Traditional Premature Ejaculation Cures show no results - should I seek medication?
Q. My girlfriend says she doesn't mind my premature ejaculation problem, but she almost always stays wanting more, or gets frustrated or unaroused whenever I start-stop, or climax early. I do pleasure her with oral, fingering and other body conta...
A. 14 April 2011: Dear male,
another article about this. I heard the squeeze thing works.
http://www.menshealth.com/health/6-steps-beat-pe... (read in full...)
Traditional Premature Ejaculation Cures show no results - should I seek medication?
Q. My girlfriend says she doesn't mind my premature ejaculation problem, but she almost always stays wanting more, or gets frustrated or unaroused whenever I start-stop, or climax early. I do pleasure her with oral, fingering and other body conta...
A. 14 April 2011: Dear male,
I heard of a scientifically proven method of how you can actually train not to ejaculate prematurely, not Kegel exercises, unfortunately I haven't found a good link so far. It's quite easy, if I remember it correctly.
Hang on. I'll... (read in full...)
Do girls like crossdressers?
Q. This question is for the girls. How do you feel about a guy who likes to crossdress. Would you date a crossdresser? Would you be involved helping him achieve a feminine lifestyle and look?...
A. 14 April 2011: Dear mishmash,
I wanted to say something about the "grooming" part.
I already helped a crossdresser to dress up and I liked it. I really liked putting on the makeup, watch him wear different outfits and tell him what would suit him etc. I don't... (read in full...)
What are the good things about being single?
Q. I realised yesterday that I've mentioned to one of my friends three times in the past few months that I miss being in a relationship. I was a bit shocked at myself because I don't want to turn into one of those people who feel as if they need to be ...
A. 13 April 2011: My list (I am single for one year now and really like it)
- being able to masturbate in bed without disturbing anyone :)
- being able to watch adult content on tv or on the internet without having to justify yourself
- going out with other singl... (read in full...)
Do girls like crossdressers?
Q. This question is for the girls. How do you feel about a guy who likes to crossdress. Would you date a crossdresser? Would you be involved helping him achieve a feminine lifestyle and look?...
A. 13 April 2011: I LOOOOVE cross dressers!!! Really, I do! I mean, it depends of course, they need to have a good personality as well etc. but I do share this.. I don't know.. fetish (?? sorry if this sounds negative, it's not intended). I'd definitely involve... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my shyness about sex?
Q. I love sex; sweet, romantic, dirty, kinky, I like it all, especially with my current boyfriend, who treats me like a queen and never disappoints me in bed. You'd think that wouldn't be a problem, but I'm shy, so it's always him who initiates ...
A. 13 April 2011: Hi dear lizardqueen, Well, I am actually asking myself if you guys do have a problem at all. He gets as much sex as he wants, you like what he does, I mean, are you aware of how many boyfriends beg their girlfriends to have sex with the... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex? I love him but he hasn't changed much.
Q. I met my X of 4years, and in his drunken stupor, he told me I am the woman he loves. {I still miss him and think about him everyday of my life} The next day he invited me to visit him at his place, and we ended up having sex. we both did not tal...
A. 12 April 2011: Well, I don't know why you two split up but I am sure it had a reason.
You were able to live without him for 4 years. And the only time he told you that you are the woman he loves seems to have been under the influence of alcohol. A lot of peop... (read in full...)
I have a very high libido, and she used to, but now it's almost nonexistent. Please advise.
Q. I am 28, my wife is 24. We have been married for a year and have no kids (yet). We dated for five years before getting married (for school reasons). About a year into dating, we started having sex. Lots. Like three times a day. Most of the time, she ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hi there, I feel sorry for you both. Since you guys won't go to counseling - which maybe wouldn't be a bad idea after all - you will have to sort it out together. The bad thing about these kinds of problems is that they tend to get worse when... (read in full...)
I always get bored. It's happening again. Why and what should I do?
Q. I am 21 years old and i think of myself as a mature adult, i want to have that long term commitment with someone but my problem i have is that i become bored in a relationship very quickly. I am usually loud and very out going, and i enjoy the ...
A. 6 April 2011: Dear anonymous, I also think you are still quite young and if you're not into commitment yet, why force yourself. Maybe in time you'll find out how YOU can spice up a boring relationship.. it's not always the other persons' fault if it gets ... (read in full...)
I want fun sex with multiple guys and girls, with no attachments and no one getting hurt. Where's the harm in that? Are my friends right to tell me not to do it?
Q. Hi there, I've got a problem and it looks like this. I am bisexual, I am young and I need my freedom. I've gotten out of a long pretty sexless monogamous relationship and I am not ready to involve myself in some "serious" stuff again. I just...
A. 6 April 2011: Thank you dear aunts, maybe I can answer some things to make my situation clearer. @janniepeg: maybe you're right and I do associate a lot of bad things with long term relationships. maybe someone will change my mind. but right now just the tho... (read in full...)
I want fun sex with multiple guys and girls, with no attachments and no one getting hurt. Where's the harm in that? Are my friends right to tell me not to do it?
Q. Hi there, I've got a problem and it looks like this. I am bisexual, I am young and I need my freedom. I've gotten out of a long pretty sexless monogamous relationship and I am not ready to involve myself in some "serious" stuff again. I just...
A. 6 April 2011: Hey there, Thanks for your advice, although it seems there are a lot of different opinions on this topic. I decided to just try what I like and not think about it too much, since you never know what happens. ... (read in full...)
Am I weird for wanting to marry the only man I've ever dated?
Q. Hi, I'm a woman, 23 years old, and I have only dated one man seriously in my life. He's my boyfriend at the moment, and we've been together since I was 17 (yeah, first real bf at 17, I was a late bloomer!) He loves me and wants to marry me, ...
A. 9 January 2011: Hi dear,
Don't listen to what other people say - you're happy and this is the only thing that counts.
There will always - really, always - be someone who will criticise your decisions when it comes to love. If you date too much, they say you... (read in full...)
How will having Herpes affect my life?
Q. i feel really disgusted in myself i was diagnosed with herpes 3 months ago and it was the most painful thing i've ever had. i've slept with two people in my adult life. it seems pretty unfair to catch herpes from oral sex with a long term partner ...
A. 4 January 2011: Hi there,
I am sorry for you. It IS unfair :(
I don't have all the medical informations you need, and I don't know how strict the rules of your country are. But I don't believe that this will affect your being a health professional. An... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to work, but I want a man who can be an equal partner and contribute to the relationship. Who is right here?
Q. I've been dating this guy and apart from a few dates at the beginning and the occasional petrol money we split all the bills for the outings about 50/50. He pays slightly more as I am looking for work and he is working. The thing is I don't feel ...
A. 4 January 2011: Hi there, I think that men are "take it or leave it" merchandise, so to say. If you don't like this man as he is, but the only way to imagine a future with him is to change him a lot, then he's just not the right man for you and you are not the ... (read in full...)
What do guys want a girl's vagina to look like?
Q. Do guys like the Inner lips of a girls vagina to be long or small and is it normal for mine to be around 2 inches when i stretch them out?...
A. 4 January 2011: My dear,
Your vagina is completely normal. There are many variations. My inner lips are also longer than the outer ones, and I got no complaints about that ever.
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Do women really prefer more 'masculine' men for sex but less 'masculine' men for relationships?
Q. I've read quite a few articles about evolutionary psychology and the theory that women tend to prefer more masculine men for short term sexual relationships, but prefer less masculine men for long term relationships. As I understand it, the theory ...
A. 22 November 2010: Hi there,
I hear discussions about this topic a lot, and I want to throw in some of my stuff here as well.
I think our social reality is a bit more complex than survival and reproduction, really.
I find it makes a man attractive if he loo... (read in full...)
My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!
Q. I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm ...
A. 8 October 2010: Hi dear,
This post makes me want to give you a big hug.
I'm afraid that anything I am going to say is going to sound shallow, I don't know how exactly I can help you, but I'll try anyway. It seems you've got a bunch of problems like bingeing, fe... (read in full...)
Should I tell her about my past? I'm afraid of what she might think!
Q. I am 39 years old. I was raised in a house filled with deceit. Which is why I am writing today. I met a wonderful woman and have been together for 4 months. I believe in complete openness between lovers to help ensure the best compatibility. I have ...
A. 4 October 2010: Hi there,
I also believe in honesty in relationships. Be open and take the risk she doesn't like the truth. Of course it will hurt if she doesn't, but you will feel so much better if she is accepting you for who you are. To keep your past a secret... (read in full...)
He's sending majorly mixed signals about his desires for a relationship and sex. Is he lying or being legitimate?
Q. Hello Aunties and Uncles. I need some help. I appreciate all advice given! This is a book! I apologize in advance! lol I met a man online months ago. Our relationship began as just casual pen pals and we soon became online friends. A coupl...
A. 4 October 2010: I don't know if he's lying about work, but anyway he sounds very egocentric to me, and from what I hear you should really forget the guy.
If he was really into you, he'd write you in a different way, and his comment was very rude. Really. Ther... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but my heart starts beating so fast I feel like I'm going to die!
Q. I think I have problem and I always been shy to talk about it but I can’t keep it inside me anymore I need help... I am 23 years old and I really want to have baby so badly but the big problem is I can’t have sex I am virgin. I have been trying...
A. 29 September 2010: Hi sweet cuty,
First of all, I am sorry for what you are going through it sounds like you are suffering a lot at the moment.
My advice goes in kind of the same direction as dirtballs'. It sounds like you are getting a panic attack and/ or are ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with my best friend - need some help
Q. Hi there, I'm new to the forum so not sure whether this is the right place. Hope so! I'm currently a student and feeling pretty low at the moment. I'm a 19yr guy and bisexual. Even though I feel "safe" behind a computer screen it feels hard to ev...
A. 28 September 2010: Hi dear anonymous, Wow- your story sounds soo much like mine. I'm a bisexual woman.. but I've been suffering a lot through that. I also fell in love with my best (girl)friend once, and suffered so much. The closeness and desire, the hiding, the ... (read in full...)
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