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Hello Everyone!

I have an avid interest in the way we think and communicate, specifically within relationships. I have a good sense of myself and have no trouble sharing it with others. I yearn to understand as much as possible by listening and through logic.

I work as an administrative assistant and enjoy all the different tasks that come with my job.

I am a people person and love to socialize.

Some of my favorite activities include: dancing, swimming, canoing, hiking, camping, skiing, gardening among others.

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What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?

Q.   Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months......

A.   10 July 2009: Not too much would change I wouldn't expect. You may find that things are a rather tight fit at first but the vagina has the ability to adapt and soon enough it would feel the same as it always did. I would just suggest taking your time the first ... (read in full...)

I have a thing for my cousin's daughter

Q.   I have a thing for my cousin's daughter. We are both single and we are far from children. She is very bright and interesting, and there is a physical appeal. We spoke recently at a party and she actually told my mother in a telephone conversation ...

A.   10 July 2009: She would be considered your second cousin if she is your cousin's daughter so you are related. I guess it would come down to how everyone involved felt about the situation. I actually know someone who had a relationship with there first cousin ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my girlfriend I don't think I'm ready yet?

Q.   My girlfriend who I have been going out with for over a year and a half. I love her so much and would do anything for her. Now lately, we have been messing around saying sex stuff. But obviously cos we r both gay. (im bi and she is a lesbian), but ...

A.   9 July 2009: Wait until you are completely comfortable. If she cares about you she will understand. There is no need to rush it. The experience will be much more enjoyable for you if you are ready and you will know when you are. best of luck... (read in full...)

I am tempted by another girl while being with another

Q.   I love this girl right... But i'm already in a relationship and I don't want to cheat... ever. I mean they're both amazing and even my current lover notices me eying her off occasionally but doesn't tell me off, she knows i'm loyal but i'm getting ...

A.   9 July 2009: If you are feeling that the attraction to your new interest is more powerful than what you feel for your current girlfriend then perhaps you should break it off with her and see if there is a possibility for a relationship with this new girl. It is ... (read in full...)

Should I give up my married lover? He says he wants to break up with his wife... again.

Q.   I know this is the same old scenario and I have only myself to blame, but I really am at my wits end. I have been involved in a relationship with a married man for over 12 months now. His wife knows about us and has done since day one pretty much. ...

A.   9 July 2009: You should both dump him. Then perhaps he won't be so willy nilly about what he wants in the future. Wouldn't it be great if we could all just have one lover for each of day of the week and get away with it! haha Seriously though he is obviously ... (read in full...)

How to get my abusive fiance to leave me??

Q.   i got engaged 4 months ago to a guy 5 years older than me who neither my family nor i knew. His family were friends with some of my parents relatives. It wasn't quite arranged - my family arent quite the typical muslim family - I grew up in ...

A.   9 July 2009: I truly feel for you in your situation. It is hard enough to deal with emotional abuse from someone you care about but in your case you don't even care and to have to listen to him insult you-I understand your frustration. You are an adult and ... (read in full...)

My married lover is stalking me

Q.   My married lover is stalking me - I only found out he was married recently, he gets a group of his mates to help him spy on me too-thing is, from how he's treated me and the fact that he's married he doesnt love me and from how he is with me I'm ...

A.   2 July 2009: He sees you as a possession and is likely insecure that you now know about him being married. He doesn't want you to meet a nice young man who isn't already committed in fear that he may lose his cake. It's not about love, it is about control-be ... (read in full...)

Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!

Q.   Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call y...

A.   2 July 2009: Since you care it is understandable that you are worried. I feel the same way when I haven't heard from my boyfriend and he is out later than he had said he would be. Chances are that there is a reasonable explanation on his part as to why he ... (read in full...)

I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!

Q.   I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...

A.   30 June 2009: It is a convenient relationship for him. Why would he leave. he is getting what he needs and is getting away with neglecting you. Sure it annoys him when you place expectations on him but he can just fake it for a little while or pretend to care ... (read in full...)

I can't seem to get into a relationship!

Q.   I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...

A.   29 June 2009: It is good to see you have goals and have gotten yourself to a place where you are happy in your life. Now to find someone to share that with! Most of us at twenty three are not quite where you are in there life so it is understandable that you ... (read in full...)

I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!

Q.   I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work ...

A.   29 June 2009: I know you love him, unfortunately sometimes love just isn't enough-just like the song says. I have the same problem you do. Someone who punishes me for the things he screws up. You can stay with him a continue this game until finally you feel ... (read in full...)

Can there be love without trust??

Q.   Can there be love without trust? I keep believing there can be, but I am having my doubts and I need your advice. I need opinions so I can have options to choose from. Sorry, but this is going to be a long post. If you have the patience, do rea...

A.   29 June 2009: Sounds like your girlfriend is a bit insecure. It likely does have a lot to do with the fact that you were with another when the two of you met. She knows that there is a chance you may be with someone else while the two of you are still an item. ... (read in full...)

I think he's cheating again..what now?

Q.   Hi everyone Well I will try and keep things short. I have been with my husband for 9 years married for 7. About 4 years ago he had an affair with a woman he worked with. It went on for about 2 years and we were apart. We got back together after al...

A.   14 May 2009: Oh please walk away-he is doing this right in front of you and you are just holding on to a hope that isn't worth your precious time. What a dirt bag he is. You are better off without him and only then will you be able to seek out the possibility ... (read in full...)

Drunken boyfriend is a jerk

Q.   hi im 22 and ive being going out with my curent boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together and hes 1 .i already knew him before so ive known him for about 8 years.ive never been in a relationship like this before he drinks all the time swear ...

A.   14 May 2009: I am sorry to hear you are being mistreated. It could be that he is an angry drunk who only lets out his frustrations when he is that state and ends up over exaggerating them. It could also be that he doesn't give a care about how he is making you ... (read in full...)

Do I have a problem with my direction?

Q.   Hi! I'm a 15-year-old girl who is straight and who loves boys! My sister is a lesbian and she gave me some episodes of the L World to watch last week.I wasn't ok with that coz'i'm not a dyke!!!I watched the show and I loved it!!! Now when I go on...

A.   3 June 2008: Just because you are attracted to watching girls together does not make you a lesbian or even necessarily Bi-sexual. Guys like watching them too but they aren't lesbians, haha. But in all seriousness, there is no reason why you should think that ... (read in full...)

He bled into me. Is this dangerous?

Q.   Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...

A.   29 May 2008: Even if he cut his penis, it is very unlikely that you would have bled it our afterwards for an hour, there is no way he could have lost that much blood. I could be wrong, it's just my opinion. ... (read in full...)

He bled into me. Is this dangerous?

Q.   Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...

A.   29 May 2008: if it is only the 2nd or third time you two have had sex that is still possible that you hymen aka cherry is still partially intact. It likely wasn't him that was bleeding but yourself, especially if it continued to flow for an hour, there is no ... (read in full...)

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

Q.   Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...

A.   29 May 2008: She will be more hurt if she finds out the truth later on, so tell her the truth and let her decide if she thinks you are truly sorry and wants to stay with a man that was so easily tempted. It is gonna hurt her, but she will appreciate your ... (read in full...)

My husband is spending too much time with my dad, and he's neglecting me and our children!

Q.   I've become concerned about my husband lately, as in the past few months he's been spending too much time with my dad, and not enough with me and the kids (two boys, one is 6 years old, the other 8). When they first me, they got on great, and th...

A.   29 May 2008: Wow, it sounds like they are avoiding their family responsibilities completely. If neither of them had the tendency to do this in the beginning than I can understand your concern...but unfortunately your concern isn't important to them....why? I ... (read in full...)

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