What is the problem with me dating two or three ladies at the same time?
Q. I would like to know from fellow Cupid reader As a man is there any problem when I get married to two or three wife, what about dating two or three ladies is there any problem. Please help, I need to understand this better ...
A. 22 August 2013: okay guys, thanks all for your input, i really appreciate the fact that you went on reading my story and you also put your views. Thanks for such useful information
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He's my first, I'm not his. I find myself wishing I'd done more before I met him
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. Prior to getting closer, he explained early on that he's had 2 sexual encounters. One was oral (received/given) and the other was actual sex. He doesn't count it as real sex because the girl got on top ...
A. 11 July 2013: Exprience doesn't count in relationship, forget about such, focus on him. You are the best as you are, you just have befferent exprience as far as relationships are consend by you are the more important that way. Why should you body be known by ... (read in full...)
My online guy is giving me the silent treatment
Q. Hi, Guy’s I hope you can help. I met a guy online. We have been talking for two months now. He asked me if we could become exclusive since we got along so well. I said yes. We haven’t met yet because he lives long distance. I have asked hi...
A. 11 July 2013: you are so lucky, this could even be worse if you guys have already met, this is the right time for you to forget about him, as he is giving you a silent threatment. Two months is very little and on line, I think this is the time in which he was ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a relationship after a one night stand?
Q. I'm wondering if it's possible to have a relationship after a one-night stand. Basically, I got with a guy over a month ago in a nightclub and we exchanged numbers then we were texting pretty much every other day and he wanted to meet up and ...
A. 4 July 2013: Hi
To me it doesn't seems like it is a one night stand, usually a one night stand it doesn't have a constand contact such as you guys has like you are saying.
One night stand we meet on the night, no contact, no string attached then yours is deffe... (read in full...)
I'm struggling to let go of my ex, she is my reason for living. I really need some advice pls?
Q. Would you allow your ex to move on to a new partner when you love them so much? They were everything and your entire reason for being here. 3 years I've tried everything to win her back. I've only ever loved her, I will only ever love her. The mo...
A. 4 July 2013: you know what man, she is not at all, not even by change, she is not your reason of living. You have meet her when you were an adult I believe though you hadn't specified. 18 and older I consider that adult. She was the part of your live, and the ... (read in full...)
I can't say no to sex and being labelled by my friends. Please help me, I keep getting hurt over and over!
Q. I have a lot of guy problems, so ill explain where it all came from. Im 17 years old. I lost my virginity at 14. To a 19 year old, it was forced and I was Hammered. I had never even made out with a guy before him. Then i waited nearly a year be...
A. 1 July 2013: Hi, I am sorry for the bad exprience.
You need a theraphy as soon as possible. You has to forget about your friend. I do understands that your friends as a part on this whole things, they might be telling guys about you problem, sometime we has to b... (read in full...)
I want to make it clear that there will be no sex on the first date
Q. Basically, I am in a bit of a situation with this guy. I met him in a student bar and we hit it off. We had a bit to drink and ended up making out throughout the night. After this, we ended up exchanging numbers. He text me last week asking to meet ...
A. 29 June 2013:
Make your point clear to him, tell him how you want it to be done. Being with him on bed at a first date it give a bad impression, he might not have any problem on the day as is what will make him happy. At a long run he might run away from you ... (read in full...)
I think I am interested in women, how do I tell my boyfriend I want a break?
Q. I think I like women. I masturbate to them. I find them attractive. I feel like I understand them better. How do I tell my boyfriend that in the nicest way possible?...
A. 29 June 2013: hi
there is no break in relationship, and you don't have to secrefices and stay in a relationship in which you are no longer interested on. If you are interested on women move on you do what will makes you feel good. How you tell him it doesn't real... (read in full...)
I can talk to her and try to establish a friendship, which I imagine would make me happier, OR continue living my life imagining different ways this could turn out. Which?
Q. It's been a year and three months since my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, ending a two year relationship. It was a complete shock to me at the time(unexpected), especially since she started seeing another guy within the same week. When she ended...
A. 27 June 2013: It is not possible to forget a person who have been in your life at some stage. So what I am saying is there is nothing wrong when she crosses you mind sometimes. You should understand that we people we are unique, so where ever you go, please do ... (read in full...)
Uncomfortable about what happened, should I bring it up or pretend it never happened?
Q. Hello cupids. Last night a family friend asked me to spend the night at his house, his mom whom Im very close with wanted me to stay as well because it would be fun.. I am twenty two and thought it would be a little weird since he is sixteen. He a...
A. 27 June 2013: what you don't like, you don't like. It is not like something that you are not sure as where you like it or not. Good, if ever it is as you are saying why not bring it up. The way I understand it, for now talk to him and him alone. You two you can ... (read in full...)
Being the peacemaker in this disfunctional family has stressed me -- I want out
Q. Ok so my parents have been married for 17 years now and let's just say it hasn't been good times at all and i had to grow up FAST. My parents started their family very young and got married because of it (as many people do today). My fathe...
A. 26 June 2013: hi
that is bad and not healthy for the person as young as you, but I am afraid here young lady as there is less you can do. You cannot decide for your mother.
What can help you, you better get a mediators one from your mother's family and onre fro... (read in full...)
Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?
Q. I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday ...
A. 26 June 2013: thanks guys, you ideas will able me to take a good decision. This boys birthday is very closed also. It is on the 30 june
thanks guy
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Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!
Q. I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...
A. 25 June 2013: your story is very touching. You can not change the situation, even getting a job somewhere else won't change the fact that your heart is stucked on him, and you has been with him.
LET IT GO. I do know is very easy to say it than doing it, but try ... (read in full...)
Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?
Q. I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday ...
A. 25 June 2013: IamHereToHelpYou I do understand deleting all this you boys pictures but I am not having any differences with him only his mom. Why should I do that all. The truth is I admire this boy.
So Very Confised don't you think being in contact with this... (read in full...)
We've only met once, in a LDR..do all men lose interest?
Q. We've been dating for over a year now and met only once (different countries). I love the everyday talking (chatting on facebook) which usually lasts 30 mins-an hour but sometimes when we aren't busy I want to talk more but he says it's too much. ...
A. 25 June 2013: I think you better stop calling that relationship, It is a kind of a one night stand. Chatting for 30 minutes is very far from being enough a day. You are not even talking of calling each other here. You know it is even better if you were talking of ... (read in full...)
Was she a virgin or not?
Q. Maybe my question is stupid, bare with me. recently my gf and I were playing a game, something like truth or dare, I asked her with how many guys she has have sex with, she hesitated for a bit and she answered "only with you". when we had sex for ...
A. 25 June 2013: I don't really get what your problem is here man, does it really matter if she was a virgin or not, or are you having a problem of her telling lies. Being honest to your self, how many time you lied to her. Look man focus on the relationship and ... (read in full...)
She broke my heart and she's expecting me to wish her a birthday message
Q. Hi, My ex- girlfriend that broke up our four year relationship would be celebrating her birthday in some days time. The fact is 4 months ago she broke up with me and recently she's been finding different means and tactics to get us talking,...
A. 25 June 2013: hi guza2k3, brother you deserves the best, she is the one dumped you just forget about her and move on with your life, do not send her any birthday wish, not at all. Block here on social media and delete all kinds of contact you has with her. ... (read in full...)
Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?
Q. I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday ...
A. 25 June 2013: Tom Obler and So Very Confused thanks a lot guys, I really appreciate your input. I only do this just for 1 reason '' to please the boy''.
IamHereToHelpYou thanks to you as well. You are rite it might confuses this little boy, i will try to step... (read in full...)
Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?
Q. I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday ...
A. 24 June 2013: Thanks auntyEM, is not like I want her back, I only think of buying him a present as I was too used to him. This boy he also ask his mother to call me he talks to me. AuntyEM I also noted that as soon as she moves on she might cut the bridge o... (read in full...)
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