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What is the problem with me dating two or three ladies at the same time?

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Question - (29 July 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2013)
A male South Africa age 41-50, *kateko writes:

I would like to know from fellow Cupid reader

As a man is there any problem when I get married to two or three wife, what about dating two or three ladies is there any problem.

Please help, I need to understand this better

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A male reader, mkateko South Africa +, writes (22 August 2013):

mkateko is verified as being by the original poster of the question

mkateko agony auntokay guys, thanks all for your input, i really appreciate the fact that you went on reading my story and you also put your views. Thanks for such useful information

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (21 August 2013):

DV1 agony auntIt's perfectly acceptable. Dating doesn't mean exclusivity...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2013):

It is a problem only of the women each think they are the only one. That means you are lying and breaking their trust. But if they all know you're dating or married to other women and are fine with it then it is ok.

Let me ask you this. Would you be happy of you are dating a woman and she has 2 other boyfriends besides you? Or if your wife has 2 other husbands?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2013):

As long as all of your wives as well as girlfriends know of your doings then there is no problem. If, however, you feel that you should conceal the truth from any one of them then you are breaking moral conduct as well as risking their health.

P.s. Enlighten yourself on your country's or place of marriage laws. In some places polygamy is frowned upon as well as punished. Double points if you are the kind of person that treat their spouses as property.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2013):

I think you should seek professional help. Its hard to deal with mental problems. We are not professional psychiatrist.

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