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... Send *eboraic a private message | | | *eboraic's profile:I am a 24 year old male with little life experience (none with women) but many opinions. I give a unique perspective, before a person experiences something think about it in a positive way, children do. And my opinions on reflect that with beliefs in love at first sight and true love conquer
Spending so long being a secret admirer, i am quick to tell women he is not worth it. Im still at that stage where women seem like all fun and no work but am assured by others that willl change.
I find this theraputic, as you can tell from the first paragraph, my life is not a buzz of activity, this helps to fill the voids in my life.
Being a lonely person (not entirely by choice), ive spent a lot of time analysing people, I feel this makes me a useful agony aunt. In a bid to improve my own social life i observe others. If there was a research degree in this field then ive been a student of it since high school.
I live in London, capital city, crammed full of people. It can be a very lonely place to live, there are people every where but none will make eye contact, let alone say hi. |
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I always call her during holidays, I feel it's a one sided situation. Should I keep waiting?
Q. My friend who I fancy for over a year now has still not contacted me over xmas. I always ring her durin holidays. I Don't Wanna ring her cause I just feel ltm it's a one sided thing. I really wanted to take her out. I'm nuts about her. Any ideas? ...
A. 1 January 2008: If she doesnt phone by the time the holidays are over then ask her out. This situation is unsustainable and constantly waiting is a situation to be in. ... (read in full...)
I want to know whether my husband's comments and attitude towards me are "normal" or whether they are an indiciation of an inappropriate temperament.
Q. I want to know whether my husbands comments and attitude towards me are just 'normal' or whether they are an indiciation of a much worse temperament. It seems ridiculous of me to ask but, having put up with things for so long I feel somehow ...
A. 1 January 2008: No your not making too much of it. Is it normal, it is normal treatment if your a slave. While i feel many people do this (ive complained about wasting money on old milk before), it is never this extreme. It sounds like he brings more misery than ... (read in full...)
How long do I wait after my recent break up before accepting a date? I've received an invitation but I'm worried about my... public image.
Q. i have just broken up with my bf of 3 years, i knew it was coming long before it did - but this really nice guy now is asking me to go on a date with him, i'm not sure: is it to soon, will i make myself out to be bitch, i really need help plz, i ...
A. 1 January 2008: How long do you wait? until you feel ready to date again, it could be a day or a year (unless you hope to get back with your ex). It sounds like you want to date this new guy so GO FOR IT!... (read in full...)
The boy I fancy found out how I feel - how do I expel the awkwardness? I still want to be his friend.
Q. They boy i really like found out that i like him and now it is unbelievably awkard between us and it never used to be like that. i already know that there is a good chance he dont like me back but i just dont want things to be awkard anymore ...
A. 21 December 2007: talk to him, its worth a try, what your doing now isnt working and it will give you something to talk about.... (read in full...)
Is it worth making things work?
Q. Do you ever think I man with a bad, violent temper could change? He's good in certain ways takes care of me cleans, cooks but when he gets upset all hell breaks loose. I was living with him for 2yrs and just moved out but he says that he knows we ...
A. 19 December 2007: I would say yes, stay. As long as it doesnt make you unhappy in the long term, if its just a bad trait that you can live with then. If it makes your life (or the childrens life) hell, if it robs you of happiness (the happiness he is supposed to ... (read in full...)
She thinks we are soulmates, but refuses a relationship. I've been in long distances before and it worked like a dream. Any ideas?
Q. this is a hard one. I'm very close friends with someone that i fancy like crazy, she knows it. I fell for her, couldnt help it. She wanted just friends. So i explained that every time i talk to her on the phone, she lives in glasgow me in stoke on ...
A. 19 December 2007: Theres no solvable problem here. The only thing left to do is find out why. The maybe move on to someonelse (deespite the fact that all other women will be inferior in comparison). That might even make her want you (although dont do it with that ... (read in full...)
How can I give one the brush off without hurting him?
Q. I have a boyfriend but he stays far away. He is always talking of marrying but I am not ready even though I do love him. I got involved in another relationship when he was away and began to love the two equally. I want to remain with one but I can't ...
A. 15 December 2007: How do you brush him off without hurting him? You cant. This is the harsh cruel world we live in. There may be ways to make it easier on the guy but i have no experience in that.... (read in full...)
I'm scared of confrontation! How can I feel more comfortable with disputes with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi guys, I'm petrified of confrontation and argument, I don't know where this has come from, I came from an okay home and no one has been abusive to me, but I systematically avoid disagreements at all costs-i even broke off things with my ex only ...
A. 15 December 2007: it sounds like a fear to me, and to overcome a fear you need to just go for it, slowly, take small steps. It sounds familiar, i want to get into martial arts/boxing but i am scared but with some practice and soft battles and courage, i can overcome ... (read in full...)
I'm a good flirt and I have a good personality but still I'm never the one that guys seem to bother with, what can I do to change this?
Q. I'm never the one that guys seem to bother with. They'll occasionally chat to, and have a bit of a flirt. But then I always seem to be left after that for some other girl. No-one seems to want to make the effort with me to even ask me out. I'm not...
A. 15 December 2007: im in the same position, i dont even get the bit of flirting. The bad news is there is no secret to getting guys to like you, or girls for that matter. One thing you should try is talking to guys you dont usually notice, once i made an effort w... (read in full...)
Is this girl fair game to me? And if so, how would you advice I pursue her?
Q. A while back a buddy of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of his. At the time I think we both weren't interested in being set up. Well, I finally met this young woman (we r both mid-twenties)at a party and i think we connected. There was ...
A. 15 December 2007: Bide your tie (till he moves) and when shes single go in for the kill. Your going to need more than positive body language to justify going after someones girlfriend (solid proof she likes you). If hes not treating her right or (if you kn... (read in full...)
Is it true that if a boy says gross stuff to you it means he likes you?
Q. Okay well I'm a 13 year old girl so I am still in Public school. This guy has been like flirting and bugging me. First hes all sweet and when he is with his friend he gets all sexual towards me. Today when I was in art class he called my name and I ...
A. 15 December 2007: The best way to tell if someone likes you is by how much attention they pay you. he is always saying hi, thats a good sign. So is that fact that hes bugging you, i used to do it to girls i like. There are two kinds, the horrible kind where you ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have no luck, I feel down and unhappy
Q. i am not sure if i have depression, i feel really down all the time like there is nothing worth while in my life,i feel useless in evrything and a string of bad luck lately has added to that.my mum has been taken into hospital and may now need a ...
A. 15 December 2007: im not sure if your depressed or not but enough bad situations to depress anyone. This is a good place to come for help, i often dont feel happy and come here to communicate with people who have problems like mine.Ive felt many times like im ... (read in full...)
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