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My boyfriend admits that he thinks about sex with other girls, am I not enough for him?

Q.   im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m We've been together for nearly a year, and we love each other alot. i honestly think hes my soulmate and we can both picture our future together perfectly... except now im not so sure anymore. im a very very in...

A.   13 January 2012: I'll say one thing and one thing only. The fact that he's friends with a former partner, and still thinks about their past experiences together, that would be a red-flag for me.m... (read in full...)

MY LDR of 9 months has just cut contact and won't answer my calls... Help me please??

Q.   My LDR boyfriend of 9 months has just suddenly stopped taking my calls and answering my texts. I know hes ok and still alive because there is recent activity on his facebook page. We last spoke on the phone last week and everything was fine. Now he ...

A.   18 December 2011: Take this from someone who experienced the same thing in their year long LDR. It's over. He probably feels or has come to terms that the relationship isn't working out due to the distance between ya'll. My boyfriend, whom has changed quite a bit ... (read in full...)

To threesome or not to threesome...mature answers only please!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Recently, we've hit a few rough patches and I'm trying to spice up and revive our relationship. One of his fantasies is to have a threesome with a woman that neither one of us ...

A.   30 June 2011: If you are questioning whether or not you'll be comfortable watching another woman sleep with your man, then it's obvious that you're not ready to have a threesome. Personally, if I were you, I wouldn't resort to adding an extra into the bedroom. ... (read in full...)

What can I do about this unbearable pain in my vagina during sex?

Q.   Whenever my fiance and I are having sex I have unbearable pain inside my vagina. It's feels like cuts inside and also hot. What can I do to stop this pain because it's really interfering wit my sex life. Please help. ...

A.   25 June 2011: If you two are having vigorous sex, and you aren't getting much lubrication, that can cause tears on the vaginal walls. Also, sometimes burning and irritation can be caused from a yeast infection, too, or a UTI. I would suggest seeing a ... (read in full...)

Found photos of my bf having sex with another woman while we were dating, but he says they are not photos of him. Not sure what to believe!

Q.   Hey I really need advice just now. I was going out with my boyfriend for over a year but we broke up last night. It's because last night I was on the computer typing up something for work and I ended up coming across some photos of him and another ...

A.   18 June 2011: Honey, do not believe that crap. A man will say and do anything to keep his behind off the line. I am sure by now you would know what he looks like in the nude. He knows he had gotten caught red-handed, and is now trying to make you believe ... (read in full...)

Opinions on young teens fooling around.

Q.   Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...

A.   29 May 2011: What bothers me the most, is the fact that a parent, especially a mother, would consent to a fourteen-year-old having any type of sexual relations. Maybe she'll be okay with raising her kid's baby, too.... (read in full...)

What does it say about a relationship when a guy says this?

Q.   I was talking to my ex the other day n we were gonna make plans to go hiking just the two of us, n he said he'd have to check w/his new gf to make sure she was cool w/it. n I said ok np, do u think she'd be ok w/it or that its weird since im your ...

A.   22 May 2011: It's not a matter of her trying to control you. It may be the simple fact that if she feels there might still be something going on between the two of you, or doesn't feel comfortable with the idea of you two being alone, on a trip, I can see why he ... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant if semen does not go inside the vagina??

Q.   If cum gets on the outside lips or around my vagina can it go up into my vagina without being touched? Or does it have to be physically inserted for it to get in and pregnancy to happen?...

A.   14 April 2011: Doesn't matter if he didn't ejaculate in you. If his semen leaked into your vagina, then yes, you can get pregnant. It only takes one little sperm to do the deed. If you're concerned about pregnancy, then I would highly suggest using a form of ... (read in full...)

If I tell her I cheated she may not accept my proposal!!!

Q.   Please 1. what processes do i need to go through during love making (sex) to make my girl smiling during and after sex. 2. I've faulted my girl by having sex with another girl because she refuse my advances. So do i tell her that i did cheat on ...

A.   29 December 2010: I think the love and respect left when he slept with another woman.... (read in full...)

I have a new guy, BUT keep thinking of my ex, even though my ex bullied me.

Q.   I am extremely confused with my relationships at the moment. My boyfriend of two years split up with me two months ago and then a month ago, after becoming close with another boy we got together. My problem is I keep thinking of my ex and I'...

A.   25 December 2010: Because you haven't really given any time to get over your ex-boyfriend. Two months is really soon to jump into a new relationship, when realistically, you still aren't over your last boyfriend. I'm not really sure how you love your new guy aft... (read in full...)

I was teasing and he took it seriously and now I don't know what is going on!

Q.   Okay so to start off, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months anyway today we we're hanging out and I was giving him a blowjob and I stopped and kidding around said ya know you're so mean, I always do this for you blah blah blah, BUT I was totally ...

A.   22 November 2010: You're really THAT upset about him not making up his mind whether or not he wants you to blow him anymore? There are far more important things to worry about than that, sweetie.... (read in full...)

Is he just insecure?

Q.   Hey, Im really confused about what i should do about my boyfriend. I love him so much, and i've waited two years for him, so it hurts to think of letting him go, but he sometimes says stuff that makes me think i can do better... he lives wh...

A.   2 November 2010: I am more concerned about why you would set-up a 16-year-old, with a 29-year-old man. The fact that his brother even went for that screams volumes of pedophilia.... (read in full...)

Pushed out of my job because of a bully!!!

Q.   I am a professional and I have had two jobs in my profession that have spanned over the last 10 years. for some reason I just seems to attract bullies. I have done much research on bullying in the work place and I understand why people bully - i...

A.   2 November 2010: It must have been hard to walk away from your job. Nothing of that sort has happened to me, but a friend of mine/former co-worker, quit, because a fellow employee continuously harassed her on the job, outside of work, and over the internet. The ... (read in full...)

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

Q.   I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can ...

A.   1 November 2010: I agree with the anonymous commenter. Women have a tendency to put too much emphasis on everything, especially love. Nine times out of a ten, even when a guy tells, or does special things to show us that he cares and loves us to pieces, we still ... (read in full...)

How do we talk about sex openly without the shyness?

Q.   Hey friends.. I know this is weird..but can anyone help me to fix this problem? I saw my bf looking at my breasts. We were sitting close to each other and i was telling him about something looking somewhere else. As i turned my head towards ...

A.   31 October 2010: I reacted the same way that you and your boyfriend do to my boyfriend when we first began to be sexually active. I didn't realize how badly it affected the physicality of our relationship, until him and I finally began talking openly about what each ... (read in full...)

Sometimes it's clear for me to see how much he loves me but other times I feel like he doesn't care at all.

Q.   I don't really know what to say about this situation so I'm just gonna vent and ask for advice. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I've had my share of boyfriend and he's only the second one I've ever loved. He loves me too and I can ...

A.   31 October 2010: I'm not really sure what you're wanting to gather from us here. What exactly does he do, to make you feel as if he does not love you anymore? Guys aren't always the best at showcasing love, but that does not mean he doesn't care about you.... (read in full...)

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