in full...)

After having sex my vagina is inflamed, is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Is there something wrong with me? I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please...

A.   1 November 2009: no there is nothing wrong with you, everybody gets it from time to time. its caused by not enough lubrication, either he didn't turn you on enough to start with or you didn't produce enough. this could be because you are on the pill because that ... (read in full...)

I like the manly smell down there, am I weird?

Q.   I just found this web site last month and think its great. I like sitting in this coffee shop, sipping a caramel coffee, and reading about real people and what others think about their problems and hang ups, without the fear of being embarassed. ...

A.   1 November 2009: you aren't a freak so don't worry. being attracted to someones pheremone scent is a sign of genetic compatibility, which is a good thing, plus it means he washes...bonus! and as long as he doesn't mind you snuggling up to his balls, then neither ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my period for one day so that I can have sex?

Q.   how can i stop my period for one day so that i can have sex?...

A.   1 November 2009: you can't stop it, you can't push it back, you can't do anything about it, but if your man loves you and wants you enough he won't care about it. sex is fun on and off a period, but its a bodily function you can't stop. sorry... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend spanking me... but as a feminist it makes me feel degraded!

Q.   I've recently discovered a real turn on for me but the feminist inside me weeps.. I've discovered I really love my boyfriend spanking me. Hard. Just thinking about it makes me want him to do it again. Hes only done it twice but I feel as though I ...

A.   1 November 2009: i too believe in most points of feminism, but i love being spanked, if it upsets you that much, then equal it out and spank him back!! all i'm trying to say is, if its in sex then its all in play, he doesn't mean to degrade you if you like it, and ... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?

Q.   Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not...

A.   1 November 2009: you are not a virgin honey, and nor is he. but you can still redo your "first time" if its bugging you!! sex doesn't have to be about rights or wrongs, its about mindset and connection, so in the technical way then no you both aren't, but if you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best friend I cheated with her boyfriend?

Q.   I am 20 years old the other night my bestfriends boyfiend Matt called me wanted to know if i wanted to come over to his and my bestfriend Dawns apartment. He told me she would be home in about 15 to 20 mins. so i agreed. well to make a long story ...

A.   1 November 2009: Girl, Honesty is the best policy i know its not pleasant but you have to do it, you had the balls to do it in the first place you gotta deal with the consequences. chances are she's more likely to hate her cheater boyfriend rather than you. hidin... (read in full...)

Can exercising too much stop your period?

Q.   This isn't really a relationship question but i'm pretty sure you can help me. Basically i've been wondering whether doing too much excerise can stop your period. A couple of years ago I used to do a fitness plan and it was like fifty sit ups, t...

A.   31 October 2009: yes, too much exercise can stop your period, hence why gymnasts, even after 2 years of stopping, their periods haven't started again, let alone settled. any strain your womb or bloodstream has to cope with affects how much your womb lining remains ... (read in full...)

He must think I'm so stupid!

Q.   I dont know if i am over reacting but, recently i found on my boyfriends laptop a number of folders of girls pictures which must equal to over 300 pictures of half naked girls etc including my best friends! But he said sorry and that he forgot i...

A.   31 October 2009: LEAVE HIM, LEAVE HIM, LEAVE HIS SORRY ASS!! you are not stupid, you were unfortunately taken in by a horny lying man, and that happens to the best of us, but in reply to the "stop snooping or find a new boyfriend" answer, yes you should find a new ... (read in full...)

I'm sleeping with my cousin!

Q.   after a family party i found myself really drunk and alone with my older and good looking cousin. i have always had a crush on him and looked up to him. we get along great considerring the age difference. we ended going back to his place and ...

A.   31 October 2009: hey, just wanted to add my own personal experience to this. I've had a closer than regular relationship with my cousin for as long as i can remember. it turns out he has been in love with me for over four years. we always had a sexual kind of ... (read in full...)

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