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16 February 2012: Hello! A bit of background: I'm 20! Being quite traditional with my views on most issues, it's not really a shock that I'm sceptical about the online arena when it comes to meeting people. I have always thought that it's not a very pure way of...
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I can't make her cum with fingers or oral, and I've got no rubber for sex...how do I find her G-spot?
Q. i can't seem to make my gf cum by my fingers... she doesn't let me touch her clitoris cuz she says it is too sensitive..we can't do oral either cuz she isnt comfortable yet and we have no rubber for sex.. any tips other then the g-spot because i can'...
A. 25 April 2011: I'm with N91, stop trying to be mature and do what you should be at that age. Your kids, don't pretend otherwise. ... (read in full...)
Have I gone and ruined everything? A FWB question.
Q. Long story short I have a friends with benefits (almost a month now). We haven't had sex yet, because I'm a virgin We used to text every day, now we text every few days (he always texts me, but lately I have been texting him, and now I regre...
A. 23 April 2011: First thing I picked up on: your 13 - 15 and he's driving?? That's quite a gap at that age. To me this sounds like your being pretty imature, but also trying to act older than you are (something that everyone your sort of age seems obsessed with ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend, and he is contemplating revenge cheating. How can we get past this?
Q. My boyfriend is trying to get pass the fact that I cheated on him and lied about it. The situation is that I kissed a coworker about 6 times and we ended up touching on each other. I lied about how the kiss happened and how many times we kissed. ...
A. 5 March 2011: To be honest your lucky he is actually with you at the moment, you should have been dumped the moment you cheated. If he doesn't want the same things as you, why are you even with him?! It's not an excuse for cheating so don't try it. Your ... (read in full...)
Do guys really like to chase girls?
Q. Is it true that guys like to chase girls than have a girl continuiously say she loves him or chats to them?...
A. 5 March 2011: I can't speak for everyone, but I would personally prefer a girl that is completely open about her feelings - saying she loves me etc. Too much can go wrong when your having to chase.... (read in full...)
He's so handsome and so inexperienced? What does he want?
Q. one thing that is troubling is that the guy I've been seeing for almost 4 months now is he's never had a girlfriend let alone had sex either and he's almost 23. I was VERY surprised because he's very, very attractive, very affectionate, smart, kind, ...
A. 4 March 2011: Heyy Try to remember that he is inexperienced in relationships, and as trancedrhythmear said, he's more than likely lacking in confidence. I'm quite shy, and I guess it's the same with all shy guys, we operate massively off of confidence, and ... (read in full...)
13 year old boyfriend wears briefs. Does it really matter?
Q. My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these: http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html...
A. 4 March 2011: You really have left yourself open to a lot of criticism here. First, agreeing with everyone else, 13 is way too young if your being intimate. I'm hoping it's just a case of seeing them in his drawer or something. Secondly, if anything your the ... (read in full...)
Why? I get get left out of dating, kissing and my friends houseparties.
Q. hey guys, i was just wondering. you see, i'm fifteen and i've never been on a date nor kissed a guy before. my friends are all starting to go on dates and be kissed now and i feel left out. it's not like I am huge or have an ugly face or somethin...
A. 4 March 2011: It's completely normal :) In my experience, the better and more decent people usually aren't noticed until later on, because at that sort of age, all anyone cares about is looks and wanting to have a boyfriend/girlfriend and doesn't really like ... (read in full...)
What's the deal with his friend who thinks I'm ugly?
Q. So my boyfriend has this friend. Let's call him Joe. So Joe keeps telling my bf that I am ugly. Now Joe has only seen me in person once. He also does not have a girlfriend, just a bunch of different girls that he calls up for sex. Joe constantly...
A. 3 March 2011: He's all the things you listed, and it might be a strange way of showing it, but he might actually like you romantically. Maybe he thinks he can try and tempt your boyfriend with another girl, so he could then, "be your hero" lol. Just a theory. ... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me, now what?
Q. My boyfriend is telling me he has practically cheated on me, and he told me the reason he was telling me because he didn't want me to get upset by hearing it from someone else but i wish he had never told me. When i see him i just can't get mad, so ...
A. 3 March 2011: Firstly, I think Lulu lol is completely wrong, you shouldn't have to look at yourself, there is no excuse for cheating and the idea Lulu is suggesting you could have driven him to it is just rediculous. I don't want to sound condecending, bu... (read in full...)
Help! I think I 'like' my doctor!
Q. Hello :) Straight to the core. I am a 29 year old (single) man. I have been seeing my doctor on a regular basis due to several personal problems. Now, I think I love her. I used to think that I liked her, buuut these feelings are too familiar....
A. 3 March 2011: Hi, I think that you should think about telling her, butttt, be extremely careful with the way you go about it. Whatever you do, don't go all out and say you love her, can't stop thinking about her etc as if she doesn't feel the same way, it wou... (read in full...)
How do I start loving myself and feel worthy? my self esteem is at rock bottom
Q. Will I ever feel good enough is the question. I am nearly 36 and to cut a long story short, I feel pretty worthless and not good enough and not accepted and worry about being judged and people realising this about me. I am fairly sure it stems from ...
A. 2 March 2011: I'll quickly emphasise what other people have said. You really are an amazing person, so many people would have gone off the rails and hid behind the fact that you had a bad start to life, but you didn't. You chose not to be like your parents and ... (read in full...)
Is 2nd base too far at 17?
Q. So, I'm 17 and got to second base with my boyfriend whom I've been seeing for 3 months. I can't say I didn't like it but it made me a bit uncomfortable. Is 17 really an age to going so fast? I would like to take it slower.. but I need to know if ...
A. 2 March 2011: At 17, the only thing that matters is whether you feel comfortable with what you're doing. You sound like your not comfortable with the situation, therefore you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him you don't want to be going so quickly. If ... (read in full...)
What type of girl should I go after?
Q. I have white skin with a light tan, I have medium-long dark blonde hair, I am 13 years old, weigh 40kg and am fairly skinny, I am very bouncy but can change my hyper-ness to help the people around me and will calm when someone needs help and always ...
A. 2 March 2011: haha, to be honest none of that really matters. You sound like your trying to pick a flavour of crisps! There isn't a type of girl you should be going for. The main thing is whether you like a girl or not, not what their weight, looks, or skin tone ... (read in full...)
What is this fluid?
Q. I'm a 17-year old male , but i haven't any ejaculations yet , i only get seminal fluid (transparent fluid) at the tip of my penis but no cum or ejaculation at all , what would that be ??...
A. 2 March 2011: It's pre-cum, and is what it suggests, small amounts of cum dribble out during masturbation / sex before actually ejaculating. Pre-cum actually contains more sperm that the same amount of usual cum, so is just as likely to get a woman pregnant.
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I don't like him anymore but don't want to hurt him
Q. Greetings to all! I have a slight issue that I would like to inform you about. I have this boyfriend, and he likes me a lot, or so he says, and I don't feel the same spark as I did when I first started dating him. We have gone out to the movies r...
A. 1 March 2011: Hey,
I think it's just a case of you needing to let him down really gently. I'm still good friends with my ex's and have never had a bad break up.
As you socialise with him and still like him as a friend, I'd try and break up in the most posi... (read in full...)
Our relationship status is not public on my boyfriend's facebook account...he had modified the settings so that only I could see the "in a relationship" status!!
Q. So its been almost 2 years that my bf and I have been together. We've had our ups and downs like any other couple, but what separates us from any ordinary couple is that we learn to work with what we've learned from our past arguments, however, a ...
A. 1 March 2011: I know that some people don't like having their relationship status and other details being shown, but I personally would want people to see I'm in a relationship, it reassures you as a girl that your with someone that wants to be with you, and ... (read in full...)
Why am I in love with the wrong guy?
Q. I just broke up with my bf because he wasnt trying hard enough. There is another guy I know who has liked me at a distance for several years now, and has been talking to me more and more recently. He's everything I'd want in a guy, and has all...
A. 1 March 2011: Hey,
I think the problem here is nothing more complicated than the fact that you still have feelings for your old bf. Now I obviously don't know how long you were with him, but if you've just broken up with him, you'll still have feelings for him.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to take the plan b twice within 2 days?
Q. Ok my boyfriend and I had sex for the firts time with out any protection, no condom and I am not in any birth control pill, I was my firts time and he didn't come inside me, I was so freak out because I defenately didn't want to end pregnant so I ...
A. 1 March 2011: Firstly, if you learnt your lesson, why on earth did you have unprotected sex again?!
I can't be certain but I don't think it will protect you from the second time. The best thing for you to do is get down the Doctors as soon as possible - The lo... (read in full...)
Have you ever had an awkward encounter with an ex?
Q. My ex and i broke up two months ago-ish and i see him every day in school, and run into him and his new girlfriend alot.. talk about awkward! If you have any similar experiences, i'd love to hear them....
A. 1 March 2011: haha, I have! When I was in 6th form here (about 16 / 17) a month or so after me and an ex broke up she and another one of my friends started going out. It was all made a bit more awkward as we were all part of the same social group, socialising ... (read in full...)
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