Its always up to me to make the first move
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. It seems that I always have to make the first move every single time to call her or even ask her out, and when she is feeling moody due to work, she doesn'...
A. 23 January 2009: I think it is something that you should both talk about. Have you done some astrology research? What is your sign what is her sign. Check it out it tells you a lot about some of the characteristics of a person with that sign and it may help you to ... (read in full...)
What would she do without me?
Q. To make a long story short...... I ordered ''The Magic of Making Up'' by TW Jackson. Its a step by step guide to win back the one you love. I read completely through the book, ready to follow the steps (one of them which is to not contact your ex)...
A. 23 January 2009: I think it is great you are communicating. I don't think that you need a book to tell you how to win your ex back. First analize the situation. What did she say when you decided to break up. What was the main issue. Have you worked on those issues. ... (read in full...)
I am so so paranoid for no reason.
Q. I am 18 and so is my boyfriend.. I have a problem... seriously! I'm an over thinker about everything (paranoid in other words), when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend. I have been with him for 2 years and we are very close. He is an ...
A. 23 January 2009: First and foremost I think that although he has forgiven you, you have not forgiven yourself. You need to forgive and trust yourself if you really want this to work. Let me tell you from experience...if you continue to accuse him you will get what ... (read in full...)
A month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with.
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for two months now. Just about a month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with. I was shocked at first and then found out the other girl started dating another guy. Just recently I've ...
A. 23 January 2009: I know that it is hard sweetie but I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about the situation and express without crying how it makes you feel to know that his heart does not belong to you and you alone. I know you want to be there for him but ... (read in full...)
In love, but getting into boring habits!
Q. soo..seems petty but..! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and were really good friends before that. Hes lovely, attractive, charming, outgoing and I really genuinely love him. We had sex for the first time about 8months in...
A. 23 January 2009: I think that you need to figure out what it is about him that you love. Are you involved in outside activities as well? Have you talked to him about it because he may be feeling the same way and it is best to communicate with eachother before one or ... (read in full...)
Would stomach growling turn you off?
Q. This is a bit of an embarrassing question but it's something I deal with personally. Would it turn you off if the person you were interested in had a stomach that growled loudly all the time? My tummy always seem to growl and it's really ...
A. 23 January 2009: are you hungry when it happens? Try keeping a bottle of water around and when you feel like it is going to happen drink some to see if it stops it. Personally I wouldn't care. Good luck! I hope this Helps!... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me? (All comments are appreciated)
Q. I've had a crush on a classmate of mine for a while. At my lunch one of his buddies yelled out "hey (his name) likes you." For a while he was always staring at me in class and asking me to borrow my pens and always sat near me. Despite all of this ...
A. 23 January 2009: Well, I think the question is do you like him? If you like him then you should start sending him signals to let him know if you are too shy to tell him. When walking by in the halls say Hello_(his name)_ how are you today, give him a big smile and ... (read in full...)
Unsure if we're compatible...
Q. Unsure if we're compatible?!? He's a Gemini and I'm a Virgo. Both born 1981. ...
A. 23 January 2009: you really should look at the way you and he feel together, how you treat one another to find out your compatability. To use a sun sign to find out your compatability is really not the best because there are other factors like the moon sign the ... (read in full...)
Don't know if I should give her another chance...
Q. for what happened the second time this is the link i ended up giving her another chance but im not sure if i should give her another. http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...
A. 23 January 2009: I think that you need to figure out what it is about her that you like so much. I don't think that it is her per say that you are interested in but more so the way she makes you feel when you are together. I don't think that you should give her ... (read in full...)
What can I wear that will make him just say, "Damn she's Hot!"
Q. Going out on a third date with this guy I'm dating. Not sure what to wear to a club. What will make him just say, "Damn she's Hot!" And make him want to take me back to his apartment, rip my clothes right off, and have his way with me...Ummm not ...
A. 23 January 2009: of course he thinks of you that way. You could probably wear an old pair of sweat pants and messy hair and he would want to do that to you otherwise he wouldn't be taking you on a third date! Most guys know within minutes if they are interested in ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend and her sister.
Q. Recently, I asked about what to do with my girlfriend's sister. I love my girlfriend and her sister. We all do things together and recently it's elevated to the point where my girlfriend's sister sleeps over all the time and on a few occasions ...
A. 23 January 2009: I think that it is a questionable decision. How do you know that your gf sister is o.k. with you having her and her sister? What if she wants you for herself? If you think your gf would break up with you then you have a decision to make. What is it ... (read in full...)
I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me.
Q. I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me. It seems like everytime im with someone, i keep thinking that they can change and believe them, and always giving them chances. Thats my problem because it is like im waiting ...
A. 23 January 2009: You still have a lot of life ahead of you. I think that it is a good idea to focus on you. What do you want out of life? Are you going to colllege, what kind of future do you hope for. Believe me, every woman no matter their age goes through this ... (read in full...)
I feel so lost. Please help.
Q. I'm so lost at this moment. Me and my hubby met back when I was 18. We met in college and we fell in love. We soon after got engaged and we married the following summer. We married because he was wanting to go into the military and his...
A. 23 January 2009: I think that you were young and did things for the wrong reasons as I did in my marriage and recent dissolution of it. I was with him from 16 married at 19 and divorcing at 25. I don't think it is a good idea to really get involved with anyone for ... (read in full...)
Hurt after being lead on and cheated on, how do I move past this?
Q. How do I get over this guy who just wants me for sex? I fell hard for him and he lead me on with dates and gifts and texting. I found out he was seeing two other girls at the same time and when he got into a relationship over the summer, he cheat...
A. 22 January 2009: Hi Hun, Don't beat your self up! I am sure you are a beautiful, amazing, intellectual young woman that any man would be lucky to have. You need to look at the situation and break it down. Ask your self Why you allow this. What is it about him that ... (read in full...)
My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it.
Q. I have a problem with jealousy. I have a boyfriend and we're dating for 2 years and I still can't believe him. My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it. I'm jealous when he goes out with friends ...
A. 22 January 2009: You have to find out where your feelings of jealousy is coming from. Has he cheated on you before? Does he do things to make you think something is going on? If he is going out with other girls it would be rude of him not to at least invite you and ... (read in full...)
I was wondering if when a boy teases a girl, does it ALWAYS necessarily mean that they like the girl?
Q. Hey, I was wondering if when a boy teases a girl, does it ALWAYS necessarily mean that they like the girl? Or can a boy just be naturally annoying. Because there's a boy in my class who always gets up in my face and just says little things to me ...
A. 22 January 2009: He probably likes you. But just because he does is no cause for you to act any differently towards him. I had many boys that were interested in me when I was in high school and I didn't treat them any differently than I did prior to my knowing that ... (read in full...)
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