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No replies yet... 22 August 2009: We are all seeking love in this world in one form or another. What strikes me is that over the course of my life, the search for love has changed in rather strange ways for most people around me. When I was young, I was of the belief that life...
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Cheating wife and I don't think I can forgive her!
Q. just found out my wife has done something with another man,she said they havent had sex but only done it the once,we been together 20years,dont think i can forgive her,she says shes sorry and wants us to start again, she said it was because she was ...
A. 23 June 2009: It's not an easy situation, and I really do empathize with you. I've just gotten out of a relationship with a guy who cheated on me, and I was deeply in love with him. If I didn't care so much, it wouldn't hurt so badly. I really thought he loved ... (read in full...)
How can I ever love again?
Q. How can I ever love again? I gave my heart to him, all of it, without reservation or concern for my own well-being. I spent two years with him and shared my very soul. For a time, he gave me love in return. But, then, he became cold and distant and ...
A. 23 June 2009: Thank you both so much for your insights and helpful advice. This is probably the most difficult time I can ever recall, but I will keep trying to move ahead and let go of the past.
Maybe time is the only solution. I hope that it will heal me ... (read in full...)
Is she just using me to not be alone?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship for 11 months until my girlfriend decided to break up with me permanentely. I say permanentely because she has broken up with me before. She cheated on me, she lied to me, she hurt me like no one else has ever ...
A. 19 June 2009: I really understand where you're coming from on this one. I just got out of a long distance relationship with someone who cheated on me, lied to me and broke my heart. He still tells me he loves me in e-mails and text messages, but I just can't ... (read in full...)
Ladies, is "friends with benefits" ever NOT an attempt to lure an unattainable guy into an exclusive relationship?
Q. I've been in a FWB before. I am being offered another one now. Let's get real. Is this ever something girls do and they're NOT just settling for it? Wouldn't they ALWAYS really rather have an exclusive relationship with that guy if he was ...
A. 18 June 2009: Almost any woman who offers a friends-with-benefits deal is interested in more than that. Don't get me wrong. There are certainly women out there who can have sex with a guy on a regular basis and not get into an emotional thing with him. But, they ... (read in full...)
Clitoris pain, what could this be?
Q. So i have a question about the clitoris after oral sex... After the stimulation i know that the clitoris stays a bit swollen and sensitive to touch for a few mins to a few hours...But the problem is now that it has been 2 days since that and my c...
A. 15 June 2009: If your partner puts too much pressure on it, the clitoris can actually get 'sprained,' believe it or not. This happened to me quite a while ago with one partner who was a little too ardent in his attentions to me there. We had to lay off the sex ... (read in full...)
LDR girlfriend and now theres another girl in the picture
Q. Alright so um im just confused about something. I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now. It's been long distance relationship and I know most of you would give me reasons as to why they never work out but my story is a little ...
A. 15 June 2009: Relationships are not easy. Whether you are dating the girl next door or having a relationship with someone a thousand miles away, it's tough to keep things going. I tend to look at the big picture when it comes to life and love. If you are doing... (read in full...)
He says he just likes compliments from women, wasn't planning on doing anything!
Q. I was wondering if i was handling this all wrong. I went online the other day and pulled the history on the computer from one day last week I was looking for a paper for college. I thought i found it and low and behold it was his profile for this ...
A. 14 June 2009: It sounds like you've got a lot on your plate right now, and I completely understand that you would be exhausted. But, I don't think it's a justification for him putting ads on dating sites. That's a bit much, don't you think? I mean, maybe you're ... (read in full...)
What is so attractive about the bad boys?
Q. I'm perplexed at the number of women who tell me they want a man who is nice to them, but in reality, the men they are attracted to and form relationships with are "bad boys." Then they spend their time complaining about how the bad boy behaves and ...
A. 13 June 2009: Interesting question. I'm an ex-bad girl myself so I can only speak to the issue from that perspective, but here's my view for what it's worth. The reason other people are attracted to us 'bad' seeds is because we tend to say what we think. We're ... (read in full...)
How do I break the hold he seems to have on me?
Q. Hi, everyone! I need all of your insights and encouragement to walk away from a bad situation. And I really need to know what this guy wants from me. He's been pursuing me now off and on for over a year, and the dummy that I am keep allowing ...
A. 13 June 2009: I empathize with your situation and have been in a similar one before myself. It's never easy to accept the reality that a person is just using you for their own amusement when and if they feel like it, but there are plenty of people who do that all ... (read in full...)
He doesn't send loving texts in between visits, am I making too much of this?
Q. I have been in an LDR for almost a year and a half, we see each other every two weeks and when we are together its great. We travel to each others homes to split the travelling between us. when we are not together, we text each other a few time...
A. 11 June 2009: Having just gotten out of an LDR that went bad, I can only say that these kinds of relationships are incredibly difficult to keep going. There is only so much that you can do in terms of texting, e-mailing and calling. And, for some people, that ... (read in full...)
I find oral sex incredibly boring!
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years now..and recently he has been asking me to give him oral alot. I dont mind doing it, because i love him and want to satisfy him, but i find it incredibly boring (he says he enjoys it when i do it) but is there ...
A. 10 June 2009: The brain is the sexiest human organ and if that part of you is stimulated, then the rest will follow. If it isn't stimulated, well, then the rest of you isn't either. So, if you want more from the giving of oral, maybe you should try to enhance the ... (read in full...)
So am I bi or gay...?
Q. Hi I am a girl who needs help to figure things out for herself. I am not sure if I am gay or bi, can you give me your opinion on how it sounds? Sexually I am attracted more to women and I find the sex better with women. I find people of both ...
A. 10 June 2009: Tough question. I think it's hard to make a hard-and-fast decision about what your preferences are until you've really met and fallen in love with someone...of whatever gender. Sex is sex and love is love. Love someone first and you will know if you ... (read in full...)
Anyone out there who has dated a stripper and made it work?
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with a stripper? I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and weve gone on a few dates but we arent offically dating, and i wanted to make it official but she said she needed to tell me something, thats when she let me ...
A. 10 June 2009: I've had some friends who stripped for a living and they were interesting, fun and intelligent girls whom I really liked. The thing is that they all seemed to have some hang-ups about sex though. I mean, you would think they wouldn't since they are ... (read in full...)
He Cheated on me for months & lied about it: Do I end it?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and I cannot continue to be with him. Am I doing the right thing by ending it? We fell in love and lived together for several months, but he had to move for job reasons. Ever since that time, we have been lon...
A. 8 June 2009: Thank you so much for your answers. I KNOW I have to stay away from this guy now and I will. It's going to be hard not to answer his calls, but maybe he will grow up and realize what he lost. Too late for us now, but perhaps he will change for the ... (read in full...)
He Cheated on me for months & lied about it: Do I end it?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and I cannot continue to be with him. Am I doing the right thing by ending it? We fell in love and lived together for several months, but he had to move for job reasons. Ever since that time, we have been lon...
A. 7 June 2009: Thank you for your honest and forthright answer. I KNOW you are right, but I loved him SO much. It's really hard to move on. Still, I know I must try. ... (read in full...)
Should I believe he will not cheat again?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just less than two years, its a long distance one and we have had some difficult times, due to him cheating twice and persuing another woman which i found out about and never went further. I to...
A. 7 June 2009: I feel deeply for you because I am going through something similar right now. I do not have any faith left in my long-distance relationship because he cheated on me. He finally admitted it (though I knew it already for months). I really thought that ... (read in full...)
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