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Watching him masturbate was hot, but now I'm obsessing and feeling useless at sex.

Q.   I would like to start out this question by saying I think masturbation is healthy and I never used to have problems with it. Now the question. I never even bothered to think about whether my boyfriend masturbated, because I really didn't care if he ...

A.   15 August 2009: Don't stress! Sex and masturbation are two similar but different expriences. He's not going to stop having sex with you to be by himself and I'm almost positive he rather have sex with you 10 times a day rather than play with himself, but that's ... (read in full...)

Is hair on boobs common? Does it turn guys off?

Q.   Ok this part of the question is for girls - ok well do u guys have hair on ur boobs? And if u do, do u guys shave it and is there just a little bit of hair or a lot? Is it normal to have hair there? Ok boy ur turn! - okay well on girls the hair o...

A.   15 August 2009: Yes it is. I have very little, almost like peach fuzz, and I shave it when I go to gymnastics and the beach even though you can hardly tell. My boyfriend never noticed so I don't pay attention to it. I've had strechmarks since I was in the 5th grade ... (read in full...)

I want bigger boobs so I look sexy in front of my husband!

Q.   Dear all, Im 24 and married since a year, I want to increase my boobs size without cosmetic stuffs. I need 32 size bra. I dont know the cup size. Please suggest some medicines or something that make my boobs bigger and attractive... I want to look ...

A.   15 August 2009: The only natural way to grow your breast is getting pregnant, i went from a 34B to a 36D. I'm now a 34C as they do shrink after you wean the baby. ... (read in full...)

How can I end this abusive relationship safely? And is there any way I can restore the self-esteem he has damaged?

Q.   Hey everybody. I don't know what to do. I have recognized that I'm in an abusive relationship. It's a mixture of extreme control/jealousy, verbal abuse, slight physical ("play hitting", has hit me 1 time, threatens to punch/hit me if I dont do somet...

A.   26 July 2009: An abusive person will not change their pattern unless they seek help for themselves. You do need to get out of this relationship and my advice would be to first get a restraining order (even if you know he won't obey it) and if you can go stay at a ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's gambling problem...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and till now things have been pretty good, we've had our ups and downs like any other couple but we have been good together. The only thing that we tend to argue about if that he likes to gamble. ...

A.   26 July 2009: Hello giordana, I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend's problem. I had a similar problem with my boyfriend who had an addiction and of course everyone told me to ditch him. Gambling is an addiction, just like drugs and should be treated as such. If ... (read in full...)

What does this girl really want? Should I back off?

Q.   I've been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for about 4 months now. We were in love, but she couldn't deal with gossip and drama so she broke it off. Now, we're working at the same sleepaway camp so we see each other every day all the time. For awhlie ...

A.   26 July 2009: Based on your age I would back off and give her space. If she really wants to get back with you and make it work than by backing off you'll be giving her the power to do so instead of pushing her or making her feel obligated to be with you. Just be ... (read in full...)

He said yes to me then got back with his ex!

Q.   I had a crush on this guy in my school and i told my friend about it and at lunch she asked the guy out and he said yes. But not for two weeks cause he just got out of a relationship with his ex and needed some time to get over her. Now, halfway ...

A.   2 November 2006: Hello anonymous, Well it looks like he's still attached to his ex and that means he probably will be attached to her for a while. Meaning he won't have those kind of feelings for anyone else but her. When this happened to me I tried to get b... (read in full...)

He lives far away but I still like him - should I make a move on him??

Q.   i like a guy, he says he likes me he lives hours away but im infatuated... hes 18 and im 15.. and hes old fashiond about age, omg....help.. do i make a move on him? i mean ive been with guys older then thata.. 24 like.... i really like him...

A.   2 November 2006: Opps I made a little error, I meant...If you really like him I think* you should mention it to him. My bad :)... (read in full...)

He lives far away but I still like him - should I make a move on him??

Q.   i like a guy, he says he likes me he lives hours away but im infatuated... hes 18 and im 15.. and hes old fashiond about age, omg....help.. do i make a move on him? i mean ive been with guys older then thata.. 24 like.... i really like him...

A.   1 November 2006: Hello Anonymous, Well in my exprience dating someone his age and who lives as far away as he does makes life a little bit difficult. If you really like him I like you should mention it to him, but be aware that having a long distance relation... (read in full...)

I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?

Q.   Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...

A.   1 November 2006: Hey again it's me the orginial poster. I just wanted to say to bonym that I don't only like white guys. Where I'm from mainly people stick with there color and if your a black female and you like white guys you get teased and harrassed about it. So ... (read in full...)

I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?

Q.   Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...

A.   31 October 2006: Hye guys, thanks for your input. I haven't told him I liked him yet because lately we haven't been talking. We're still good friends, it's just that he works early and as soon as he gets off I start work and by the time I get home he's asleep. And ... (read in full...)

This guy and I have had past issues... so should I allow him in my life as more than a friend?

Q.   Ok so my best friend gave this guy my phone number and I've been talking to this guy on the phone since mid-April. I'm 17 and he's 19. He asked me out a month later after meeting me for the first time (I live a hour away from him). I said yes, but ...

A.   14 September 2006: Hey guys, this is the original poster of this post. I just wanted to thank you for replying to my question. Both of you made a lot of sense and I've decided to keep my distance from this guy. I realize (like Herr Professor said) that I feel sorry ... (read in full...)

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