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I hooked up with an older guy who turns out to be my cousin! Do I come clean about this?

Q.   please help me what do i do!!.last night i went to a party and drank more then i should (im under age)..i hooked up with this guy that is about 8years older then me and ive known him all my life. Today i woke up with my sister calling and saying ...

A.   11 October 2011: You didn't mention whether it was a first cousin. I cannnot tell you what to do, but on the general topic of marrying cousins and having children (and I assume that is the real issue here) I can point you to the best published facts. You could get ... (read in full...)

I want more than my cousin wants to give

Q.   earlier this me and my cuz went out to a night club we both had beeb drinking that night so as the night went on we startedto dance i notice that we were dancing kinda close to each other she never moved or said anything so i startedto dance closer ...

A.   3 October 2011: Maybe she is feaked out by the cousin thing. You didn't mention whether you were first cousins. I'd suggest getting the facts on cousins and babies. After all, if you are thinking love you are thinking babies, even if you are thinking "no." The ... (read in full...)

My sister and our cousin are falling in love with each other and its making me very uncomfortable!

Q.   I'm 21, my sister is 25 and my cousin is 23 (we are 2nd cousins). I know my cousin has liked my sister for a long time (in fact, quite a few of our cousins have liked my sister) but yesterday he wanted to talk to me about this and he confessed that ...

A.   16 September 2011: If you think your sister is in love with somebody who can't be trusted, I guess that's a problem with anybody, cousin or not. On the cousin thing, here's an article about how cousin marriages turn out in terms of number of children and grand ... (read in full...)

I really love my second cousin, how can I cope with this?

Q.   Hey people, I posted a similar question related to this but I want new answers. Also, I really appreciate you guys and girls for helping me out and I have a problem. Please don't say ewwwwww, or anything rude. Be mature, if not don't answer it. If ...

A.   12 September 2011: At my advanced age I don’t think I’d have the courage to face being a teenager at all. (Gosh. Do people even say “teenager” any longer?) And as far as being awkward or annoying, I have never learned a cure. BUT I have found out that the biology ... (read in full...)

My cousin is flirting with me!

Q.   So I find this a bit weird as I can't really talk to anyone about this. My cousin started flirting with me and it all started last year. I told him once not to and he avoided me due to embarrassment. But he started it again. Anyway he's been ...

A.   10 September 2011: You didn't mention whether that was first cousin or more distant. If it's first, the the biology is not ideal, possibly worse than a total stranger, but I haven't seen good numbers on that. Before screening for Rh factor was available, first co... (read in full...)

Are third cousins blood related?

Q.   So, i have this third cousin. Hes my grandpas, brothers, daughters, son. He just told me hes in love with me. We met last summer, and we didnt know we were realted. And we both gained feelings for eachother. I love him, he loves me. But we're ...

A.   1 September 2011: Sorry. In that reference I said volume 329. It should have been 219.... (read in full...)

How can I confess my feelings towards my cousin?

Q.   How and When can I confess my feeling towards my cousin? She is my third cousin to be exact... but i think the word "cousin" have corrupted it all. Here's a detail background on how we've met. In 2004, around the beginning of the fourth an...

A.   30 August 2011: Can't give you any advice on approaching folks. But I can steer you to an article that relates to cousin marriages. According the the article, it's a good thing. At least if you want children and grandchildren. And third cousins is about Ideal. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my cousin and I'm scared to tell her

Q.   hey im 15 years old and im in love with my first cousin shes 13. me and her get along really good and she does not know that i love her and its hard i want to tell her but cant. i'm worred cause she might not talk to me or she might tell my mom or ...

A.   25 August 2011: I can't give advice. But I have some information for you to balance some of the advice you might get. Go to Sciencemag.org and spend a few bucks buying An Association Between Kinship And Fertility of Human Couples. Agnar Helgason, Snaebj... (read in full...)

I told my cousin I am attracted to her. She doesn't feel the same way

Q.   Ok to start I have this problem I think I'm in love with my cousin or maybe it's just a lust. Im 28 and she's 22 I always been close with her since she was a teenager but this attraction didn't start until late last year. I don't know why it started ...

A.   25 August 2011: Can't give you advice, but I can steer you to some information. Spend a few bucks if it matters to you and go to sciencemag.org and order An Association Between Kinship And Fertility of Human Couples. Agnar Helgason, Snaebjoern Palsson, Daniel ... (read in full...)

How should I ask him to dance?

Q.   Hey everybody, So here's the deal. I think I've fallen in love with my cousin, and no matter what anyone says I'm not gonna change my mind, because this is love. I can't control my emotions. I met so many guys but I can't get over him, Every time ...

A.   22 August 2011: It's quite far from my own social whirl, so I have no advice. On the other hand, it appears that third cousin is just about an ideal mate from a biological perspective if in a few years you're going to think about marrying. Here's an artilce you ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my second cousin but she doesn't love me back

Q.   my mother's sister's husband's brother's daughter. i am in love with her she calls me her second cousin . i really need an answer and she doesn't love me, i am like addicted to her. i know that i cant do that but i cant control my feelings ...

A.   20 August 2011: You should feel good about yourself. Your aren't blood relatives, and even if you were it would be no bad thing at second cousin. Here is an article you might want to read. An Association Between Kinship And Fertility of Human Couples. Agnar ... (read in full...)

In love with my third-cousin

Q.   Dear Cupid My 3rd cousin n i were in love, but we never had anything. the family notice we had feelings for each other. He's was forbidden to be with me. We grow apart. we older now n and just got in contact. We still in love. Is it okay to be wi...

A.   10 August 2011: Good question. Important issue. First a minority view. There was an article, I think in Nature magazine entitled "An advantage of promescuity." What they found was that primates (lemurs, monkeys, apes, humans) come with two social norms. Some are ... (read in full...)

Are third cousins blood related?

Q.   So, i have this third cousin. Hes my grandpas, brothers, daughters, son. He just told me hes in love with me. We met last summer, and we didnt know we were realted. And we both gained feelings for eachother. I love him, he loves me. But we're ...

A.   4 August 2011: Well, yes. And that is a good thing. Firs a minority view. There was an article, I think in Nature magazine entitled "An advantage of promescuity." What they found was that primates (lemurs, monkeys, apes, humans) come with two social norms. ... (read in full...)

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