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Yo im 16, livin life in montana, i fight fire, i drag race, and i kick ass. i love girls. but they have this filthy thing about cheating on me......EVERY ONE OF THEM! idk what the problem is but he hell with it. i dont need em' cus i got my truck.

I'm 16, she's just 14 and I'm falling hard!

Q.   Hey i just turned 16. i went to a party a few nights ago and met a very nice girl. very mature acting just being part of the crowd. little did i know she is only 13 and turning 14. she suprised everyone at the bonfire with her age, i mean nobody ...

A.   1 October 2009: FYI " asian tealeaf" she has a bigger chest then most of the 16 year old girls. odd i know. but please dont assume i am some horn dog. just looking for somthing to fuck. you are way back asswards there. sex is the LAST thing im after. i have a ... (read in full...)

I've never made out before and I'm really nervous for my first time... any way to practise?

Q.   ive never made out before and im really nervous for my first time...does anyone know a good way for me to practice?...

A.   4 July 2009: haha ya grab a guy and learn. hell, grab another chick they can teach ya to... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I am ready...

Q.   I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...

A.   4 July 2009: Well just tell him how you feel about it. and if he is worth anything you wont break up. if a guy breaks up with you because you wont sleep with him, you were with him to long to start. this is coming from a guy. trust me i know how we think. and ... (read in full...)

I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!

Q.   Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least ...

A.   9 February 2009: Hey thanks everyone. i am also releaved that im not the only one out there with the problem. the guy who wrote the 4th message up from the bottom has the EXACT same same Personaliy... (read in full...)

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

Q.   My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, thin...

A.   31 December 2008: Well here is what it will turn out to be ether way. one of the is going to get hert.But if you do have any feelings for guy A it would probly be a the btter thing to o out with him. he is a better friend, and more in you'r life. you risk losing the ... (read in full...)

What did she mean by her message?

Q.   Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i ...

A.   31 December 2008: Thank everyone... (read in full...)

What did she mean by her message?

Q.   Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i ...

A.   31 December 2008: There is a mistake with my age deal. Im actualy 16 but anyway ya thanks, any more advise?... (read in full...)

Did he mean it when he told me he loves me?

Q.   My boyfriend [17] and I [16] have been dating for 3 months. Last night, on a double date, he told me he loved me. I'm almost certain he meant it, but I worry that he was just doing it so I'd kiss him (I wouldn't as we were near the other couple). ...

A.   31 December 2007: im 14, male, give him a while to show you. it can be very very hard for a guy to show that he loves a girl. i know this becouse i am there. watch his every move. and make sure he is not just trieng to get in you'r pants. but then again he is... (read in full...)

Do you think he likes me?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm still in public school. Some of my friends think this guy likes me. I'm not gonna say his name. On the first day of school he winked at me. One time in gym class I was just standing in the middle of the gym and he ...

A.   27 December 2007: be careful!, i dont think this guy likes you for the right reasons. he is very touchy and you arnt rilly even friend's from what it sound's like. he sound's like a player. i live around enough of them. i know what thay are like.(im not a player:) ... (read in full...)

I dumped my new boyfriend when my ex who I still loved told me he wanted to be with me again. He then immediately dumped me again and now I'm all alone and miserable and can't get him out of my head! Please help, what do I do??

Q.   well i know people say that i'm to young to be thinking about love but i don't think age matters cause you cant help loving some-one can you ? ok so i was going out with a boy since october 22nd , and then he dumped me for another girl a lil while ...

A.   27 December 2007: i agree with devonique, if he is a good guy he will listen and it will put him in his place. trust me i know how a girl can put you in you'r place. ecpecialy if you like/love her.im going to say the same thing. im not going to say get over him it is ... (read in full...)

She wants me to be more touchy feely, but I don't want to offend her

Q.   Hi, me and my girl friend are both 14 year's old. im 15 in april. im not looking forward to it. we are in love, i know this for a fact. you can tell me we are not go ahead it wont do eny good. im not trieing to sound rude. but my problem is to...

A.   26 December 2007: hay thank you, i am going to do what you say. im so glad that you can understand that i love her. nether my nor her perant's think so. thay call it puppy love but it's reel. i rilly love you'r advise. you understand how i feel and how much i love ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be "touchy" with her...

Q.   ok, me and my girlfriend are both 14. we have been together for 2 month's. and we are in love with echother. we know this from other people telling us. and i like her for who she is. she has had a harder life then most. sexual abuse/living on ...

A.   26 December 2007: thank's to all reply's, the reason i come to you is becouse i have told her many time's that sex is not all i want from her. and she is still not sure. i also told her that i will go for as long as she want's with out sex. and i do tell her i love ... (read in full...)

I have been seeing a guy in secret...

Q.   I am seeing a guy in secret. He is 12 years older than me and i've been with him for 6 months. I really love him and i we have just had sex for the first time. It was my first time i've ever done something like that and now i can't stop thinking ...

A.   26 December 2007: hi i am 14, i am very woried about you with this 27year old guy. i dont meen to sound rude or mean or enything. but having sex with him is just wrong in so so many way's. it is very very bad of him. he is not responsible. he is breaking the law ... (read in full...)

Could it be possible we are in love??

Q.   Me and my girl friend are only 14, but we have grown together a lot. We have been together for 2month's and 1 week and we think we might be in love with each other.....i have been told it is not posible but other's have told me that it is ...

A.   25 December 2007: I forgot to mention, that not even a sliver of my feeling's are posted. ... (read in full...)

Could it be possible we are in love??

Q.   Me and my girl friend are only 14, but we have grown together a lot. We have been together for 2month's and 1 week and we think we might be in love with each other.....i have been told it is not posible but other's have told me that it is ...

A.   25 December 2007: we do talk every day, half the day or more somtime's........she is the first thing i think about in the morning and the last at night. if this is just trong likeing and caring. then i can't wait to be in love. P,S my dad said it sound's like love.... (read in full...)

How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??

Q.   Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go ...

A.   25 December 2007: doc,i rspect you'r answer. this is her boyfriend bye the way. if you can find my post when it come's out it will be asking how to get her to trust me more. and it will be a little more detailed. not bye much though.... (read in full...)

Could it be possible we are in love??

Q.   Me and my girl friend are only 14, but we have grown together a lot. We have been together for 2month's and 1 week and we think we might be in love with each other.....i have been told it is not posible but other's have told me that it is ...

A.   25 December 2007: well i have been talked about the puppy love. and the school counsler said that it is not. that it wis probly stronger then that thank's,... (read in full...)

My ex took my virginity and would like to have sex again but now he has a gf.

Q.   When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no...

A.   25 December 2007: well, if he has a girl friend and he still tell's you he love's you and want's to do it again.he is cheating on his girlfriend. that is very wrong. if he want's to leave her for you that is one thing. but behind her back is bad bad bad. i would ... (read in full...)

Was he shocked to hear I love him and how can you tell from kissing he wants sex??

Q.   Ok, I'm 14 and my bf is 16 andI gave him his Christmas present 2 days ago, which was a stuffed animal that he absolutly loved. I also wrote him a note about how great the past 2 months have been, which is how long we've been together. I don't kn...

A.   25 December 2007: watch you'r self, there is a good age differince there. im not saying he is bad for you becouse of his age at all.but it can be easy for a older person to trick a yunger person into geting them to sleep with them when thay are not ready.i have seen ... (read in full...)

14, my dad died, my big brother hates me, my mother as well and I am bulied in school and at home. I'd like to move with my auntie but don't know how she'd react. Solutions for me, please?

Q.   here are my promblems ... -my dad died 3years ago when i was 10, i miss him so much -ive fallen out with all my mates, i cant live without them -my big brother hates my, and i mean hates me, he wont talk to me and hasnt for a year, he moved t...

A.   24 December 2007: im 14, all i can say is i wish i could help. my girl friend's life was kinda the same way. i would ask you'r auntie. mine would let me stay with her if i had to. but i have other places to go if i had to. i think you should try to talk to you'r ... (read in full...)

I want to do "more stuff" with my boyfriend but I am unexperienced too and I don't know how to bring it up and how not to make it all awkward?

Q.   hello readers i am asking you this question and i really hope i'm not being juged but it doesn't matter because i'm anonymous haha so here it goes..... ok so me and my boy friend have been going out for 2 months now and we'v been best friends for...

A.   24 December 2007: well, im 14 i have the same problem with my girl friend. makeing out is as far as we have went. we have been dateing for 2 month's as well.she want's to go further. so do i but im haveing the same problem. take it slow and ask him about it.... (read in full...)

He hugs me and says he loves me, do you think he really does like me?

Q.   Do you think a boy likes you if he hugs you and he says he loves you? P.S I'm a 13 year old girl....

A.   24 December 2007: it also can depend on his personality, im 14 and my best friend says that to every living thing. ... (read in full...)

Is 13 - 17 too much of an age gap??

Q.   Im 13 turning 14 in a month. He's 17 turning 18 in a month. Is he to old for me? He's had sex and i havent i told him that and he is absoulute cool with it. But is he to old by 4 years? x...

A.   23 December 2007: i am 14, as well. and no doubt a 17/18year old girl is more attractive. and i have a 17 year old girl that like's me.....but i am with me 14 year old girl friend. it is better to stay in you'r age group. besides, i think i may be in love with my ... (read in full...)

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