Involved with a married man who cheats with others but I won't leave him
Q. I am in a relationship with a married man who also sees other people. I knew this going into the relationship. I did not care, because I am obsessed. I will not leave under any circumstances, as I am that codependent. I love him, and that's ...
A. 28 August 2010: Is it impossible for you to get another man?
This guy might actually infect you with a deadly disease.
You deserve some respect and dignity.... (read in full...)
Is my BF or his BOTHER the father of my baby?!!
Q. hi everyone lam pregnant but l don't know who is the father my bf was out of the country for 2mnths.l cheated on him while he was not around.l had sex with his brother on the first of this mnth and my bf came back on the 4th of this mnth we had...
A. 26 August 2010: Wow, what a chance you took, sleeping with his brother is bad enough, but to do it without protection is irresponsible.
Unfortunately, you wont be able to know whose baby it is, you can only do a paternity test when the baby is born but if it turn... (read in full...)
Shocked by threesome suggestion!
Q. My Fiancé and I have been together for 2 ½ years and have a very happy and loving relationship. We have talked about threesomes before and came to an agreement that if were to have a bloke then he would choose who and when, and if it was female then ...
A. 26 August 2010: It was just a once off thing and he really meant it because you guys have discussed threesomes before, but since he can see that you very hurt, he wont even dare do it behind your back.
Dont worry, you i ll be be fine with time/... (read in full...)
I love my husband but I am tired of being alone!
Q. I'm married 2 years. Been with my husband for 5 years. Problem is I'm lonely and don't know what to do. My husband has a child from a previous marriage. His child lives with my husband's mother everyday even though he pays his ex child support. My ...
A. 11 August 2010: Why dont the child come live with you guys?
Then you can have him to yourself everyday.... (read in full...)
He came too quickly and now seems embarassed, but I don't want this to ruin our chances at a relationship!
Q. Hello everyone I seriously need help. I met this guy through a friend and we've each had our eyes on one another for quite some time and I really like him, well last night we had sex it was great but he ejaculated quick and he kept saying he ...
A. 5 August 2010: Try make him come first during foreplay before penetration, he ll last longer and gradually become confident and he ll be able to control himself better.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my ex's best friend but still have feelings for my ex too!
Q. Hey guys, I'll give you the low down... The guy i'm dating is my ex's best friend. At first it started out as myself using him to make the best friend jealous, and I succeeded. Then I screwed up and fell for both of them.. 3 years into this ...
A. 5 August 2010: Make up your mind, and let one of them go.
Its unfair on both of them.... (read in full...)
Is it my boyfriend's or the other guys baby?
Q. Could really need some help please, im pregnant 7weeks i had sex with another guy a week before my period and the rest of the time with my bf so how do i know its my bf? its on the 22 july i did it with the other guy and found out today im 7weeks ...
A. 3 August 2010: How do you sleep with another person without protection and expect not to get pregnant.
You must be honest with you boyfriend, but if its me, i will dump you fast even if the child is mine.... (read in full...)
Big crush on my husband's brother!
Q. My situation is really messed up. I am married and I do love my life but I am bored. I have a big crush on my brother in law and I think he feels the same about me. I told him my feelings but he hasn't told me in words whether he feels the same or ...
A. 23 July 2010: This is utter madness, imagine if your husband is screwing your sister, will you be happy, if no, then leave his brother alone.
At least hes got manners and respect for his brother, as for you, you dont have respect and love for your husband and ... (read in full...)
I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents don't approve of us!
Q. Hi i am currently 17 almost 18 years old and i have secretly been dating by boyfriend for about 10 months now and in a few months i turn 18, and i want to move in with him but my parents dont want us to be together. i have tried talking to them but ...
A. 22 July 2010: At your age, you education should be more important to you more than anything else.
If you live with him, the likelihood of falling pregnant is big, will you guys be able to afford that?
Also, you guys are very young and the younger you are, the... (read in full...)
My ex still likes me but I like his friend instead
Q. last summer i was going out with this guy that i really liked, and i invited him and his best friend to come play baseball with me and my little brother. i kinda started to like his friend... me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a few months ago and ...
A. 17 July 2010: This is wrong, dating an Ex's friend is wrong, because it will look like you guys were doing stuff behind his back while you guys were spending time together.
Just think about it, if someone does that to you, will you like it?
And it seems both of ... (read in full...)
I feel used and very depressed, what should I do?
Q. hey guys. im hoping to god someone reads this because im so down and depressed over this situation please excuse the length aswell ok here goes a year ago a new guy started my job. i had just come out of an emotionally and occassionally ph...
A. 17 July 2010: Cut him out of your life and take time to assess what you really need and dont jump straight into another relationship, you need some time to yourself, otherwise, you ll breakdown.... (read in full...)
How do you deal with the lonliness of a long distance relationship??
Q. Hey Guys. I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now, I am completely crazy about my boyfriend and he does make me very happy. My problem is that in the time we've been together we have only met for 2 weeknds. This long distan...
A. 9 July 2010: Its so unfortunat, the situation you find yourself, but before you agreed to the relationship, am sure you were aware it was gona be a long distance relationship.
I really dont know what i will do if i dont see my GF in two months, when she left... (read in full...)
The romantic connection is lost and I'm distracted by my crush for his friend!
Q. Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and have always been crazy in love with him. The past while he has become sort of complacent in the relationship and sort of like he is not as into me anymore and i have always tried talking to him ...
A. 23 June 2010: Try and make him understand that you might be falling out of love with him and with someone else as a result of his attitude, if that doesnt change things, then leave him, but whatever you do, dont do anything with his best buddy.... (read in full...)
My husband has been cheating all this time
Q. Hi, I'm in a lot of trouble and need some advice soon. I'm married for just over one year and pregnant with my first child. I married long time boyfriend. I had a feeling he does things with other girls behind my back even before we got married. But ...
A. 20 April 2010: Honey girl, i think you should be more objective when giving advice, all i see is you just telling people to dump who they with as if it is so easy to breakup with someone you ve been with for so long. Missy, i will advise you to have a chat wit... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't want to marry until until I get a better job
Q. My boyfriend of four years hasn't proposed yet and doesn't know when he will. We had a discussion last night about it because I'm tired of waiting. Basically he's told me that he can't marry me unless I get a different job that pays more and is m...
A. 20 April 2010: I choose to disagree with what most people are saying, i tend to agree more with CHIGIRL. Am also having the same thoughts with my Girlfriend. I love her so much but she doesnt really seem career oriented.Am a post graduate student who will get a go... (read in full...)
Help!! I'm physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained from my lazy husband.
Q. My husband and I have been married for nine years and we have three wonderful kids. He works at the local sherrif's department and I work at a local lawyer's office. I work from 8:00a.m.-5:00p.m. and he works from 4:00p.m.-midnight. During the ...
A. 20 April 2010: I think you should leave for a while and see if he wont do those things for himself, including cooking for himself.
Some times, we as humans dont appreciate what we have until we lose it.
He will learn to appreciate and help you around the house.... (read in full...)
I confronted him about another girl and he spat on me and shoved me down the stairs. How do I move on from this?
Q. I am not sure how to get over this so im asking for everyones opinion. I just recently broke up with my ex saturday because I confronted him about texting this girl and deleting messages from her. he got all pissed off kicked me out of his house ...
A. 15 April 2010: A guy who spits on you has no respect for you at all.
You have to move on, am so sorry he treated you this way, that is so cruel no matter what must have transpired.... (read in full...)
I want to maintain a friendship with him and keep in touch with him when I leave my place of work.
Q. There's a guy at my job that i'm about to quit and move away from that i kind of like, but i wouldn't allow anything to happen because i'm about to move in with my boyfriend. i WOULD like to pursue a friendship with him, just see him one day out of ...
A. 7 April 2010: The problem is, this will eventually lead to cheating.If you dont think it is cheating, ask your boyfriend these same questions you asking us.
Our hearts have a way of dissapointing us,Just one day together alone, you might be suprise what wil... (read in full...)
I want him to leave her for me
Q. I am having a predicament. I was with "Joe" for 8 years. We met when we were 17 and just broke up a few weeks ago. During the past 8 years I have been very close with his family, in fact I am closer to them than he is. I still hang out with his ...
A. 4 April 2010: This is one sad situation, you are a very manipulative person and you keep telling yourself that his family will be happy for you if you end up with your boyfriends brother.
For us guys, we have an unwritten rule that says, friends of a boyfrien... (read in full...)
I made a decision about the cheating father of my baby, now a friend is telling me I did the wrong thing
Q. I have a 2 week old son. His father is not in the picture. He pretty much just up and left and I haven't had any contact with him. At first he wanted to be there. He kept trying to agree to letting him get a place and have me move in with him. ...
A. 27 March 2010: You cheated with him on his ex and fell pregnant, yet you didnt expect him to run off with another woman?
Karma is a bitch.
Its good you didnt give him a chance, cos he was still gona abandon you and your son, so concentrate on you and your so... (read in full...)
How can I entice him in to a lasting relationship?
Q. Am madly in luv wit this guy,he drives me crazy when he is around me yet we are just having a cordial relationship.I realy want a lasting relationship with him pls somebody tel me what to do....
A. 24 March 2010: Unfortunately, know in Nigeria where i am from as well,its still a bit starnge for women to ask men out, but try to be subtle in your approach so you dont come on too strong.
Ask him simple questions like do you have a girlfriend? what do you like... (read in full...)
Another guy advises my girl on relationships and I am concerned he will plant negativity in her mind about me.
Q. Here's my situation. Both myself and the girl I am dating are christian. We believe strongly in long term relationships, ones that seriously could someday grow into feelings of marriage. For the first time in my life, I have found a girl special e...
A. 24 March 2010: Sit her down and tell her you dont like her closeness to that guy and try to make her understand its not healthy for your relationship.If she really loves you, she wont let someone come between the both of you.... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, and now worry of the consequences. Please help me!
Q. [Moderators Note - Helpful advice only please] ok this is really long but ill try to make it short: alright im fifteen,i went out with a guy for what would have been a year on feb. 27 this year but he kept breaking up with me an begging me to ta...
A. 23 March 2010: This is a very delicate situation and am sure you ve learnt your lesson. I mean, what were you thinking, sleeping with a guy you barely know unprotected. I dont know how long its been that you guys did it, but if you can get hold of emergency... (read in full...)
If she didn't want to talk to me, why did she give me her number?
Q. ...so this girl at my school i like somewhat gives me her number..so i wait about 3 to 4 days..and i send her a text saying is she there....she reply who is this..i say it was me...after about 9 min i get no reply so i send her another asking did ...
A. 16 March 2010: She is probably with her boyfriend, thats why she didnt want to answer, most women do that.
Or she felt obligated to give you her number, but wasnt really intrested.... (read in full...)
So tired of the dating game...
Q. Single for the first time in a long time, with no single girl friends to enjoy it with. My girls all have boyfriends, why would they want to go out with me, when their boyfriends will pick them up by car (instead of with me by bus lol) and their bo...
A. 10 March 2010: Just get a man and stop whinning.You had a failed relationship does not mean there are no other good guys out there who can treat you better.
Obviously, your friends with Boyfriends will always prefer to spend time with thier boyfriends.
Some ... (read in full...)
She slept with her ex 4 months ago... need advice please!
Q. Hi, first time poster... in desperate need of some advice. This time yesterday i was the happiest and most content i'd ever been with anyone, i truly believed i'd found that special person, to me she was perfect in every way. Today i'm stru...
A. 10 March 2010: This is a very tough one.If she has to sleep with her Ex to know that shes no longer inlove with him, only God knows what else shes capable of.
Although i will advice you to frogive her if you really love her, but make sure she cuts all ties wit... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my husband likes a woman at work
Q. Im worried that my husband likes a women at work. he drives a truck at a company and she works in the office, he always says that the girls are fat and unattractive because I do ask who works in the office and if any of those girls talk to him and ...
A. 3 March 2010: Well, he was hiding the truth from you because you keep obsessing about the women at his workplace.
Are you doing this because he has cheated on yu before?
Or are there other underlying issues that you didnt mention.
I will advise you give him som... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I want to experience other relationships. What should I do?
Q. I'm 22 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for a nearly 2 years. We'll call him 'Steve'. I do love him, and I enjoy being with him. My problem is that lately I've been feeling like I want to experience other relationships. S...
A. 3 March 2010: You probably doing this out of curiosity and boredom, but i must assure you that the grass is not always greener on the other side.
So if you very sure you wana leave him, speak to him about your concerns and what you want, dont do anything behi... (read in full...)
Too close to his secretary for comfort...
Q. I am in the third year of my relationship with my fiance, we've been living together for 2 years and I am now 4 and half months pregnant with our second child. Things went very well with my fiance last year, he qualified, has since been promo...
A. 22 February 2010: Then speak to him, tell him you dont feel comfortable with his closeness with this woman.
He should understand how you feel.
If hes constantly talking about her, it means hes beginning to take interest in her and with time, this could spell di... (read in full...)
We got back together, but now my wife is acting the same way she did when we broke up
Q. Hello to everyone. I am thinking I will get the best answer from a woman, but will take advice from anyone. My situation is... About ten months ago my wife told me that she was completely unhappy and didn't want to be married anymore. I am ...
A. 8 December 2009: Am suspecting your wife is having a thing with this freind of hers.Have you ever suspected her of liking women?
In my opinion, i think something is going on behind your back.... (read in full...)
She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?
Q. i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex ...
A. 6 November 2009: Don't take her back homeboy, she was looking for a cheap excuse to screw the dude and that was a perfect opportunity for her.... (read in full...)
In love with a married woman and don't know what to do
Q. This is a bit of a long story. We first met in our teens. I had the hots for her in a major way... and she felt the same way for me. The problem, neither of us was brave enough to tell the other how we truly felt inside. We spent many of ou...
A. 26 September 2009: Go for it,although i feel sory for the guy that will get hurt,but the fact that you guys still feel like this after all these years,then you are meant to be.... (read in full...)
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