How can I survive working with my ex for a year?
Q. I wrote earlier in the week about finding out that my boyfriend of one year, had been married for 3 years. I was devastated, accused him, he denied it, called me crazy, I gave him proof, he back paddled, we cried, I asked him to leave. He did. ...
A. 6 February 2011: Hi Maam, I perfectly understand your situation. I had a similar situation, not quite the same, but it was extremely saddening for me. I had a roommate who was much younger than me during college, and I bonded well with him initially, and let ... (read in full...)
My best friend took me in, and helped me escape an abusive relationship. Now I'm having feelings for her. Do I tell her?
Q. I have a friend I've known for a little over 4 months now. She insisted I move in with her, so I could get away from my abusive soon to be ex husband. She has slowly become my best friend as I learn to trust more and more. I trust her pretty much ...
A. 4 February 2011:
First, the important stuff -
Hahaha hey "Dirty balls", you know what your new name is, so why haven't you changed it yet?! ;P
Next, the really important stuff -
Miss,
What you're seeing is just an extreme appreciation of your friend'... (read in full...)
I've never given a gift to a guy before and I'm confused!
Q. Hi everybody...i been with my boyfriend for a month an things are good an as we all know valentines day is around the corner....an I need all of you alls help...whats a good gift to get for a guy?...HELP ME...ive never gave any guy a gift for for ...
A. 4 February 2011:
Annalisa, why in the world do you think boys don't like fluffy cuddly toys?!
Fullofsurprises90,
I don't know about your boyfriend, but I'd just love to have a girlfriend sit with me holding my hand watching the sea together, and feelin... (read in full...)
I can't believe these boys are in their 30s and I'm in my 20s and I feel like I'm sorting out a playground fight!
Q. Ok, so I'm 23, my boyfriend is 31 and my brother is 33.. MY brother and boyfriend had a huge fight at the weekend and now everything has kicked off at home. My. Brother and boyfriend have only met a handful of times and never really gotten to know ...
A. 3 February 2011:
Get both your boyfriend and brother together, and GET THEM TO TALK in front of you. It will either get better or it will END, but something will happen and either is good.
The reason is that if people cannot even talk about their problems, th... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....
Q. Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...
A. 28 January 2011: " Thank u so much dear for ur patience, reading it till the end and give ur valuable advice.... it is true that love makes us very soft hearted, kind, patient and same time very ego less, i wouldn't may be forgiven her and given her so maany cha... (read in full...)
He left me saying there was no future, but I love him!
Q. Me and my beloved were together from the last 2 years. 6 months back he left for another country. He left me saying that there's no future(and was trying to ignore me from last 3 months). Yeah,i know we two are from different caste and his family is ...
A. 28 January 2011: Hi Miss, Unfortunately, it doesn't look like your boyfriend loves you, does it? Caste is regressive. It is the worst form of regressive thinking when used to draw borders in love. But then that is India. As long as there will be freebies... (read in full...)
Should I bring up his strange post?
Q. My boyfriend hasnt been saying much when we text each other latley and on his website he posted "slowly dieing" but he hasnt told me any thing was wrong and we have been with each other for a year should i be worreid? Should i bring up the post when ...
A. 28 January 2011:
Dieing.. means he's coloring a piece of cloth or his hair Missie..
Alright just ask him what he means. I don't understand why women are sometimes so passive in relationships. They ought to be more active, aggressive, and take initiative. ... (read in full...)
This isn't a crush, I want to tell him how I feel!
Q. I have been like best friends for about 4 or 5 years with this lad. But since about end off 2009 i have got strong feelings for this guy, he went aways with the army to basic in september 2010 and when he comes back on leave we have grown even ...
A. 28 January 2011: Give him this poem. If he doesn't cry after reading this and love you for the rest of his life I will kill him. Personally. My tender loving heart, Long ago, a person did steal.. I waited for it to come back, But it stayed there, cheati... (read in full...)
Does my husband have the right to be upset about a one night stand when we were separated?
Q. I'm so confused and need some advice. Let me start out by saying I am married, I love my husband and I have no intention on leaving him. Basically my question right now is does my husband have the right to be mad and upset at me for having a one ...
A. 27 January 2011: maverick494 is spot on. Let me repeat this because I am feeling pretty pissed with you right now. Yeah lady I don't even know you but there you have it, I feel totally empowered by you to rip you apart. Oh by the way, this is exactly what yo... (read in full...)
Is my baby disrespecting me or cheating?
Q. Hi I'm Alex I don't know if I'm being used or cheated on, or whats going on but something doesn't seem right and it's hurting me. Ok Ive known my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. We started out dating for a whole month and oddly enough tha...
A. 25 January 2011: FOUR people have already told you the answer you DON'T want to hear - so make that FIVE with me when I say this - DO NOT PROPOSE TO HER EVEN IF IT MEANS YOU'LL DIE. Dude, you seriously do not have to and SHOULD NOT punish yourself simply b... (read in full...)
Should I leave my home to pursue my dreams?
Q. ok i know this would sound like a wierd question,but i'm that desperate,i dont know who to go to.. i am at that point in my life where i dont like what i am doing, i chose it because my parents would never let me get into the acting industry....
A. 23 January 2011:
Hi,
Please sit down with your Parents and ask them why they don't want you to get into the acting industry. They may have very valid concerns. A traditional upbringing would add to their fears. It is common knowledge that the acting industry is ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous because my friend has a boyfriend
Q. Okay so here it is: My friend recently got a boyfriend and she's incredibly wrapped up with him. We used to hang out everyday, but now she's with him. A lot. The thing is i'm incredibly jealous and it's making me depressed. She's never had a boyfri...
A. 23 January 2011:
Hi,
Yes, there are ways to feel less jealous - there are two things broadly speaking - first, you should find another good friend - this could be tough if you are introverted, so you should go out and make some effort to find one. I will leave i... (read in full...)
I've been asked to participate in a threesome but have conflicting feelings about it
Q. Been asked to partisipate in a three some but have very pro/con views on it plus I like the guy and dont know who the other person is. Am worried that I'll chicken out, it wont be as good as expected and am very nervus about this. Should I do it...
A. 23 January 2011:
No.
HELL NO. Life isn't a movie for God's sake. Who is this guy? How did you even bear to be asked this question? He sounds awful. Cease all contact with him if you want to live well.
Take care,... (read in full...)
I don't understand why guys are so confusing!
Q. The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda ...
A. 23 January 2011: I'm a guy. If I were 15 and I loved a girl I would be scared to even look straight into her eyes. It would be way too much for the heart to handle. I'm not sure if he intentionally touched your waist. If he did, it wouldn't create a good i... (read in full...)
I might be being taken for a ride ...
Q. I was broken up with!!! The girl I was involved with is 25 and is trying to finish her degree. She called me almost a month after we broke up and started to tell me of her financial problems; and was thinking of working at a strip club to pay for ...
A. 23 January 2011:
You know clearly that she may be playing you, so how in the world can you be a fool? You definitely are a sensitive and helpful, kind person. You're also wise. But you aren't a rough or stone hearted person.
You should not bother about the mo... (read in full...)
Should I listen to my horoscope?
Q. Should I listen to my horoscopes? I have been reading my horoscopes on Facebook for the past couple of weeks and they always seemed pretty true. I know they're always vague so they shouldn't be taken too seriously but I have noticed something ...
A. 11 January 2011: Hi,
My colleague once told this when confronted by another colleague who vehemently defended palmistry - 'even a monkey has lines on it's palms'.
That sums it up.
Live. Don't be lived.... (read in full...)
Tribute to the Deceased
Q. Hello.Im writing this to honor the memory of a late friend of mine and to pass on his rather sad story. Im a freshman in highschool.When I met my friend"Justin",I was living in the Bronx in first grade. I asked him what his fave color was."...
A. 8 January 2011:
Hi,
He really liked you to be laughing on his deathbed. His no was his way of showing how much you meant to him.
God bless you. I hope that you grow up to be strong, wise, prosperous, and that your sensitivity and ability to feel for others i... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair and he ignored me at the bar!
Q. I've been seeing a co-worker for 3 years. I'm separated and he's married and we enjoy each other's company. Recently we met other co-workers at a bar for the holiday. I was there before he was and when he came in he basically ignored me. He walked ...
A. 30 December 2010:
Hi Ma'am,
This is going to be hard on you but I will say it nevertheless, because this is for your own good. You are going out with a man who is married. Do you even understand what that means? Technically, there is no difference between you ... (read in full...)
Need space in the relationship.Some advice please?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months.I love him alot but he doesnt give me any space at all!He always wants me to be by his side every second of the day or on the phone with him.He doesnt give me space to meet my other friends or some ...
A. 29 December 2010:
Nobody can yell at you. Tell your boyfriend to behave like a man and stop being clingy. And tell him to watch his voice. Insulting a woman by calling her selfish is not chivalrous. At all. Once more he calls you selfish, tell him you'll finish this... (read in full...)
Is it too soon for two college students to consider marriage?
Q. hi. i'm 21 and i am kind of confused. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and and a half. he has always been there for me, in the good times and the bad times. i know for sure he loves me for real, and that he would do anything for me. we're both ...
A. 29 December 2010:
The thing is, that people's view of themselves and the world and the people they love changes constantly, but what they develop by the age of 25 pretty much characterizes their personalities for life, because the frontal lobe of the brain full... (read in full...)
Is he uninterested? Or just shy to go out together alone?
Q. So I'll try to make it short. I met a guy at my uni, and instantly we found a lot in common, talked a lot and stuff...I really started to like him, and overall I'm a shy person, but he seems to be pretty reserved too, even though he's kind of ...
A. 29 December 2010:
If he is a nice guy as you say, it is possible that some friend of his simply invited himself and forced your guy to take him along, just so that he could see you. Nice guys find it hard to say "no". You must clearly tell your guy to come alon... (read in full...)
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