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Trouble making co-worker
Q. my husband and i have been togther for fifteen years now we have 3 children. he recently cheated on me with a girl he works with about ten years younger then me, she was well aware of me and our children but she pursued him anyway. and yes she ...
A. 12 March 2009: I'm happy to hear it, too. It's good to know that things turn out well sometimes!... (read in full...)
Is he protecting me from him? Or is he playing me?
Q. I am an 18 year old collage student. My friends consider me good looking and even knowing me do not believe that I am a virgin at times. I have everything, and everything that a teenage girl could want...except a serious relationship, I fear ...
A. 13 February 2009: I'd back off, and just treat him as a colleague, and here's why.
If he's playing you, that is, trying to manipulate you into a sexual relationship, then you don't want any part of that, right? You want someone who is serious and kind, I assume. ... (read in full...)
Is she just saying that because she doesn't like me?
Q. Okay so i've been talking to this girl for like three weeks and then at a party she asked me to go up to her room because she didn't feel good and we ended up cuddling and making out and it was great ... we did this for like 3 days straight, she ...
A. 13 February 2009: It's hard to say. She might be trying to let you down gently. My advice is to continue to be friendly with her but don't set your heart on having her as a lover. See other women, and see what happens.... (read in full...)
He just keeps cheating..shouldI leave or not?
Q. hey every one i need some advice other than my close friend my mom and others close to me well....here it goes.....iam 18 yrs.old i have a 5 month son and his dad is now in jail i broke up with him bc he cheated on me and i found this out until now ...
A. 13 February 2009: Definitely leave. Accept his financial help for your son, but do not have a sexual relationship with him. He keeps cheating, and you don't want that, right? He's going to keep cheating, so just let him go now and save yourself some grief.... (read in full...)
I like him...he likes her
Q. Hey i need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and i've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and im not sure if ...
A. 13 February 2009: My advice is to gather your courage and ask your friend out before he asks your friend out. If he turns you down, then well, you did your best, and you have no regrets.
Of course, it might make it hard to be around him after that, so you have to ... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin and will I bleed if I have sex?
Q. i have fingered my self before. i once by mistake inserted something thing down there it hurt but i had no blood. i've never had real sexual intercourse with the exception of dry sex with my boyfriend. and my boyfriend might have inserted his penis ...
A. 13 February 2009: You won't necessarily bleed if you have sex. If you want to remain a virgin, don't let your boyfriend put his penis in there at all! Not to mention the fact that he could get you pregnant. They say there are sperm in the drop of lubricant that comes ... (read in full...)
What can a parent do if their kids chose a wrong path?
Q. How can I be happy ,if my son is a drug addict? Do I have a right to stop contacting me? i love him and I did everything I possibly could for him. He is not alone , his brother is down the road with him. They are adults now. He kind of took him down...
A. 13 February 2009: You absolutely have the right to have a good life, even if your children are going down the wrong path. What good will it do them if you are miserable too? And think of your marriage; if you are consumed with worry about your son and refuse to ... (read in full...)
I know he's a mess but I miss him!
Q. Dear Cupid, Does it mean something when you think of someone constantly who you are no longer with? I feel like sometimes I'm Im obesessing over this guy i only dated 3 months, but he made a huge impact on my life. I'm a well educated women, a...
A. 13 February 2009: Does it mean something when you think of someone constantly who you are no longer with? Yes, it often means that there is some lack in you that you are seeking to fill. You are probably idealizing him in your thoughts, but from your description of ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am a waitress at a high class restaurant... and I'm in love with one of our regular customers... The problem is, he doesn't know I'm in love with him.. The reason is because I always remain professional towards customers. He usually visits o...
A. 13 February 2009: Maybe some time after he is finished with his meal and he is leaving, you can slip out and catch him and ask him if he'd like to have coffee with you some time. Then invite him for a few days later.
The sister may sense that you're attracte... (read in full...)
I made my mom hate me and don't know what to do
Q. I've made my mum hate me and I don't know what to do. It started just over a year ago when I started seeing a guy who is 11 years older than me. I was 18 at the time. I was scared to tell my parents as I had seen their reaction when my sister m...
A. 13 February 2009: Oh dear! I can tell it really hurts that your mom doesn't trust you anymore!
I hope you can see that it is your own behavior that's gotten you into this fix. You don't want to disappoint her, so you avoid telling her. And then it blows up in your ... (read in full...)
What does his actions sound like to you?
Q. Hi everyone, This is a little long but im going to try and keep it simple... Okay so 6 months ago i met a guy online (yeah its one of those stories lol).Really hit it off,talked for hours,talked for hours on the phone,webcam etc-basically we...
A. 13 February 2009: It sounds like he's got some problems that you don't need to deal with. I suggest you cool things down with him and find someone who you can connect with face-to-face.
In my experience, when someone keeps coming up with excuses for not showing ... (read in full...)
Trouble making co-worker
Q. my husband and i have been togther for fifteen years now we have 3 children. he recently cheated on me with a girl he works with about ten years younger then me, she was well aware of me and our children but she pursued him anyway. and yes she ...
A. 12 February 2009: Tell your husband that in order to reassure you that he will not repeat his affair with her, you want him to tell her explicitly not to contact him on a personal basis ever again.
He's a grown up man--I'm sure he can figure out how to say it s... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed by my friend.
Q. I feel betrayed by my friend. I have been friends with a guy who is younger than me and although I developed feelings for him we have only been good friends. I became friends with a woman and she thought I had something going on with this guy. Sh...
A. 12 February 2009: I would distance myself from the friend, but I don't think I would confront her. I'm sure she knows what she did. She used you and took advantage of your friendship to find some romance. Continue seeing your male friend. It's up to you whether y... (read in full...)
I'm lost on what to do, does anyone out there have any advice?
Q. My wife and I have been married for about a year and a half. We have no kids, and I am 27 she is 24. It has been rough financially on both of us, for most of the marriage, and even before the wedding when we were both in college, with us living on ...
A. 12 February 2009: I don't think anything will help except seriously talking about what is going on with her. My suggestion is you get very serious about talking to her and tell her you can't go on living with her with this distance between you. Make sure she ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have no control of my life...
Q. hi all, I would like opinions please, I have been in a relationship with a bloke for 12 years it has been a really difficult one too, I'd try and talk to him and he would tell me i was being stupid, walked away when i cried, sometimes id loose my ...
A. 12 February 2009: This sounds like a classic abusive relationship. Find an agency that serves battered women in your area and call them up and get some counseling.
This guy will never get any better if you keep letting him back in your life. And every time he calls... (read in full...)
His ex wife is back on the scene...
Q. I married a wonderful man 3 years ago. He has a heart of gold and is very, very good to me. My concern is his ex-wife. All of a sudden she has started to show up at my husband's family events. This past christmas she showed up at the family party. ...
A. 12 February 2009: Suggest he talk to his aunt and remind her how much he loves his family and enjoys the get-togethers. He should explain how upsetting his ex-wife's presence is at the parties and appeal to her kindness. If she doesn't respond positively, ther... (read in full...)
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