I feel like men don't want to enter a relationship with me because I have a child.
Q. I'll try to keep this short. I'm 25 years old and I have a 6 year old daughter I've been dating for the past 4 years since I split from her father. The problem I'm having is I feel like men don't want to enter a relationship with me because I have a ...
A. 3 June 2014: I know that his is probably not what you want to hear, but sadly alot of men in this age range are not interested in bringing up a child, let alone taking care of another man's child. However, there are guys out there who would not mind this, though ... (read in full...)
My LDR can see prettier women in porn, so why bother taking it to the next level?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and we have not yet been sexual in person . Next time we meet we will take it to the next level but in the meantime we enjoy that online but I'm worried about how I can possibly keep my bf interested when he ...
A. 28 May 2014: Sigh, this question was, in one way or another, often discussed on this site. I can tell you right away; Porn is a fantasy, we Men are visual creatures. I am in a long relationship too, well she only lives 2 hours away so it's not that bad, but ... (read in full...)
She got drunk and slept with someone -- do I forgive her?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months, never had an argument never fought and we were completely honest to each other for the whole time. We trusted each other very well we bond great and its like she is the perfect one for me and I ...
A. 21 May 2014: Surely this isn't the first time she is drunk, so she possible knew how she would act. Did she tell you right away or after a while? You could try again, though remember that the trust is completely gone and it will take a long time to rebuild it. ... (read in full...)
27 year old female and have never had a boyfriend....advice?
Q. I'm 27 year old female and have never had a boyfriend. I have had sex only once, when I was 22 with a friend who I trusted (so I knew i felt comfortable even though I only did it to "get it over with". I don't regret this but for the most part being ...
A. 16 May 2014: One thing in your text bothers me, you say that you are, up until now, only interested in unobtainable men. Could it be that single men don't give you any sort of thrill? Did you ever have any conflict with men that left some kind of scar behind ... (read in full...)
I feel like I failed as a girlfriend
Q. I'm feeling hurt and in need of some advice.. I talked to my ex boyfriend recently (whom I am still in love with) and he said although I was "great" he was unhappy in our relationship. I am very hurt by this because I really tried my absolute best...
A. 16 April 2014: Let the emotions out, the anger, sadness, everything. You'll be able to think more clearly afterwards. It takes two to dance tango, and he was not the right person for it. You may have tried your best, but he did apparently not. There is nothing ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is WAY too much into gaming
Q. Hi guys. Alright.. so I recently got engaged to a wonderful young man. There's only one problem. His ONLY interest seems to be videogames. I ask him what he's passionate about and he literally has no answer. All he does all day, every day is play ...
A. 16 April 2014: You know, you should really have a serious chit chat with your partner. Gaming is good in moderation, I know that myself now after years of hardcore gaming, but he is clearly overdoing it.
Talk to him about it, explain to him that you have not... (read in full...)
When men watch porn, are they pretending it's happening to them?
Q. When men watch porn are they pretending it's happening to them? Are they pretending they are the male actor? I'm told they aren't, I don't understand what they get from it if that's not the case....
A. 16 April 2014: Porn...
No, the porn I sometimes watch is somewhat... special and I do not want to participate in that stuff even remotely. It is just something to get off quickly.
Porn is boring as hell, though if you're single it's better than nothing. Not... (read in full...)
Men: is this a real belief?
Q. Question for the gentlemen only please :) This doesn't actually relate to me as such, but it's something that I heard and thought was ridiculous. I was talking to my male friend and we were discussing girlfriends and things and I ask...
A. 7 April 2014: Pretty sure he also believes the toothfairy exists or that the earth is flat.
A specific colour does not make someone a liar.... (read in full...)
Still a virgin at 23. Am I damaged goods?
Q. I apologize if this comes off a bit long but I type too much. I am a male virgin, I've never kissed a girl or been on a date. I'm finishing up an associates and looking to get a bachelor's. I'm a geeky type of guy who's field of desire is art (i...
A. 7 April 2014: I've been, and I still am to some degree, in your situation. You don't need the body of a bodybuilder or huge muscles. Try to stay fit, basic exercises, to show others that you take care of yourself. Look fresh and keep a good hygiene. Be yourself ... (read in full...)
Am I only the one who only gets chances with extremely unattractive people or people with strangeness?
Q. Am I only the one who only gets chances with extremely unattractive people or people with strangeness? This has probably been asked before, I don't get it anyone I like doesn't like me back or they've done something unforgivable, yet unattractive...
A. 3 April 2014: Sorry to say this OP, but you sound like really high maintenance. Ever thought about why only "unattractive" people compliment you? Maybe you are not as good looking as you think you are, otherwise a attractive man would have already asked you ... (read in full...)
Can a man control his arousal?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have decided to get married before sex. This is his decision. I am divorced on my mid thirties and he is on his mid twenties and saids to be a virgin. Well turns out he's religious aswell. When we kiss and fondle heavily , ...
A. 1 April 2014: Well, being in my midst twenties, no I can't control my erections, that damn thing has a mind of its own. You can get an erection pretty much without thinking about anything remotely sexual. And because he is a virgin too, something smells fishy. ... (read in full...)
I'm a single mum at 25 and worried I will never meet someone to date!
Q. Hi, I know how pathetic this sounds but I am so fed up with being single! I am 25 and a single mum, and just wish I could meet someone. People tell me am pretty but yet no one asks me out! I was with my daughters father for 2 years and he was a lo...
A. 27 March 2014: Female Anonymous wrote some pretty good stuff, I would also add a bit from my point of view as a guy in your age range.
We guys don't go only after looks, personality is important for us to, well at least for me. I do not know how you look or ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't a girl wanted to date me yet?
Q. Is it wrong to ask/wonder when, how, if I'll ever meet a girl who wants to get to know me, date, hold hands, etc...? It's coming up to my birthday and I've just been thinking more about it since summer is right around the corner and it would be nice ...
A. 12 March 2014: You know, I am, to some degree, in a similar position and around your age. The only difference between me and you is that I am dating someone, maybe not succesful, but a date is a date and gives experience. I've found my date through dating sites, ... (read in full...)
Why did she start to show interest when I ignored her? Should I pursue her?
Q. Hi I am an individual who doesn't believe in mind games and find it a big turn off! I was chasing a girl and dated her for a while until suddenly she became distant. I thought maybe she's not interested so I confronted her. She didn't give me a...
A. 6 March 2014: Woops, embarrassing typo there. I meant Cerberus... (read in full...)
He's gone a bit cold after our date.
Q. Sorry to ask such a banal question but I'm confused and don't know what to do. I have little experience of (healthy) dating and relationships so I would appreciate some advice. I met a guy a couple of weeks ago, we clicked, met for coffee and t...
A. 6 March 2014: Contact him and ask for another date, it's that simple. If he says "no thanks", then you can be for sure that he isn't in to you and can forget about him and lay your mind at rest. It's not always the guys job to initiate everything. If my date ... (read in full...)
Why did she start to show interest when I ignored her? Should I pursue her?
Q. Hi I am an individual who doesn't believe in mind games and find it a big turn off! I was chasing a girl and dated her for a while until suddenly she became distant. I thought maybe she's not interested so I confronted her. She didn't give me a...
A. 6 March 2014: Cerebus says it right.. even if it's in a somewhat rude way.
She isn't interested in you but strings you along for her ego. Ignore her or just get the deed done like Cerebus said.
Being "confused" is in my opinion just a lame excuse for stringen... (read in full...)
She cheated on me with my cousin but now wants me back?
Q. My wife cheated with my cousin she said it was my falt i was in jail at the time she. said she didn't feel loved now I'm out she says she want me back i feel that she was lusting for him but now I'm hurt and don't no if i wanna be with her what ...
A. 1 March 2014: Don't. Take. Her. Back.
You're better off without this women. You didn't write much, but I assume that when she confessed she never mentioned once that she felt sorry to have hurt you? Keep your dignity and stay away from this women.... (read in full...)
I am waiting for the text that will ruin my weekend ...
Q. Hello. I will probably get the answer to this question either later on today or tomorrow from the source, but I was just curious to find out other people's opinions and whether or not other girls or guys out there have had a similar experience. I...
A. 1 March 2014: I've had a similar situation some time ago, it ended with the dreadful words "You are a good friend"... Well everybody know what that means.... (read in full...)
If a young female sleeps around, does it change the views men have of them?
Q. Okay! I'd like some opinions on this please. I am a college student and I have a lot of female friends who are my age (17-18) who simply enjoy to have NSA sex, one night stands, and FWB's. ...
A. 26 February 2014: Personally I stay away from girls / women who sleep around simply because it gives me the impression that they will not settle for one person and may cheat later in a relationship. Also the risk that they got an STD is higher... even if they used ... (read in full...)
I don't think she's given me the full story about this man!
Q. I have been married for 7 years. Everything was great for the first 5 1/2 years then in the fall of our sixth year things changed she became distant and sex which up till then was great it suddenly stopped everytime I approached her about it she ...
A. 11 February 2014: Seeing as she has become distant and sex has gone down... it may be that she's into him a bit more. Combine that with her helping him with work and the concert and you got a basic understanding of what may be happening there. Hopefully it's not what ... (read in full...)
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