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im an honest person i will tell it like it is no beating around the bush so to speak am a mum to 3 kids married with problems so kinda cover every area dont be afraid o ask me something im always good humoured and stuff x

I want to seduce him on Valentine's Day - but how?

Q.   This Valentines is going to be myself and my Husbands first Valentines together as a married couple. Im quite shy but with the day thats in it, I would love some suggestions as to how to seduce him. Im trying my best to organise a meal for the night ...

A.   12 February 2009: if your shy like me !! lol cooking a meal is always a great start make it romantic with flowers maybe a suductive card and a glass or two of wine!! it always helps secondly buy yourself some sexy underwear that makes you feel good and sexy unde... (read in full...)

Are there signs, that would tell you, that a man is gay?

Q.   how can i find out if my husband is gay, he refuse to have sex,he has never being the type that likes sex all the time, but he gets mad everytime i ask him what is the problem and get violance when i bring the subject and he doesnt have any male...

A.   3 July 2008: sounds to me like your husband has a lot on his mind wether this being because he is gay or purely for the fact he is worrying about something is there any way you can check his phone/phone bill or email account or even check the history on the ... (read in full...)

Is a curved penis a problem, or am I over reacting?

Q.   my penis curves slightly to the left (about 9 inches if that means anything) is this normal?...

A.   3 July 2008: i think that if you have any concerns then u should see your doctor they deal with this kind of thing everyday so nothing to be embaresses about i do know that all penis's come in different shapes and sizes but im no expert lol good luck x... (read in full...)

I want to become friends with him, and maybe more than that.

Q.   So, there's this guy I live near, and he's my age. He's pretty nice and smart. I've been homeschooled for a little while, but am heading back to regular school in the fall; I went to school with him before. My question is: I want to become friends ...

A.   26 June 2008: being friends is a good way to start hun strike up a converstion with him u have something in common same school ect see where u go from there xx let me know how it goes x... (read in full...)

How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?

Q.   How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....

A.   26 June 2008: some people will say men are men and it means nothing looking at women is something men do!! but how does tht make us feel the woman?? well maybe we compare ourselves to a person we can never be no ones perfect and i can tell u for sure the women in ... (read in full...)

Is having cyber sex with a married man...make me the other woman?

Q.   Does having cyber sex with a married man make me the "other woman"?...

A.   26 June 2008: hw would u feel if it was your husband ?? cyber sex i think is still cheating in a way think about things it dosent make u the other woman because u haven't met up and had sex but what would happen if his wife found your chats on the comp she would ... (read in full...)

I found my husband online dating, please help!

Q.   hi im 22 and my husbands 25 , we've been together 4 years but lately ive been having real trusting problems which isnt healthy for the relationship, you see i found out that he had signed up to a online dating site not just any though a one for ...

A.   26 June 2008: ask him out right why he did it and make him give u an honest answer it may be out of curiosity or not but i would confront him its the only wa your going to find out good luck x ... (read in full...)

How do I show my emotions less and toughen up?

Q.   This isn't a relationship question but i want to know how to i bnecome tougher and stop taking things so personally? like today at work someone said something really horrible to me and i walked off and there were tears burning in my eyes and i...

A.   26 June 2008: hun your only human i think its a good thing you show your emotions,you should walk away from situtions as someimes this makes u the stronger person the people who seem unaffected prob go home and cry too belive me it dosent make u bad person next ... (read in full...)

Is this even possible? Am I talking rubbish?

Q.   Ok so this may seem strange but I was having a feel around my vagina (trying to have a bloody orgasm!) and I notice that there are actually i think two canals running from the entrance of my vagina, i think they go in slightly different directions, ...

A.   31 August 2007: the only thing i can suggest is you go and see your doctor they have seen loads of lady bits in their time so dont be embaressed you can tell them your problem and they can check you out xxx... (read in full...)

Is my mother getting a buzz out of insulting me or something?

Q.   My self-confidence is very low at the minute! And i think its because of my mother. She tends to put me down, i'm a generally happy person and wake up with a smile ready to start the day - then when i go downstairs she'll say like "Gosh, you've got ...

A.   31 August 2007: i dont think your mum realises thats she is hurting you by insulting you she might think she is trying to help you in her own way but i know it dosen't come across like that and tends to hurt you instead maybe you should sit her down and tell her ... (read in full...)

I want to find my biological father - where do I start?

Q.   I want to find my biological father, has anyone got any ideas as to where i can start?? Plz help!!!...

A.   31 August 2007: friends reunited is always a good place to start if you know his first and last name, if your mum is supportive of it ask her some questions about him and see if she can remember an address or tel no. google his name? good luck hun xx ... (read in full...)

Any suggestions for removal of acne.

Q.   How do i get rid of my acne. I have blackheads, pimples, a lot of red markings and scars on my face. How do i get rid of it naturally? Are there any creams i could buy that won't break my budget, and won't make me breakout b/c i have very sensitive ...

A.   10 August 2007: best thing to do is go to your doctor he can examine you and take the best kind of treatment fom there or refer you to a skin specialist good luck hun xx... (read in full...)

Scared to ask the girl I like out....

Q.   Hello, I'am a 14 year old who has a bit of a problam. You see I really really like this girl. But if I ask her out 2 problems can occur. If she says yes then thats great but once the time comes when we break up we will no longer talk and I dont know ...

A.   30 July 2007: i think kenny is right stop thinking about the negatives and be confident about your self for all you know she will say yesand if she doesn't say yes please dont tke it as anything to do with you just move on and meet some new people in time you ... (read in full...)

Does he like me, or is it just him being friendly?

Q.   A guy I recently met through a friend is a super nice and caring guy. I spent a weekend out at the lake with a group of friends, he was there. I live pretty far away, so I don't get to see them often. When I got home I wanted to write him a note ...

A.   30 July 2007: i think he does like you all the signs are there but maybe he is a bt embaressed about telling you how he felt and didn't think you wold reply why not write him another message just asking how he is and how things are going that way its a straight ... (read in full...)

Do you think i should still have sex wit him?

Q.   I'm only 14 and i have had sex wit ma bf and he is 15. i feel comfortable and all that but i don't think i should be doin this. Do you think i should still have sex wit him? He doesn't care if we don't but i don't want to make him unhappy....

A.   30 July 2007: you guys can be happy by not having sex why not go out to places with each other the cinema ect you do seem a little unsure and you know that you are doing something wrong by breaking the law and that is a sensible approach if he is happy not to do ... (read in full...)

Quickest ways of losing weight.

Q.   whats the quickest way to lose weight? im 14, size 12 and weigh 11 stone and i hate the way my body looks. everyone around me and most of my friends are thinner than me and i hate being the big one. ive tried loads of diets but none of them see...

A.   29 July 2007: your still growing hun and people grow at different rates it seems to me like your keeping yourself healthy by keeping fit and eating well which is more than most 14 year olds do so well done and keep it up are u taller tha them? this could also be ... (read in full...)

Quickest ways of losing weight.

Q.   whats the quickest way to lose weight? im 14, size 12 and weigh 11 stone and i hate the way my body looks. everyone around me and most of my friends are thinner than me and i hate being the big one. ive tried loads of diets but none of them see...

A.   29 July 2007: your still growing hun and people grow at different rates it seems to me like your keeping yourself healthy by keeping fit and eating well which is more than most 14 year olds do so well done and keep it up are u taller tha them? this could also be ... (read in full...)

Mum won't let me go round his house, because she thinks we're going to have sex.

Q.   what to do when your mom don't let you go to your boyfriends house because she thinks that ya'll are gonna have s.e.x ...

A.   29 July 2007: your mum is just being worried for you maybe have him round to you house so your mum and boyfriend can get to know each other better and do the same at his house once the parents see how sensible your being they might start to let their guard down ... (read in full...)

I feel always inadequate around my well-dressed friend! How should I deal?

Q.   Hi! I'd really appreciate it if someone could help me out with this little problem I have. There's this girl..she's my bf's close friend's gf and I have got to know her kinda well because she helped me get through a tough time last week and I'm ...

A.   27 July 2007: im more of a jeans and t shirt girl i have never been a girlie girl and i have a friend who is just like yours at first i kind of thought thats what i want to dress like and be like but when i did dress like it it didn't feel like me at all and i ... (read in full...)

How do I break up with someone I care about?

Q.   Is there any advise out there on how to breakup with someone? I know that i should break up with a person i've been dating for quite sometime, but i still really care for her and the idea of hurting her pains me. Of course i'm sure we'll both ...

A.   27 July 2007: no i dont think there is an easy way either way she is going to be hurt but you need to be honest and tell her the truth other wise your going to keep putting it off and you might end up resenting her and arguing for the wrong reasons tell her that ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity to him. I don't know how to get over him :(

Q.   okay im 14 years old and me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. i lost my virginity to him. and now hes dating one of my best friends which is really hard all i ever do is cry over him. what is the best way for me to get over him?...

A.   27 July 2007: i know its hard hun losing your viginity to some one you thought was special is a hard thing to comprehend but boys mature so much slower than girls we act so much more grown up he is still a kid inside his head!! you can't go back on it now ... (read in full...)

I keep hearing the same promises from my husband, but they never follow through!

Q.   Ok, so I've been with my husband for 10 years; we've always had our problems like every other couple. But the last two years have been hell. Both for myself and my children. Well i've told my husband that I'm through with this relationship and am ...

A.   27 July 2007: maybe both of you could go to some relationship councling if you think that it is worth it 10 years together is a long time try to support him in any way possible with his drinking and let him know you are there if he needs to talk on the other hand ... (read in full...)

Do I ignore what the world thinks and do what my heart says?

Q.   I recently ran into my ex. We hit it off, and we started hangin out again. I strongly believe that she is an amazing person, but my family and friends think otherwise because we had a rough going of separate ways. The world truly is against us ...

A.   27 July 2007: i think you should go with your heart your family and friends are just worried for you but if you think that the relationshp will work go for it and prove them wrong in time they will see that you were meant for each other ... (read in full...)

If his semen comes out of me after sex, is my chance of conceiving reduced?

Q.   i have been sexually active for a year with my partner,as it is both our first times we are unsure if the semen is supposed to come back out of my vagina after intercourse?it appears to be all of his semen and we are trying for a baby at the ...

A.   27 July 2007: you can stll get pegnant hun take a test or go to the docs this will ease your mind... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if he is cheating.

Q.   I have been married for a little over a year, my husband and I fight constantly. I think he is cheating but I am not sure. I found a few phone numbers but nothing that confirms he has dated or had sex with another women. He has outside children...

A.   27 July 2007: trust is a hard thing they say if you don't trust there is no relationship but its hard when you kinda think some thing is going on i think you should just be honest we always dont like the answers but at least we know then sit him down talk about ... (read in full...)

Worried I might be pregnant and people will think I'm a slut

Q.   please help me ive had sex about 3 weeks ago it really scared me as im really young but i wanted to do it, he has been with me much more then 6 months hes really good to me but ive got scared when we was in the middle of it he goes 'is it still on...

A.   27 July 2007: If you have come on your period then there is a slim chance you are preggers but I would still do a test just to put your mind at rest because it's obviously still bothering you hun. XXX... (read in full...)

Any ideas on what to get my girlfriend of 6 months for her birthday?

Q.   Hey .. im just asking .. what should i get my girlfriend of 6 months for ther birthday .. i want to gfet her somthing nice .. and i need some ideas .. thank you .. very much...

A.   27 July 2007: After 6 months you should kinda know her quite well, have you slept together? Underwear is always a good one (tasteful though). Ask a female friend what kind of stuff a girl likes and they can give you a basic idea,just for the record I like - 1.... (read in full...)

Worried I might be pregnant and people will think I'm a slut

Q.   please help me ive had sex about 3 weeks ago it really scared me as im really young but i wanted to do it, he has been with me much more then 6 months hes really good to me but ive got scared when we was in the middle of it he goes 'is it still on...

A.   27 July 2007: Listen you don't need to tell anybody just yet what has happened if you know you are going to be on your period next week just wait, take a test and go from there. There are lots of options waiting for you at the other end hun. 1. If your not pre... (read in full...)

I still have feelings for my husband who I'm seperated from, how can I get over him?

Q.   hi there i am new to this my question is how do i get over my husband. we have been together for 19 years and have 2 girls. We seperated last september and he has been seeing someone for the past 8-10 weeks. He has caused problems during our ...

A.   27 July 2007: If I'm honest I think the relationship is over between both of you and it takes time to get over someone, it's like a grieving process but think of all the bad things he has done to you, no child support, taking drugs, calling you names... does this ... (read in full...)

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