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He asked me out but he really wants a FWB relationship. I don't!

Q.   So the guy i liked, happens to like me back. So after like two weeks of flirting and talking. We kissed. Later on that day i asked him, where we were heading? So he asked me out...and i asked him if thats what he wanted? He didn't really answer me. ...

A.   25 August 2011: To the left to the left! If this isnt what you want tell him No and walk away simple as.... (read in full...)

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

Q.   Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for...

A.   25 August 2011: Thank you very much. Im sorry you lost your mom thats so much worse. But you did not let it get you and consume your life. And that is good and its nice to know this will not last forever. Best wishes Milo... (read in full...)

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

Q.   Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for...

A.   24 August 2011: Thank you all so much, its been hard to accept that she is gone. From time to time, because of my illness i see visions of her as if she is there, in cars in my house the street. My very kind Doctor is helping me with this. It makes it difficul... (read in full...)

He still hasn't kissed me! Should I carry on waiting or make the first move myself?

Q.   okay so my bf and i have been dating for 2 months and we still havent kissed!! isnt that weird? anyway hes told me he wanted to many times but he knows im waiting for him to kiss me first and make the first move.. im just wondering if i should ...

A.   2 July 2011: If he is scared then when you are alone next sit down with him in a comftable place and hold his hands tell him you love him and kiss him for about two seconds. I bet he will kiss back. He probably finds you very attractive and is just to scared. ... (read in full...)

He still hasn't kissed me! Should I carry on waiting or make the first move myself?

Q.   okay so my bf and i have been dating for 2 months and we still havent kissed!! isnt that weird? anyway hes told me he wanted to many times but he knows im waiting for him to kiss me first and make the first move.. im just wondering if i should ...

A.   1 July 2011: Lol chigirl is very right my gf has done that to me I'm very shy too took me 4 months to kiss her in the end she grabed me and kissed my face of. Don't worry he is shy be yourself and make sure your alone Good luck :)... (read in full...)

Where should we go after the cinema? I'm on a budget!

Q.   hey everyone im taking the girl that i like who also likes me out tomorrow to the cinema but i wanted to know where should i take her to get something to eat? i don't have a lot of money £50 max would she mind going to mcdonalds or something lik...

A.   3 June 2011: Pizza express is a good place to go or nandos and there is no need to get a big popcorn just get some icecream ... (read in full...)

He got an erection from just cuddling?

Q.   me and my boyfriend were snuggling on the sofa together, and he got an erection.. Whats with that?, We were just watching a film, not even kissing.. I don't understand why it happened.. ...

A.   8 March 2011: Im guessing that he is as young as you and that's totally normal. In a way, take it as a compliment. He finds you attractive. Boys can't control themselves especially at that age.... (read in full...)

This is going to ruin my relationship... How do I get past it?

Q.   This is going to ruin my realtionship Dear cupid let me start things on a happy note for once i have a girlfreind that i love dearly and would do anyhting for she is my world my moon and my stars. ive only ever had one relationship other to he...

A.   8 March 2011: This is going from bad to worse today i got a phone call from "Annes" little sister who was my close freind bt i realy dont talk much to her anymore as it brings me closer to Anne. We had a long conversation about her what you said about her being ... (read in full...)

This is going to ruin my relationship... How do I get past it?

Q.   This is going to ruin my realtionship Dear cupid let me start things on a happy note for once i have a girlfreind that i love dearly and would do anyhting for she is my world my moon and my stars. ive only ever had one relationship other to he...

A.   8 March 2011: Thanks a lot. I never have expressed any desire to be with anne again instead of my gf and in my head i have no one. I told her about this only a few hours before i posted it. Why did my gf cry when i told her what happened?... (read in full...)

I lied to him saying I was pregnant to see his reaction...

Q.   I lied to my this boy I'm seeing that I'm pregnant with his baby after I took a test saying it was negative. When I told him he was upset and first thing he said was I'm booking the abortion. I've told him its already booked. I told him I was preg...

A.   7 March 2011: Your in a realtonship with this boy why not just ask him how would ypu feel if i got pregnant you should be able to do that if your able to have sex with him im your age and im telling you if my gf told me that and i found out it was a lie i would ... (read in full...)

I lied to him saying I was pregnant to see his reaction...

Q.   I lied to my this boy I'm seeing that I'm pregnant with his baby after I took a test saying it was negative. When I told him he was upset and first thing he said was I'm booking the abortion. I've told him its already booked. I told him I was preg...

A.   7 March 2011: Your in a realtonship with this boy why not just ask him how would ypu feel if i got pregnant you should be able to do that if your able to have sex with him im your age and im telling you if my gf told me that and i found out it was a lie i would ... (read in full...)

What to expect from an adult who was ADD a child?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. He's messy, disorganized, a bit hyper, and really bad at time management. He can be impulsive sometimes too. I always just figured that that was due to his age, and he would grow out of it, ...

A.   6 March 2011: i have ADD( attention deficit disorder) and turns out i am extremely allergic to the main ingredient in the medicine for it And (although a bit younger) i can say that he wont act like a child all the time and run around the house or throw tant... (read in full...)

I'm leaning towards having casual sex but am unsure if its the right way to go

Q.   Hi aunts and uncles, i'm 17 and i'm thinking about 'casual sex' i'm a virgin, but when i like a guy i get too attatched and im sick of it, it affects my college work, my moods my other friendships. I don't like the way they have power over your ...

A.   6 March 2011: Do not do this! i'm the same age as you so i can see where your coming from but this is a really bad idea do not have casual sex with people especially as your a virgin your first time should be meaningfull and special don't just do it for the sake... (read in full...)

I think I love her too much!

Q.   I think i love her too much There is this girl that i fell in love with last year and have been going out with for about 6 weeks now and things are going good and im happy but im concerned about how much i love her. I dont know if its just me bein...

A.   3 March 2011: Thanks for your help im nerdy too the yoda quote is awsome :) realy works for this situation. Thanks hope you and your love ge to spend more time together. May the force be with you... (read in full...)

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