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He resents me going out in the day and my friends all say he is being unreasonable!!

Q.   Hiya everyone !, Im writin for some advice because for the past 6 weeks my 3 children have been off school for the summer holidays, and i also have my nephew during the school holidays so i've been stuck in the house most days. I have been really ...

A.   9 September 2007: Hiya, im just respondin to trevs reply. I asked him if he is happy at work and he says he is, he has recently changed his job to one he enjoys. He also sometimes even gets funny with me if im on the p.c. Im just sick of feelin guilty if im doin ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time for my past, and it makes me miserable!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am writing with tears on my eyes 'cause devastated. I will try to make my story short. I met my bf while in college and while in college I acted a little crazy and mess around with a couple of guys. My bf and I were not together...

A.   8 August 2007: Hi, I think you need to sit your boyfriend down and tell him that your "past" has been and gone. Do not feel ashamed of it as it has made you the person you are today, and he must like the person you are.. to be with you. Tell him that if he cannot ... (read in full...)

Do you think i deserve to be treated in this way?

Q.   please help!!! my boyfriend is starting to be very controlling, for instance he always wants me to do what he says, listen to him, leave him be when he doesnt want me around and on top of that he is so mean to me. He talks to me like I am a little ...

A.   7 August 2007: Hiya, before your boyfriend treats you with any respect you have to "respect" yourself. Men sometimes try to control their girlfriends to test the boundaries and the more you let them the further they push. Now is the time to stand up for yourself, ... (read in full...)

Really worried about this discharge, anyone know what it might be ?

Q.   hiya,i need a little bit of help please. i have noticed that for about a week now ive had viginal discharge,its clear and quite slimy,it doesnt smell. i have just gone to the loo and when i wiped myself there was quite a lot on the loo paper. also i ...

A.   22 May 2007: Hi, I get a lot of discharge and pain in the side of my stomach when im ovulatin, if this pain is about 2 weeks after your period then i think this is what you'r experiencing. I used to get it every month and it was quite painful. I am now on the ... (read in full...)

The ex is making impossible threats....What do I do???

Q.   I have been dating a man for 4 years and he has 2 children with his ex-wife. We have lived together for 1 year. She doesn't want them to know that we are dating and have a one year old child of our own together. I have met the children when they ...

A.   2 May 2007: I think the ex isnt over him yet and is jealous of your relationship, and maybe tellin the kids would make it more final. The children would be more hurt if they found out that everyone had been lyin to them, is it really the children he doesnt want ... (read in full...)

Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?

Q.   Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?...

A.   2 May 2007: I have a tatoo on the small of my back and i have been in a realtionship for 10 years. I cant believe you could think a girl slept around just because of a tatoo (i certainly dont) and i think its really small minded of any males that think that ... (read in full...)

He keeps texting this other girl at work, we have been together 20 years and I don't want to lose him. How do I handle this?

Q.   Hiya everyone!! i wrote on here for some advice a couple of months ago and it was really helpful and now im having a few problems again, about the same thing really. The problems started about 6 months ago when my boyfriend was ringing and texting a ...

A.   2 May 2007: hiya, just to clarify we have been together "10" years not 20 like the title says (he is 47 i am 29) and thankyou for any advice.... (read in full...)

He doesnt work, he spends his dole money on drink, so when it comes to going out I have to pay!!!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 4 months. (We dont live together)I Only see him at weekends because we live in different places. The problem is he drinks. He doesnt work. When he gets his dole money the 1st thing he does his spend it on al...

A.   5 April 2007: The best thing i think you can do is, next time you meet, make up some huge bill that you have to spend all your wages on and plead poverty. Try doin this for the next few times you see him. When he begins to realise you aren't going to pay for his ... (read in full...)

Very uncomfortable with this female friend of his--she still sends him sexy pics! What can I do?

Q.   I recently got married to a man I love very much. Our relationship is good and he makes me feel better about myself than any other man has. We've been together a year. He has a female friend that he talks to and texts on his phone though that he ...

A.   4 April 2007: Hi there, sorry you are going through this problem. I have recently been through a similar problem. My bf was txtin and ringin a girl from work. I found out by lookin on the pc at our mobile account (it had been goin on for about 3 months). I gave ... (read in full...)

Do I just tolerate it or is there a way to get my husband back and lose this woman?

Q.   My husband and I dated off and on for nearly 6 years before we got married last June. He is very outgoing, social and even flirtatious which is often fine with me as I too can be. He met a married woman about 2 months ago and has since been ...

A.   3 March 2007: I have been havin problems exactly like this for a few months. My bf was secretly textin a woman from his work and ringin her and when i found out (by havin a sneaky look at his messages on his mobile) i asked him what was goin on and he said ... (read in full...)

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