Is being better the key to being hot?
Q. I am just wondering, most of us know what makes a girl hot to guys, but what makes a guy hot to girls? Does a guy basically have to be better than a girl he likes, in ways that she feels is important, for her to perceive him as hot? E.g. taller, ...
A. 24 April 2013: Yes, it is a constant competition but you are over-analyzing it and turning it into something destructive.
As CMMP said, be the best you can be and everything else will fall into place.
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So is having a high sex drive good and why do my hormones drive me crazy, is it because of being only 23 years old?
Q. Hi guys, is it wrong that I look at glamour models on website and magazines everyday because it seems the only way to control my urges. It as if I have a high sex drive and I am a virgin, is that a possibility. Obviously, if I met a girl then this ...
A. 22 April 2013: Pretty women are used to sell things. That can be beer, sex, cars, diet plans etc. They are there to lure you and I'm certain countless thousands spank their monkey to what they consider hot, sexy or glamorous. That's all part of the fantasy.
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I feel tired after I have climaxed three times. Yet is it fair that girlfriends have called me a sex addict for wanting more?
Q. Hi am 27 years old and something is disturbing me when am having sex with a lady after ejaculating i still feel horny and i can continue having sex without having to rest upto the 3rd round that is when i have a refractory period or feel tired.And ...
A. 22 April 2013: The generally accepted sequence is that after ejaculation you would be softer and after some kissing, licking etc. you would again be erect for round 2 etc. I'm simply trying to convey that you may be a bit too eager between rounds. Just bec... (read in full...)
My wife is very aggressive in bed, I feel emasculated.
Q. I have a unique problem. My wife is too aggressive in bed. She has been the one taking initiative right from day one, The first kiss, the first time we had sex, she literally pulled me on top of her. It's been four years, and it seems when we...
A. 22 April 2013: I would say it is also your overall approach to the situation that sounds a bit passive and even defeatist. With this approach, it would not be surprising to hear that you are being dominated in other areas as well. Start by working on your ... (read in full...)
Are there others who have no family? This is my experience.
Q. Hi, this is not really a relationship question as such, but it does really impact onto relationships I think. Is there anyone out there who has no family? I have no family as such - I was estranged from my immediate family in my early twenties b...
A. 21 April 2013: Perhaps something's going on subconsciously where you give too much in an attempt to gain that "unconditional" type family love from someone that isn't your family.
I would say your best chance of accomplishing this is by finding other people t... (read in full...)
Disturbed Husband sleep with the alarm to drop of my Brother at work and I got sworn at!
Q. My brother totaled his car recently, occasionally i would give him a ride to work as he have be at work for 6:00am. This morning my husband was obviously annoyed when my clock alarm at 5:am, when i returned home he starting yelling at me and ...
A. 18 April 2013: Agreed about the misplaced anger. It sounds like the classic case of him feeling like you are putting your brother before him.
The "fuck you" part is not acceptable. He should not have done that and truth be told, he probably would not have sai... (read in full...)
I feel like I will never be significant in her life
Q. I am so confused and I don't know if I'm totally out of line or if my girlfriend is being unreasonable. My girlfriend is very attached to her family. They are overall a very close, intimate family who are all open with each other. I, in contrast, ...
A. 18 April 2013: What you describe is very annoying in a relationship and it will never change.
I think the best way forward is for you to find someone who is more inclined to think/feel like you do.
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Three communicable diseases hold me back from dating
Q. Ok so i have a dilemma. Im 29 and consider myself good looking n a great catch for someone but i have hep c from past drug use n i also have mrsa that sometimes reoccurs mildly and my ex gf cheated on me 3 years ago n got hpv n than gave it to me so ...
A. 18 April 2013: There are dating sites that cater to those with various medical problems of this nature.
All the best!... (read in full...)
No one told me that my sister's boyfriend is moving in with us. I'm not happy about this!
Q. So my mom bought a house in Washington state right near the beach and so she was telling me how there is a house for rent right next door, I decided to rent it out. I was going to pay the full rent which is $700 by myself, my sister who is 20 ...
A. 17 April 2013: The fact that you didn't know this ahead of time is fishy to me. Why did you have to find this out from your mom and not directly from your sister? Why so late?
Keep things simple: If you can afford the $700 rent it, live your life and be happy... (read in full...)
GF brother is becoming a problem in our relationship
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about six months now. Everything is great we have plans on having kids and getting married in the near future except I dont like her brother. He's 2 years younger than her. He doesn't have a job but goes to ...
A. 16 April 2013: She is buying him a car but wants you to move in to save money? What does this tell you?
The brother will never change because it is not in his interest to change and probably can't anymore even if he wanted to. Your GF is either "expecte... (read in full...)
GF brother is becoming a problem in our relationship
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about six months now. Everything is great we have plans on having kids and getting married in the near future except I dont like her brother. He's 2 years younger than her. He doesn't have a job but goes to ...
A. 16 April 2013: RUN! Get out! Save yourself! Dump her!
This will haunt her and your relationship for the rest of your life!
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Why do girls like guys with attitude? Why can't they admit they don't like swet guys?
Q. I’m in a relationship with my current girlfriend for the last 14 months. Before that, I was in relationship twice : for two years and one year respectively and I was dumped because I was too sweet and loveable boyfriend. Before entered into...
A. 14 April 2013: Short question, long answer. You were just trying to date women "out of your league". They were more confident than you. Smart women know exactly what they like, why they like it and who they like it from. They just want someone who: 1. Is... (read in full...)
Two years after the break-up he contacts me?
Q. Dear Cupid, My ex and I had a really intense relationship for a year. We broke up painfully which I initiated, because we had a 10 year age gap (he was 20, I was 30) and things were in a bad situation with living/working etc. I was a wreck a...
A. 14 April 2013: As Bunny said, obviously there are feelings there or else you would not be acting this way. You were a wreck, he was a wreck etc. but obviously you couldn't stay together either.
You are over it now, so look forward and not backward. Don't pu... (read in full...)
The relationship is going nowhere but I don't want to break up or break his heart yet.
Q. I knew D for 5 years. We were officially in a rship for 3 years. Things weren't easy we always Had fight which led me crying the whole night everytime. We often Had misunderstandings, arguments and I began to lose hope. He promised that he'd change ...
A. 14 April 2013: You have to move on. One could write 5 paragraphs about the various intricacies of these types of relationships but it all boils down to the same thing: Move on.
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Does sex really matter?
Q. I have a brilliant boyfriend, he really is amazing. We have been together over a year and have lived together most of that time (we met in student accomondation.)We are both twenty and lost our virginities to each other, and I can't imagine a more ...
A. 13 April 2013: Speak with him and uncover what is going on. Perhaps he can perform oral sex so his stamina issues aren't in the spotlight.... (read in full...)
I felt betrayed when I found out my girlfriend had told me I was her first boyfriend but I wasn't!
Q. Alright so this is going to be kiiinnndd of a weird question. It's water under the bridge now, but I just want to see if my reaction to my girlfriend a while ago was reasonable. So here goes: My gf and I are in 10th grade in high school. All the ...
A. 12 April 2013: Was it correct for her to lie? No. Did you overreact? Absolutely! Perhaps you taught her a valuable lesson moving forward. I don't mean this in a bad way. Lies always have a way of coming back and biting us in the butt and should be avoided at all ... (read in full...)
Is this love without him saying those 3 little words?
Q. My baby always tells me that he cares for me " just so much" but has never said he loves me. He's a Capricorn and has said in the past that he a man who will show love when in love opposed to JUS saying it right out. He's also said that he's going ...
A. 12 April 2013: I would not confuse astrology with this.
If you are treated in a loving fashion and feel loved, then you know he loves you. If not, I am not certain the words will make a difference. Think of "I love you" as a "cherry on top".
It seems like... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of filling for divorce because my husband never backs me when his friend disrespects me!
Q. I am 50year old woman who has been married for 19 years. My husband isis a retiree. We have a 16 year old autistic son. Since the beginning of my marriage, my husband's best friend has been a thorn in our marriage. His best friend is a 70 year old ...
A. 12 April 2013: You are right to feel this way. However........
You mentioned that this "friend" was a thorn from the very beginning though? It should have been a red flag and you should have stayed away.
That is the problem in 90% of relationships. O... (read in full...)
He's welcome to go out and have fun with his friends, but I can't take him smoking pot
Q. My bf likes to go out with his friends once in awhile. It doesn't bother me that he does, I trust him. The fact is.... he does not respect my feelings on the aspect of smoking pot with his friends. All of his friends do this so he does to. I asked ...
A. 12 April 2013: I don't smoke pot nor do I encourage it. Actually, I dislike the smell and effect it has on people.
That being said, you mishandled this situation. He smoked weed before you met him, he smokes weed now and he will probably smoke weed in the futu... (read in full...)
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