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How can I miss her if she won't go away?

Q.   How do I tell my girlfriend that being together ALL the time may not be such a healthy thing? Not counting work, I can't be away from her for more than a few hours. She gets very upset and starts asking "Why don't you want to be with me?" or "Why do ...

A.   30 July 2006: Its definatly insecurity going on here, my girlfriend was the same. What she doesn't realise is that she is pushing you away slowly and one day she might push that little bit more and you might move on. Its obviously driving you crazy which is... (read in full...)

My girl of 10 months as just told me shes coming off the pill and doesnt want sex any more ??

Q.   I just recently had a problem with my girlfriend of ten months and its a problem i never expected to have. I just got back from a week long vacation and she told me close to the end of the day she was going off the pill and didnt want to have sex ...

A.   30 July 2006: I agree with the above comment ^ My girlfriend is on the pill and has been on the pill for over 5 months now. It could be medical reasons or it could be taking an effect on her life my giving her weight gain, mood swings or any of the other sid... (read in full...)

Am I going off my girlfriend, or is this just a bad time for us?

Q.   I am having a very confusing time of late. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and up until about 4 and a half months, and had been really happy. I still am, but it doesn't feel as much which I'm confused about. In late March, I was feel...

A.   9 June 2006: Yeah we spent a lot of time together we saw each other 4-5 times per week for about 11 houyrs some days and about 6 on others....And just as i've read your answer I certainly think its because we saw each other too much...The problem is my ... (read in full...)

Am I going off my girlfriend, or is this just a bad time for us?

Q.   I am having a very confusing time of late. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and up until about 4 and a half months, and had been really happy. I still am, but it doesn't feel as much which I'm confused about. In late March, I was feel...

A.   8 June 2006: I haven't seen her for almost 4 days the most in months....I don't know i just feel guitly that i like time to myself i am just that type of persona dn like my own space from time to time...allthough i do now i could see her everyday etc...but some ... (read in full...)

Worried that the love for my girl may be fading... !

Q.   I have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and to begin with it was all a big change for me etc and was extremely exiting....Now I keep having worries in my head that I am 'slowly going off' my girlfriend for some reason....Whenever I am ...

A.   2 June 2006: Thanks for reply...Tbh I think im thinking too deeply about things i saw her tonite had a great night and i feel my worry has gone...but then worrying it will come back this week sometime is somthing i need to get rid of soon....its on and off you ... (read in full...)

Worried that the love for my girl may be fading... !

Q.   I have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and to begin with it was all a big change for me etc and was extremely exiting....Now I keep having worries in my head that I am 'slowly going off' my girlfriend for some reason....Whenever I am ...

A.   2 June 2006: Hi thanks for the reply....And yeah I do love her she is totally great and sweet i find her physically attractive but also i find her personality really great too....It was fine a month or two ago but a week or two of random sadness which the doctor ... (read in full...)

She started crying when we discussed our relationship. Normal, or weird?

Q.   Earlier today whilst lying with my girlfriend (Been with her 5 n a half months) she suddenly spoke about how paranoid she is. She said that she has been really paranoid about me whenever I don't feel in the mood for lots of kissing and hugs and all ...

A.   24 May 2006: Thanks for your replys ... She is a very sweet genuine person and is a veryy emotional girl, also very insecure...We had a long chat about it today before she went into tears aout her paranoia and i explained to her that she has nothing to worry ... (read in full...)

What's causing my anxiety?

Q.   I have an ongoing anxiety which is really really weird and strange or at least i think so...A month or too back I was feeling low for no reason at all and had random sadness for a week or so and my girlfriend was really worrying that I was going off ...

A.   15 May 2006: Heyy thanks again for the reply....I have decided to be honest with her about staying at her nans and most other things...It's not intimidation its just that I feel guilty letting her down when shes asked me and she would not do the same to me kind ... (read in full...)

What's causing my anxiety?

Q.   I have an ongoing anxiety which is really really weird and strange or at least i think so...A month or too back I was feeling low for no reason at all and had random sadness for a week or so and my girlfriend was really worrying that I was going off ...

A.   14 May 2006: Oh also the sex side of things was not rushed into...She is on the pill and we use all precations neccesary .... We planned extremely well telling parents etc etc.... But i kno shes under age but i wouldn't have done it if i didn't love her.... (read in full...)

What's causing my anxiety?

Q.   I have an ongoing anxiety which is really really weird and strange or at least i think so...A month or too back I was feeling low for no reason at all and had random sadness for a week or so and my girlfriend was really worrying that I was going off ...

A.   14 May 2006: Hi thanks for posting again... I am learning to drive soon and can ride a bike and used to go out a lot with mates on my bike i have suggested going on my bike with her but she not being funny to my gf is 'lazy' and makes up excuses if it involves ... (read in full...)

What's causing my anxiety?

Q.   I have an ongoing anxiety which is really really weird and strange or at least i think so...A month or too back I was feeling low for no reason at all and had random sadness for a week or so and my girlfriend was really worrying that I was going off ...

A.   14 May 2006: Hiya well no I am still really attracted to my girlfriend and perfectly fine during the erection side during sex I have not had any problems with that at all apart form once...I still feel really turned on when with my girlfriend. When i mean 'my ... (read in full...)

Sweet 16 and never been... in a relationship. Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Hi...I'm 16 years old girl, and have never been in a proper relationship. Is there something wrong with me, or have I just not met the right guy?!...

A.   12 May 2006: Hi BecBecBec ... Nope there is nothing wrong with you at all ... I met my girlfriend when I was 17 and she is my first real relationship ... Generally people find bfs and gfs at around 18-19 years of age because people are much more mature a... (read in full...)

He doesn't initiate sex much so it's got me wondering...is he still interested?

Q.   Im just wondering how to get my boyfriend to initiate sex, when we met it was sweet that no pressure was put on me and it was always up to me when we had sex and Im worried that maybe he's no longer interested as recently Iv not initiated to let him ...

A.   12 May 2006: Hi well the only thing I can really think of is that he doesn't enjoy sex, not that he doesn't enjoy sex 'with you' but just generally does not enjoy sex. Some people are like that even males are not quite that intimate! Stress and tirednes... (read in full...)

My first love but she's acting quite differently to me... advice please?

Q.   Hi I have had a girlfriend for 5 months, i am 17 years old male and she is my first girlfriend...She is 15 almost 16 years old and since we have first been going out it has been a huge change for me and very exiting and fun...However lately i think ...

A.   12 May 2006: Thanks a lot for an answer *dreamer* ... And when i mean she talks about marriage she is kind of like 'will you marry me one day?' kind of thing...which is partly joke and partly real but yeah....i guess its just im not that type of person...She is ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't have time for me.... shall i end it?

Q.   I'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because he won't make an effort to see me anymore. He says he hasn't got time to see me because he is studying, but i'm studying too and i would make time to see him! He lives in the same town as me,...

A.   12 May 2006: Hello, from what you have written it sounds as if your so called 'boyfriend' is either to afraid too tell you that he 'doesn't want you anymore' and is playing cool and hard to get then eventually you will give up on him... I have known of mates... (read in full...)

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