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Dumped by fiancée, should I get the ring back?

Q.   After proposing to a woman I have lived with for two years i moved to another city. She joined me a few months later, but then ended the relationship because I cheated on her. (note: she did as well prior to that) She wont give me the 10K diamond. ...

A.   4 May 2009: I GOT THE RING BACK! thanks for everyeone who voted in my favor. for those on the fence, yes she did cheat on me as well with a Dallas Cowboy football player. Lesson learned - FOLLOW THY HEART & INSTINCT... (read in full...)

Dumped by fiancée, should I get the ring back?

Q.   After proposing to a woman I have lived with for two years i moved to another city. She joined me a few months later, but then ended the relationship because I cheated on her. (note: she did as well prior to that) She wont give me the 10K diamond. ...

A.   3 May 2009: I want it back because I am unable to sleep wondering if she would come back to me or not. Just found out she is dating someone else and he probably helped her out of this "bind" so time to cut all losses... (read in full...)

Am I being harsh to dump a liar like this?

Q.   My girlfriend of two years finally admitted that she lied about another man who was pursuing her. I had heard rumors that it was happening and when I asked who this person was, she replied that she had never heard of him for months. Finally when I ...

A.   15 August 2008: UPDATE: The man in question had a girlfriend who was pregnant. He became interested in my girl because she "helped" him through the abortion. ALl of this happened without my knowledge until someone tipped me off they were spending a lot of time ... (read in full...)

Is she Marriage Minded But Options Open?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are discussing marriage and I am planning to pop the question, however, as we just took new jobs that keep us apart Monday-Friday. Question 1: Is this too much time apart for a couple? Question 2: She recently told ...

A.   20 February 2008: Also, they are arranging to go out for dinner alone while I am out of town. ... (read in full...)

Dazed and Confused! Please help!

Q.   I left the father of my son and partner of 6yrs for my childhood sweetheart who after 3 months broke my heart for the second time. I then went on to find myself a new man, which I might add is totally in love with me and I love him to bits, minus ...

A.   3 September 2007: you obviously want to live in a world of pain, and that is what you are doing to yourself. ask you (or your therapist) why you are doing this before your child repeats your mistakes in their own life... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?

Q.   I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?...

A.   3 August 2007: She kept it... (read in full...)

I thought everything was going great until he left his mobile in the bathroom and I had a quick look at his messages.

Q.   Have been seeing a guy for about 6 weeks and really like him. I thought everything was going great until he left his mobile in the bathroom and I had a quick look at his messages. I know this was wrong but I really didn't think I'd find anything. I ...

A.   15 July 2007: Reading someones telephone text, email, voice messages, etc is a boundary violation. In your case, you suspected something and confirmed it. I have done the same thing, verified my suspicions and moved on. I suggest you do the same. Next time, ... (read in full...)

Did she have revenge sex?

Q.   Revenge Sex? My girlfriend and i were out with another couple. I knew the other girl for years, and we were all drinking. The other girl kissed me, open mouth style and I let her. My girlfriend saw this and was devistated. Two weeks late...

A.   15 July 2007: I wonder why she told me before I noticed them "I have bruises" Answer: It WAS intentional, regardless of how the marks were formed!... (read in full...)

My friend got naked at a party to show my husband what a great body she has

Q.   I used to think my husband and i were quite strong and that he loved me but now i am not so sure we had a party and my friend came, she has lost a lot of weight and looks real good now i on the other hand am over weight i am trying to lose it ...

A.   13 July 2007: your man is already cheating on you. LEAVE... (read in full...)

We broke up and she says she needs space and that I shouldn't contact her... It all happened so quickly!

Q.   Hey, I know this is a typical question but her goes. I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago, it was the day before she was to fly home for the summer holidays - we have just graduated from uni. The night before she was due to fly she told me she need...

A.   10 July 2007: Yes, there is someone else who she feels is 'better' It is hard to face that she might feel that but haven't you somewhere in the past?... (read in full...)

My gf checks out her ex's web profile pics and ebay account! She says she's just "letting go" - should I believe her?

Q.   I have dated a woman, age 28 for the past 10 months. We moved in together in March. Before this, she had another boyfriend in another city whom she kept in touch with until we 'fell in-love" I was told that there was no communication after...

A.   10 July 2007: She signed a lease at another apartment today and will be moving out in August. She Explained that is was the only way we could "regroup" Anyone buy that?... (read in full...)

Anyone else get bruises between their legs and not know how they got there? Seems a bit fishy to me...

Q.   I was with my gf of 6 mos Sat. night. I was going down on her and noticed a bruise about the size of a quarter about 5 inches from her vagina. I asked her about it, and she just said "OH, I bruise easy". I've never seen a bruise before on her in my ...

A.   9 July 2007: I had the same experience, however my girlfriends bruises looked more like a thumb and forefinger bruise. She also had a scratch on her breast. This was after we had a huge falling out. My math says she did it with someone or with herself! You ... (read in full...)

Please take the time to read this, I know it is long but it's important to my relationship.

Q.   Please take the time to read this, I know it is long but it's important to my relationship Ok well where do I start... I'm sorry if bits and pieces of this don't make sense, but bear with me, I am writing this as she is leaving the house becaus...

A.   9 July 2007: She is blaming you for her cheating. Nobody goes to this much trouble to 'test' anyone unless they are very mean. Dump her either way... (read in full...)

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