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Nikki is my name, im 14 and i have more problems with me and my life then most ppl can imagine, i have wonderful family and friends i also have the Perfect boyfriend he is so good to me and is my bestfriend but like most friends we have our differences. I'm bipolar so sometimes i have a hard time being happy and when im sad so is he (well he says he is) even when i am happy i hate myself i always have. i was told if i dont love myself first i cant love anyone else (thats a pile of shit) B/cuz i love him! My life revolves around my brothers they are Tyrone,11(12 in june) Justin,5(6 in may) they have helped me through everything and i literally raised the youngest one, i feel more like he is my son then my brother (he even calls me mama) I have had a terribly hard life and when times got rough and i felt like the world was on my shoulders Tyrone helped me hold it up. he is so young but understands what i go through better then anyone i tell him everything, i couldnt live without him, they are my baby's, my world, they mean more to me then anyone. i live with my G's b/cuz i dont get along with my step dad and i have lived with them for a lil over a year and every second im away from those little boy's kills me but i will be home soon to take care of them. Justin (5) found out he has diabetes last week but he is ok. I miss him so so so much!

KK well this a bit 'bout me

I love Dustin!

I LOVE my baby's Tyrone and Justin (I also mis them terribly)

Did he mean it when he told me he loves me?

Q.   My boyfriend [17] and I [16] have been dating for 3 months. Last night, on a double date, he told me he loved me. I'm almost certain he meant it, but I worry that he was just doing it so I'd kiss him (I wouldn't as we were near the other couple). ...

A.   30 December 2007: I'm 14 and you might not care what I say since I'm younger then you but... He probably did mean it because there are many stages of love and at any age I believe a person can experiance the stages of love. He may not be completly in love with bec... (read in full...)

Am I short for this age? Any resources to grow thinner and taller?

Q.   im 5"4 and im 13. I cant help but feel i am small for my age and cant find a reliable source on google to clarify that im not. I cant help but feel veryone else towers over me. i get really frustrated about it cus im almost in danger of becomi...

A.   28 December 2007: Girlie 5'4 is good i'm 14 and barrly 5'0 and my mama is 30 and 5"& 3/4 you aint got nothing to worry about... (read in full...)

To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?

Q.   What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...

A.   28 December 2007: Nipples with afros are gross and so is a jungle of hair headin down the happy trail. i like no chest hair and non or trimmed pubic hair but im just one girl you ned to get the opinion of ur partner. . . . .8) ... (read in full...)

Am I overweight?

Q.   this is a huge question, i have a very low selfesteam and i need to know is 116 lbs to much for me i'm 5'0 and 14...i always feel fat and disgusting i use to obsese over my weight (NOT anerexic/bulimic)but now that i dont as much i have gained ...

A.   27 December 2007: Oh, i didnt mention i do NOT like meats or very many fruit... (read in full...)

How can I prevent her leaving and going hundreds of miles away to school?

Q.   im i4 year's old, i have the greatest girlfriend a guy could ask for.she is very atractive she has a good personality. and she is very ahppy about our reltionship. I also feel very strong about it. we have been going out for a few month's, and we ...

A.   27 December 2007: Hay baby I love you so so so much! and after reading this i'm goin to try as hard as i can to stay, but if you hurt me then there will be No reason to stay. me leaving is still 'bout a year away so keep ur head we will work it out. ... (read in full...)

The Salty Coffee....a love story I read about.

Q.   This is not my own work.This is from a guy's profile in one of the dating sites that I am a member of. I did ask him for permission if I can put this story on my blog as I find the story trully sweet and romantic. and wishes people to read it.and ...

A.   27 December 2007: I enjoyed this story very much, it was sweet yet simple ... (read in full...)

I dumped my new boyfriend when my ex who I still loved told me he wanted to be with me again. He then immediately dumped me again and now I'm all alone and miserable and can't get him out of my head! Please help, what do I do??

Q.   well i know people say that i'm to young to be thinking about love but i don't think age matters cause you cant help loving some-one can you ? ok so i was going out with a boy since october 22nd , and then he dumped me for another girl a lil while ...

A.   27 December 2007: I think ur so right with the age dosent matter, but this boy you love doesnt seem to love you b'cuz if he did he wouldnt of started dating this girl, i understand how you feel and im not goin to say get over him b'cuz thats unfair advise and very ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to "push my buttons" more?

Q.   Ok i have a bit of a problem i love me b/f but sometimes i swear he has no clue about anything now im not sayin he is stupid but he just knows how to push my buttons and say the wrong things at the wrong time.....how do i drop a hint about how i ...

A.   26 December 2007: ight, well the title is screwed b/cuz i dont want him to push my buttons he does that enough... (read in full...)

How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??

Q.   Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go ...

A.   25 December 2007: Thanx for the advise Doc, Im not sure i'll use it but i do believe holding off for awhile will come to show if sex is all he wants or not... (read in full...)

Should I date the girl I love - even though she's pregnant with another man's child?

Q.   Ok i have been trying to get the girl i love for the last year and i have sorted succeded for a while. But she couldnt stay away from her ex who is a horrible person, he uses and abuses her. And she just wouldnt say no to him in hopes he has ...

A.   25 December 2007: obviously any guy that wants to be with a girl who has hurt him and is pregnant with someone elses baby has a lot of guts. my opinion on the matter is go for it. since you never know what the future holds its best to take a risk and you can show her ... (read in full...)

Do you think he likes me?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm still in public school. Some of my friends think this guy likes me. I'm not gonna say his name. On the first day of school he winked at me. One time in gym class I was just standing in the middle of the gym and he ...

A.   25 December 2007: Sounds like a guy i knew.....he likes you but not enough for him to be worth it....he sounds like a player to me but thats just my opinion what really matters is if u think he likes you... and if ur not sure ask him.... (read in full...)

How should I masturbate??

Q.   Could someone please give me advice on how to masturbate? I'm only 10 but I'm surrounded by sex loving people. My friend is doing it and so is my Dad. What am I supposed to do?...

A.   25 December 2007: well love if ur only 10 you don't need to masterbate and there is no special or exact way to masterbate mainly touching your self down there is masterbating. it sounds more like what you really want is to fit in... (read in full...)

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