To me he's the perfect guy. How can I encourage him spend time with me?
Q. Hi, Aunts, I'm a freakishly shy, eccentric tomboy, often mistaken as being lesbian because I don't flirt with guys. What they don't know is that I don't flirt with random people because I have been eternally dedicated to a boy for 6 years- a boy w...
A. 6 November 2015: Seems like you've got to come out of your comfort zone. Do spontaneous things to get spontaneous results. You can't be hiding forever especially if you want him to know how you feel about him :)... (read in full...)
To me he's the perfect guy. How can I encourage him spend time with me?
Q. Hi, Aunts, I'm a freakishly shy, eccentric tomboy, often mistaken as being lesbian because I don't flirt with guys. What they don't know is that I don't flirt with random people because I have been eternally dedicated to a boy for 6 years- a boy w...
A. 5 November 2015: You said his birthday is coming up, plan something for him if you like. Tell him you're planning something and to ensure that that day is free! Maybe a nice dinner, or a bar, or just a place with a nice scenery. During the time you're with him, ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried? This new relationship is drama-free, but I'm afraid I'll get bored!
Q. I am in a new relationship after having been single for nearly 5 years. My past relationships were very passionate but unstable and co-dependent. I was a needy teenager with a lot of problems, and I was treated badly by a guy I then refused to give ...
A. 5 November 2015: You seem like you don't know how to act cause it's new to you. You're worried about messing up cause it seems too good to be true. In fact, it seems as if you are in the honeymoon period, and I think you should really appreciate it and don't ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to react to her offer, to not date my friend, if I will say I still love her?
Q. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up a month ago. Things didn't end great, she still wanted to stay in contact with me but after she showed up to my father's dinner drunk, I didn't want no part of her anymore. Apart from the 2 times I have seen her ...
A. 5 November 2015: Seems like she said yes to your friend to get a reaction out of you. She seems like she still has feelings, question is whether you want to tell her yours, if you do it might lead to you two trying to make it work.
I think you need to sit with... (read in full...)
Arguments always seem to be my fault. How do I show him that I want this relationship to work?
Q. My boyfriend and I always seem to be arguing over stupid things, and it always seems to be my fault. We have been together for over a year and I hate to see him feeling like he's being treated like crap, knowing that it is mostly my fault. Grante...
A. 5 November 2015: Do you have any insecurities or any problems you feel within yourself to why you are the way you are with him? Sounds like the relationship is suffocating. Space might be good, you can sort out your feelings and reflect on your behaviour to better ... (read in full...)
Do I confront him, even though I've been snooping?
Q. I snooped when using my boyfriends ipad and saw that he had been messaging a girl who has already caused a massive issue in our relationship, what should i do? So been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years almost no issues. In the beginning i was ...
A. 5 November 2015: See if he says anything, if he doesn't confront it. If anything, she could've been confiding in him about something, cause it seems as if they have that relationship since he went to see her cause of her sister being unwell. If he doesn't say ... (read in full...)
I think my husband is cheating with a co-worker and I no longer believe anything he says
Q. Last December I was in the car with my husband and the girl from his works office rang. They were talking for a bit then I heard what sounded like, dont forget to get me something nice for Christmas. My husband said she didn't say that and said, ...
A. 5 November 2015: It seems like he is trying to make you seem like the forgetful one and make you feel crazy for having them assumptions that he's cheating. I would say, follow your gut, follow your instinct. They won't prove you wrong, if you feel as if there's ... (read in full...)
I want to apologise to my ex and make peace
Q. I am struggling after a break up. We only dated for a few months but he was still arguing with his ex about their children that I felt pushed out and like the third wheel. It was an intense and passionate time but I used to get angry that his past ...
A. 5 November 2015: It seems like you're looking for closure. Closure is important as it gives you peace within your mind and peace within yourself. It seems like he's still not over the situation which is why he's ignoring you, give it a bit of time, as it is always ... (read in full...)
Is she being unfair? Do I need to end the relationship?
Q. I'm having a bit of an issue with my girlfriend of a year and a half. We met and dated for a year long distance before she asked me to move in with her. Actually, she said we'd break up if I didn't, so I gave in and did it. I moved to a state where ...
A. 5 November 2015: Talk to her about it, tell her how you feel. Having a controlling relationship can end really bad. Sit her down and explain how you feel and why you feel like that. Get her to understand that it is making you unhappy and in order for the ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to break up because I'm too clingy
Q. Yesterday my boyfriend said he wanted a break because I'm depressed and to clingy and he can't handle it we have been together for 6 months we are always happy together her said he wants to hang with his friends more . We hang out after school ...
A. 5 November 2015: Sometimes a break can be healthy. It doesn't necessarily mean you're breaking up, but just having a bit of space. Within that time you guys are having space, you can sort out the reasons to why you're depressed and give yourself a chance to hang out ... (read in full...)
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