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I haven't heard from him in a month. Should I call him?

Q.   Ok so I got set up with this guy on a blind date by a mutual friend. I have only been out on a date with one other guy, and I'm very careful with who I date because I just find it weird to go out with strangers. So to make it not weird our mutual ...

A.   8 August 2010: I completely agree with DearJilly's answer. It seems like he was into you- so take a small risk by contacting him, it may reap great rewards ! Good luck ... (read in full...)

Will his past affect our future, and is he worth sticking with?

Q.   What do you do with a guy who seems to have a past? I mean it doesn't barther me as much as it use to, but I'm curious. But I don't want to ask and hear something I wouldn't want to hear. He's had A LOT of sex. He doesn't even know the number. ...

A.   30 July 2010: Seems like you have the seed of doubt already planted. The best advice is to follow your gut instinct. What are your expectations, anyhow? Do you want to date a guy who has a violent past and multiple failed relationships? Seems like u want to save ... (read in full...)

Should I take her word that he doesn't like me?

Q.   im 13 and i really like this guy who is a year younger than me. his sister (my bffl) knows that i like him but she keeps telling me that he dosent like me. idk if shes telling me the truth. should i ask him if he likes me or should i just ta...

A.   26 December 2009: do you think your 'bfffl' has reason to lie to you? ... (read in full...)

I just want to be friend, but I think she might fancy me

Q.   Ok so im just a little bit confused as of lately.... i know a girl, have known her for a couple years casually. U know not close friends or anything.. well last week we got to talking and exchanged numbers, Now i know she has a bf and while sh...

A.   18 December 2009: She probably does like you. I think you should tell her your getting some mixed signals from her and that you just want to be there for her as a friend. If you don't want to be that upfront then don't give her any signs that your into her- because ... (read in full...)

I feel guilty and can't decide!

Q.   [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...

A.   14 December 2009: Im going to ask you something- Do you want to COMMIT, with either one? If your 100 percent sure about committing with a woman in general - pick the one that you have stronger feelings for - DO NOT FEEL YOU NEED TO BE WITH SOMEONE FOR MORAL DUTY. I ... (read in full...)

He seems to have lost interest in me, but not football

Q.   Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years now. He is the best man i've ever met. Although for the past year i've felt a little neglected. We live together and we hardly spend time together he is always watchin football. I feel discusting and ...

A.   6 December 2009: Hey, your fiancee is a good man for many reasons so dont lose sight of them. However, it cannot be ignored that so early in your relationship (since you will be married eventually) you are only having sex 4-5 times a month. However, is he stressed ... (read in full...)

Should I clear the air with him?

Q.   I'm very confused why I can't stop thinking about him. We are both married with children. My spouse could not be more perfect for me. We are both so alike in so many ways. The "spark" left our relationship once our first child was born. We go months ...

A.   27 October 2009: Well from your age range you are a young woman and in an unhappy marriage, so I can see why you are so confused about this situation. The co worker is intriguing and you feel a spark- In my opinion your lusting after him, your infatuated with him- ... (read in full...)

How do I sweep him off his feet?

Q.   the guy i love has loved a girl for 15 years,and he told me that he wants to forget her,and that he thinks that im the one who could make him do that..can anyone please tell me how?please can you help me think of something?i wanna sweep him off his ...

A.   27 October 2009: You are setting yourself up to get hurt. Your going to invest all of yourself to a man who has a long emotional history, and is using you as a rebound. He may be into you, but I cant tell from what you have written. A man should do the sweeping, ... (read in full...)

Dating 1 girl but still love another

Q.   Please Help Me :( Okay, Im dating this girl but i still have strong feelings for my ex which happens to be my best friend (yes, i have a best friend that is a girl. who doesnt?) I got expelled from my school so i dont get see them that much. ...

A.   21 October 2009: So are you confused? Because it seems like your best friend is the one you clearly want to be with. Why don't you break up with your girlfriend , but do it the right way, dont be a jerk. your young follow your heart.... (read in full...)

He was obsessive about calling but now he's not calling!

Q.   Alright!! i'm gonna lay it all out. Ive been dating this guy Kris for 2 months now, he is twenty seven, and I'm nineteen. We started dating and everything was good. He said he loved me like two weeks in!! Way fast but I thought hey maybe it can ...

A.   3 September 2009: I think he's playing games! The constant calling he was doing before IS OBSESSIVE...It's way too needy and this is a cause for concern. It denotes a lack of stability. You said your not happy and you do not seem to trust him- if your only 2 months ... (read in full...)

She texts with the ex and doesn't see it as a problem

Q.   Dear all, My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year now. Before our relationship, her ex and her met up and slept together a few times, including him cheating on his then girlfriend with my girlfriend. So I had my suspicions at th...

A.   3 September 2009: I think you have the right to be suspicious. I have been in the position where i was in a relationship for almost 3 years and I was texting my ex and it did not lead to anything good. Long story short I cheated. I do not see why she still needs to ... (read in full...)

Does he really love me or not?

Q.   Ohk here goes, now i have been seeing this guy for over a month or so i knew him since we was in primary school, but didnt really talk too him. We seen each other at a party!! and got talkin n exchange numbers!! the next day he text me straight ...

A.   30 April 2009: Seems like you guys may be casually hooking up... maybe you should ask him next time he comes around what it is in specific that he wants. I have a similar situation with an ex and its gotten so frustrated, it seems like a game. One minute he claim... (read in full...)

Help! I'm in love with my teacher! Please don't try to talk me out of telling him

Q.   Hi everyone! I'm fourteen years old and in eighth grade and I am totally in love with my math/advisory teacher (At my school, advisory is a class you go to for fifteen minutes at the beginning of the day and do activities and stuff). I've had a crus...

A.   1 April 2009: How old is your teacher? Over 18 i;m sure...he wont go for a 14 year old unless he wants to lose his job and reputation and all of his life! You are probably infatuated and nothing will come out of the situation...Unless you are willing to wait ... (read in full...)

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