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i think the idea that i am a r.n. gives me just a bit more know how and alittle bit more insight on whats going on. im really not that experienced in whats going on with relationships being that ive only been in a few serious ones myself so dont hold it against me if my advice is not the best but i try to do what i can to help.im learning from you all problems as well as my own i am in a relationship a very good one with a police detective so ive just about heard of all worst case scenarios especially when it comes to domestic violence or relationship problems and what some of them can lead to .but if you have any problems especially health problems feel free to leave me a message and i will be happy to help you in any way i can

Got contact but what should I do next?

Q.   I used to know this girl, but havent talked to her in months, and we just started talking again on facebook. She said we should chill sometime and catch up, so i asked her for her number and i got it... now what?...

A.   25 February 2010: ask her what is her plans for the weekend and that maybe you should get to gether to catch up or re aquainted. from there ask ger if shes involvedbif she say no then make a suggestion that you should hang out a bit more often maybe even have a ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   19 February 2010: i kind of teased him up a bit ii know i shouldnt have and he threatned to whip his 7 inch penis on me i was skeptic at first then he just whipped it ou and oh yea it was erect... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   18 February 2010: he was already erect i kept teasing him up. something that woman should never do to a man but it wasnt intentional and he told me to stop or he was going to whip his 7 inch thing on me i told him yea right and out it came ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   18 February 2010: lol thats the problem he keeps saying stuff like "im goin to tear that ass up" and stuff like that i told him that was not funny its been 2 months since we been together and he wonder why i keep putting it off but i know he hasnt been going else ... (read in full...)

Smelly problem!

Q.   So I'm with this guy and I really like him. I've been with him for 5 months but recently he has started asking me to do stuff with him. I don't mind as I feel ready I'm just really nervous about doing anything as it will be my first time (for ...

A.   18 February 2010: i wouldnt douche i am a registered nurse and douching will onlt spread the bacteria around if indeed it is an infection. i would suggest first go to the drug store they have what you call a vaginal screening kit you use to diagnose an infection and ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   18 February 2010: thank you that comment you made about you and your husbamd size makes me feel a whole lot better because he wants me to spend the night over his house friday night and i know something is going to happen there is to much attraction between the two ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   18 February 2010: the size of his penis is really not the problem its the height and weight that he has over me and the force behind it. this guy is really strong i am a small person compared to him and i really dont like getting on top all the time... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   18 February 2010: well the problem is not how big his penis is its how big he is my head comes barely to his chest are thats a lot of weight for someone mt size the bigger the person the more force behind it i dont like to be on top all the time ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend too 'big' to have sex with?

Q.   i am only 5'1 amd weigh about 137lbs but my new boy friend says his penis is 7inches he is about 6'1 and weighs about 235 lbs is that two big for me we havent had sex yet but i do have four kids thati did have vaginally...

A.   18 February 2010: yea he is about 7inches i have seen it but just not at that stage to have any type of sex i was skeptic so he whipped it out but 7inches is probably right he is a police detective so he is in very good shape ... (read in full...)

I just bought my girlfriend a car, but lost both her and my job days later.

Q.   hello my name *name omitted for privacy* i been wit h this girl for 5 years on valentines day 2010 i decided id buy her a new car a 2005 pntiac gto ls6 well just so happens on feubuary 18 2010 she leaves me i lost my job and i just broke down what ...

A.   18 February 2010: well i would chuck this up to experience and learn from it really there is nothing you can do . once she sees what you would do or go thru to be with her she will come back she will eventually realized she lost a good man before she let you treat ... (read in full...)

Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?

Q.   I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...

A.   18 February 2010: ok if you are calling her a slut for sleeping with two men then what does that make you? im not calling you names cause i dont know you but damn!!!! its been ten months why should she hold out and she dont even know if yall getting back together. ... (read in full...)

I just bought my girlfriend a car, but lost both her and my job days later.

Q.   hello my name *name omitted for privacy* i been wit h this girl for 5 years on valentines day 2010 i decided id buy her a new car a 2005 pntiac gto ls6 well just so happens on feubuary 18 2010 she leaves me i lost my job and i just broke down what ...

A.   18 February 2010: it seems she was just waitin on that one big gift.make a suggestion that you both share the car and if thats not an option if the car is in your name then you can dispute it or take it to court especially if she havent made any payments on it thats ... (read in full...)

Would he be turned off me if iI told him the truth?

Q.   ive been single for 14months i get alot of guys cos guys think am cute and sexy.. but they just want me for sex.. and obviously i didn't give in and they've all disappeared.. i like sex when am in a relationship and in love. and ive ...

A.   18 February 2010: to be honest with you thats a real turn on for a guy just like some guys like to have sex with virgins its all the same there to that makes him feel special and in his mind he is thinking its something special about him that you chose to have and no ... (read in full...)

I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.

Q.   *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...

A.   18 February 2010: just think of it as a learning experience maybe he is trying to learn new things to keep the sex life new and exiting and he is only probably looking at ebony porn because thats what he feels comfortable looking ay. think about it girl he is black ... (read in full...)

How do I carry on after my partners affair?

Q.   after being together for many years,i found out that my partner had been having a sexual affair with a female work colleague of his.this occurred as i was recovering from breast cancer.previous to this i thought we were happy in our life.obviously ...

A.   18 February 2010: everyone deserves a send chance but it all boils down to how long the affair has been going on ask questions that you will need to know to find out his feelings for her. bottom line is either you trust him or you dont there really is nothing to say ... (read in full...)

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